Is there such a person who always touches your love strings? When you are lonely and painful, you hope that she can enrich your heart and give you a smile; is there such a person who can hold you tightly? Is there such a person who has been floating in your heart for a long time? When you are happy, you hope that she will share the joy of success with you. Is there such a person who, when When she is sad and sheds tears, you will stretch out your hands to hold her without hesitation, letting her lie quietly in your warm bosom.
I can’t help but want to ask: Do you also have such a person in your heart? This person may be an idol star that you have admired since childhood, or may be a heroic role model that you have determined to learn from since childhood, but more often than not, it should be a confidant in your heart, a "confidante" who has been beautified or even deified by your wishful thinking. . Maybe you are not sure whether there is such a person in your heart, let alone whether the inexplicable strand of thoughts in your heart is the legendary love, but if you also have the following situations, then, congratulations You probably have such a deified confidant living in your heart.
If you have such a person in your heart, then you may prefer to be alone. Come from the spring breeze, curling up strands of hair, like lingering emotions turbulent in your heart; go into the summer rain, splashing beads, like crisp rhythms beating casually in response to the natural rhythm; or Stroll along the autumn trails and watch the dancing leaves spinning gracefully; or step lightly on the snowy steps and listen to the occasional wild cats that emerge from the dead leaves and sing their crisp white songs in the snow. Because you have such a person in your heart, you will not misunderstand loneliness as loneliness, nor will you feel that being alone is unbearable loneliness. Sometimes, you feel a kind of detachment and freedom.
If you have such a person in your heart, you may choose to think quietly alone. You don’t like overly lively occasions, and you don’t want to be mixed up in a large group of people, and lose yourself in the bustling crowd; you don’t like to follow what others say, repeating other people’s words like a parrot with a clever tongue, and being criticized by others. In order to pick up people's wisdom; you prefer to think quietly alone, in the afterglow of the sunset, sitting by the small lake, looking up at the gorgeous sunset in the distance, imagining wildly; under the sinking star screen, leaning on the railing and counting the dots, smelling Listen to the whispers in Toad Palace. When walking, you are thinking, when sitting quietly, you are also thinking, and when sleeping, you will not miss thinking. Because you have such a person in your heart, you will become more reserved and will not talk endlessly; you will also become wiser, and because of thinking, you will find that you have deeper insights and sharper judgments about things; you As a result, he became more refined, quieter, and more likeable.
If you have such a person in your heart, then you are more willing to modify and enrich yourself. The grooming mentioned here is not purely about dressing up and dressing yourself up; nor is it about being new and using a colorful and funny hair to attract the attention of others. The modification referred to here refers more to the inner cultivation of oneself and the continuous improvement of one's overall quality. Maybe we were born in different families, we grew up in different environments, and we studied at different levels of universities, but these are not reasons for us to give up on ourselves, because a person's cultivation mainly depends on himself to improve, and a person's success You also have to rely on your own hard work, and the peak a person can reach must also be climbed by himself. And having such a person in your heart will not only silently motivate yourself to realize these wishes and create the glory of life, but also save you a lot of time. You will not envy those meaningless wasted time at all. You would rather wait quietly alone. Even if this waiting will eventually come to nothing, you will save those real time for enrichment. Enrich your own mind, enrich your knowledge, and broaden your horizons, so that you can shine with golden dazzling light.
I think that no matter whether the person in your heart is lucky enough to enter your life in the end, she can indeed make you self-motivated and shape yourself into a stronger and more perfect person, but the final result is gradually covered up by the baptism of time. , and slowly fade away as your cognition matures.
Having such a person in my heart should be able to comfort me enough. She may stimulate your potential, sharpen your will, or increase your happiness. However, even if you do have such a person in your heart, the complicated and confusing feelings lingering in your heart are probably not love, and sometimes they are not even friendship. Love requires the right time and place for people to be compatible. However, how many people can be so lucky in love? How many people’s first love didn’t die in infancy? I think, if the reality is destined that we can only watch flowers in this world, then why not have a flower that never fades in our hearts? It's just that it's better not to pick such a flower in the end, because once it leaves the soil of the soul and sees the light of reality, it will soon wither. From then on, it will become a thorn in your heart, making you taste the dry bitterness.
Postscript:
Maybe life is like this, she may pass by you every day, but you can only watch her pass by silently, leaving behind that, That instant smile that you can’t let go of.