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Truly strong people are often those who have suffered greatly.
Experiencing pain unimaginable to ordinary people, and then turning the suffering into a stepping stone, life slowly rises. Maybe it is the debt-ridden life that makes a person more and more desperate to make money; maybe it is hurt by the people they love y, they realize love; maybe it is the poor growing up, forcing themselves to start their own business; maybe, in the desperate times, they learn to run alone.
As a middle-aged person, it's much harder to change your fate than it is for a young person. There are old people, young people, life is always in the body, more afraid of unemployment and debt.
But in life, there are always some middle-aged people, mixed like a fish out of water, more spontaneous than others. So, what does a person rise to middle age by? I want to tell you: adults really strong, from "after work" to start.
Success is always reserved for those who have "premeditated", you see others "jumped up", in fact, "prepared".
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After work, the people who study hard, the ability to get stronger and stronger.
A lot of middle-aged people, after work, either to participate in social functions, or at home holding the phone to watch boring videos.
When eating and drinking, we brag about each other and feel that life is very happy, and also very promising. However, put down the glass, found themselves drunk, but also found that they have been bumbling around, and did not change because they know a few more friends.
The really smart middle-aged people have gotten rid of useless socializing. After work, rush home to read. Read a book, will not change life, but read a few more books, can change life.
A friend of mine, he works as a temporary laborer in a certain unit. In order to support his family, he set up a stall after work and sold old books.
When there is no one to buy books, he picks up those old books and reads them carefully.
A few years later, my friend, actually became a writer, in large and small newspapers and magazines, published hundreds of articles, although not much, but he lived happier, but also found a new way to make money.
Gorky said, "Books are the ladder of human progress."
As a middle-aged man, you want to go higher, you have to make progress, and reading is the best way. Books, the silent guide.
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After work, people who like to be alone are stronger inside.
Some people, after work, run to lively places. Let's say, go to square dancing, go to the gym, go to the park to watch the fun.
People like to live in groups and are afraid of being alone. It is instinctive to go to lively places, and rightly so.
The truly powerful person, however, is accustomed to being alone, often appearing to be out of place and a bit otherworldly. He has his own proposition and is able to assert himself.
The more you like the crowd, the more you like to "go with the flow". If you are in your middle age, if you always go with the flow, you are always running with others, and you can't find the right path for your life.
Learn to think independently, to be able to see themselves clearly, to be able to find some opportunities from the chaotic social phenomena, but also to realize the truth.
As the saying goes, "The truth is often in the hands of a few people."
In fact, the opportunity to get rich is also often in the hands of a few people. In any city, the percentage of people who are really rich will not be too high.
People who don't dare to be alone always like to talk to others, hoping that others can understand them, and their hearts look very fragile. Those who like to be alone, really do "warm and cold", the ability to carry the pain has become stronger, but also live a transparent.
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After work, the person who accompanies the family well, the family is more and more happy.
As the saying goes, "Family harmony is the key to success."
A harmonious family can help middle-aged people's career development. Family is the strong backing of career development.
In a harmonious family, everyone can talk well and communicate about anything. Without the sound of complaints, there is no "cold" feeling, the home becomes a cozy harbor.
Family harmony, you need to "accompany". The smart middle-aged people, once off work to run to the home, and the family to eat together, together to discuss what to do in the future.
When you go to work, your family is busy, your children have to study, and your lover has to go to work. The only time you are free is when you are off work, and you can reflect the good atmosphere of the family.
When you and your family get along better, you will find that the cause is easy to do, the work has become easy, the pressure to make money is small, and they are really strong.
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People who work hard on their side hustles after work always find a way to start their own business.
As a middle-aged person, if you want to quit your job, I guess you don't have the guts. It's not that you won't be able to find a job after you quit, and you'll starve to death. It's just that after you quit your job, you should think about how your family is going to live and what to do about your mortgage and car loan.
Middle-aged people, who can not arbitrarily resign, not to mention long-term unemployment. Many units, middle-aged people were scolded by their superiors, but also have to tolerate, do not dare to refute a sentence. "Tolerance" is because of some scruples, because he has to support a piece of the family sky.
If middle-aged people want to change their destiny, then they have to utilize their off-duty time to do side work. If you do a good job with your side hustle, then start a business and turn it into your main hustle, then you won't have to worry about it.
Those who work hard to do side business after work, most of them are successful. Whether it's setting up a stall, driving a cab, writing articles ...... As long as you stick with it, you'll get ahead.
After work, adhere to the side business, bitter years, will be simmering to the end; after work, do nothing, if the work income is average, most likely to suffer a lifetime.
"A short marriage" wrote: "Every day to work off work, running a business, taking care of the family. We are so busy that we forget, or so happy that we forget, in fact, everything will end. We camp out every day just to wait for life's unpredictable events."
Yes, life has too many "unpredictable clouds", as a middle-aged man, should have the ability to cope with.
When you are in your middle age, don't think that after work is a good time to rest. By utilizing your off-duty time efficiently, you are destined to become strong and leave your peers behind.
Written by: cloth rough food.
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