0 1, moving
Did years of hard work consume part of my mother's health? Whether it's true or not, take action quickly, whether it's taking part in square dance, walking, hiking, running or practicing Tai Chi, let yourself get healthy first, because only in this way can you spend more time with your child and witness his growing up and happiness in life. If nothing else, when children have children in the future, mothers can't do without a good body.
Travel is also a good choice. You can think about whether there are some places you have always wanted to go but have no time to go, some places you will regret not going in your life, or famous mountains and rivers, or seaside towns. If you can, you can go wherever you want, so that you can see the world in those days, make yourself happy and exercise.
02, regain the ideal
The mother whose child is in graduate school, the child has come step by step since childhood, so is the mother's ideal still there? Now, when you think of your dream, will you still feel excited? If the answer is yes, it's time to start. And if for some reason, it has been decided that the ideal of that year can no longer be realized, is there anything you want to do most in your heart? Don't worry about having grandchildren, you will be very busy in the future.
Do you want to learn a musical instrument just from the perspective of enriching your life? Do you want to learn to sing, recite or dance? Do you want to learn how to drive or how to arrange flowers? Whatever you want to do, just do it. But be careful, don't be afraid of difficulties, and be confident before you start. Can the running water in front of the door still go west? In fact, learning at this stage is very advantageous. For example, if you have no burden in your heart, you can calm down and study, which is quite good.
03, family and children.
I'm sure that although I creatively gave some advice to mothers, some mothers wouldn't do that even if they saw it, because their lives were filled with families and children. When you let her travel, some mothers are unwilling to help their children recover. She doesn't think it makes much sense for you to let her learn something. It's better to leave it to children or their children.
Then, for such a part of mothers, I have thought of some plans, such as improving cooking skills and making children and their families eat better. If they are already chefs, they can prefer Michelin. You can also learn financial management and investment, but this must pay attention to risks; You can also contact friends. Human understanding is an article? Well, in the future, we should improve the handling of interpersonal relationships and how to deal with our daughter-in-law, so we should master and understand other people's handling methods.
These are my thoughts on this issue.