Wrong and absurd things, they pass on the urge to be stronger. Truth has never known such a thing as passing on generations; it has always been celibate. ---- Zhang Fangyu
In the traditional Chinese concept, whether a family can grow and develop is inextricably linked to the number of offspring in the next generation, and this concept has been passed down to the present day without any great change. Only with the development of the times, people's minds are more open, for some traditional concepts also appeared some questioning voice. In addition, in today's fast-paced living environment, people's minds are changing too quickly, so there is a group of people who choose not to have children for the sake of life, and they are the Dinks.
The Dinks first appeared in the 1990s for a variety of reasons, the first of which is that couples want to realize their own self-worth and choose to give up having children, and the second is because they want to make their own lives easier, and don't want to be dragged down by their own easy lives because of their offspring. There is also a small number of people's ideological awareness is relatively high, they expressed concern about the future of China's population problems, and therefore chose not to give birth to the present
In order to live an easy life, the choice of Dink
Country's earliest batch of Dink family has retired, their life is really living as desired? The first family came from the ordinary working families, Uncle Wang and Aunt Yang, two people in the marriage before, are the company's senior workers, coupled with the wave of the times at that time, so the two people's life is very good, the two decided to do the Dink couples are in love, but also this decision also let them in the marriage of life is very little pressure, the work of the work they are comfortable, life is also no need to because of the offspring of the many chores and annoyance. They were able to do their work well and did not have to worry about the many chores of their offspring in their lives. Their state of life at that time is also the biggest luxury of many couples at that time, in the view of the time, they are very sweet, just along with the growth of time, their age is getting older and older, once a head of black hair into silver hair is the best witness.
The two only realized that when they reached a certain age, money and status became less important to them. Especially two people in a tour, the old partner sudden cerebral hemorrhage thanks to the Wang uncle emergency hospital to let its life without worry, in the hospital to take care of Aunt Yang during the Wang uncle busy back and forth, a moment do not dare to stop, but after all, it is the age of the people, in the care of the old partner during the Wang uncle also felt his body is not as good as it used to be, if in the marriage of the choice to raise a child, that he is now also not so tired, but everything has become fixed. Just about everything has become final, at this time the regret can not change the reality of their no offspring, this reality needs them to use the rest of their lives to pay the bill.
To realize the self-worth of Dink
And long quill and big wings buckle cloud born of my body, ride the wind and exhilaration out of the six platforms.
When they were young, they chose to be a couple of Dinks in order to make their life less stressful, and reality gave them a rich reward, so that they did not have too much pressure when they were young, instant enjoyment, very sweet. Only in their old age, once young did not have to bear the pressure, now need to be borne by them alone, and their age is similar to the person because of its background reasons, can make their old age is very cozy. The second case is the well-known performer Yang Liping, she once released some life videos on her personal social platform.
It was this video that made her controversial, and many people commented underneath that the biggest failure of a woman is that she did not raise her own offspring, and that even if the woman is no longer good, she still can't change this reality. Yang Liping had answered in an interview many years ago: some people in life is to pass on the generations, some are to enjoy life, or is in the experience of a hundred flavors of life. How much each person will achieve in the future depends on how he looks at his own life. Many people did not understand what Yang Liping said at that time. However, it can be seen that the reason why Yang Liping did not choose the offspring, just because of breaking the perception that people think, choose to live their own life.
Don't be forced to become a Dink
There is also a couple is in the entertainment industry reputation Sun Chun and Fu Lili, the two were able to become a Dink family, with the previous two cases are not the same, the two of them were forced to become a Dink family, the wife of Fu Lili, the early years because of the reasons for the disease led to the inability to bear children, so the two have not had any offspring so far. In the ancient times of China, if a woman can not bear children, will become a family shame and will be driven out of the family, and even a lifetime of no one to marry. Although Fu Lili failed to give birth to a son or daughter for Sun Chun because of her illness, Sun Chun did not choose to abandon Fu Lili because of this. Instead, he continued to **** with him for dozens of years, due to the two did not have children, so the two will raise a pet dog together, named Camilla.
Just along with the death of Camilla, the two people's mentality has undergone a major change, first of all, Sun Chun because of its sadness for the sake of Camilla bought a piece of graveyard at a high price, Fu Lili because of the death of the love of the pet all day long silence in the sadness. In order to allow his wife to get out of the grief of the death of Kamina, Sun Chun spent a high price to clone two and Kamila exactly the same accompanied by Fu Lili's side. Now Sun Chun has 64 years old, he and his wife hand in hand *** into the 30 years, more or less forced to become a Dinky couple, but even so, he still chose and his wife hand in hand *** into, although the process is not the most perfect, but their happy life also let many people envy.
Life after choosing Dink is very realistic
Because of thousands of years of traditional Chinese culture has been y rooted in the cause of the Dink this family without offspring is difficult to become the mainstream of the community, just everyone chooses to Dink's reasons are different, some of them are in order to live, some of them are in order to realize their own, there are some are forced to become a Dink couple, no matter what kind of reason to choose Dink, which must be hot! No matter what the reason for choosing Dinks, there must be certain reasons, these reasons are not well known and questioned by the public, while the Dinks family will have to face a lot of problems in the future, many of the people who choose the Dinks family will not be able to enjoy the grand situation of other people's children and grandchildren in the retirement, especially with the age is getting older and older people to take care of each other in many ways is very inconvenient, this is also the Dinks family is the mainstay of the society. This is where the drawbacks of the Dink family come in.
This is one of the most realistic scenarios that the first Dinks will face when they retire. In any case, outsiders should give the greatest respect to everyone's choices. After all, without having experienced what they have experienced, it is impossible to give an objective evaluation, and any one of the choices is closely related to what they have experienced, and outsiders can't stand on their own point of view to evaluate others. It is at the time of the initial choice, the risk behind this choice is the need to bear, and even this bear, may use the rest of their lives to fill. As for its future how to do, how to do, this needs to look at the individual's choice.