What is the interpretation of "grabbing eyebrows and beards" in A Dream of Red Mansions?

I. Interpretation of "Lying in Ning Mei"

1, original:

One is Xianpa in Yuen Long, and the other is flawless jade. If there is no strange fate, I will meet him again in my life. If there is a strange fate, how can my heart be empty? One is futile, and the other is alarmist. One is the moon in the water, and the other is the flower in the mirror. I wonder how many tears there are in my eyes, how can I stand autumn flowing into winter and spring flowing into summer!

2. Explain:

In a dream of red mansions, this song is dedicated to Baoyu and Daiyu. One is a stunning beauty, and the other is a charming teenager; One is extremely smart and the other is well-read; One has no intention of fame and fortune, and the other never talks about "career economy". She cries and sighs for him all day, and he cares about her all day; She only has him in her heart, and he only has her in his heart-isn't this a match made in heaven? However, in a cage like Rong Guofu, their love has been suppressed. Feudal morality is a dogma in aristocratic families, which stifles all human nature. "Parents' orders, matchmakers' words" and the decline of Jia family finally cut off their fate. Daiyu, a sentimental girl, withered like tender grass under the weight of "wind knife and frost sword" The process of her love with Baoyu was always accompanied by pain and trouble, and finally became a dream. Fate played a big joke on them. This love tragedy with blood and tears not only makes the author "scream" for it, but also remains an endless topic for people to talk about 200 years later.

Xianpa in Yuen Long refers to Lin Daiyu's status as a crimson pearl fairy, and flawless jade refers to the past life of Shen Ying, Jia Baoyu's waiter. This poem is about the lingering love tragedy of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu!

Second, the "vain eyebrows" related

"Looking at the eyebrows in vain" (according to Qi) is the name of the third of the twelve poems in the fifth chapter of Cao Xueqin's novel A Dream of Red Mansions. Baoyu and Daiyu's love ideal was accidentally shattered, and Lin Daiyu died in tears after the robbery. The title of the song is "False Eyebrows", which means what's the use of sadness, that is, "false self-pity" as mentioned in the song. Frown, frown, sad. The fifth chapter is the pen of prophecy in the book, which plays a great control role in the book. Therefore, all previous generations of red scholars paid special attention to the fifth cycle.