The day before yesterday, a roommate suddenly asked me, "Would you choose this kind of Franke who is useless, weak and kind to you? Can you accept it if your future partner's career is not as successful as yours?" I looked at her with two eyes. I don't know if she didn't understand the movie because of her emotional intelligence, or if she really didn't watch it. I want to say that Franke is not a man who has accomplished nothing. If a woman is mature enough, she can't resist his charm! 3RMB can't even hang a scalper number, which is enough to prove what an outstanding doctor he is! He has a successful career, but for his family, his daughter who loves her like life and his wife. I am willing to give up a good career prospect and cater to my wife's wishes. In the United States, I take care of my daughter's life and study alone. I am not afraid of being called dead beat by others, or laughing at him for being a soft meal in other words, but I still take care of my family without complaining. I want to say that this is the heart that most men can't match. Who can retire at the height of his career, and even so, he didn't say anything bad to his wife, but also helped her get her wedding dress at the wedding, and forgot to take off his wedding ring at the wedding. It's really too good to make people feel bad. I'm not saying this because I hope my future lover will give up his career for me. If I'm lucky enough, I can't bear to treat such a man with such a heart. Another important point is that there is no such bitter resentment on his face. I have seen this expression in my ex's eyes. Obviously, he has no such mind, and he can't accept such a failure. Obviously, he can't accept that I did it and he didn't, but his face has to pretend to be heroic and open-minded when he went out. I passed an interview, but he didn't. I saw through this completely from the moment he said he would destroy the company and never go there anyway. Moreover, I was particularly moved by his words and deeds in taking care of his daughter, the conversation between "old fox" and "little fox" when helping her to deliver asthma medicine, and the warm plot of spending Christmas with her daughter. I'll talk about the father-daughter plot later. By the way, I especially like tall men carrying baby seats, which is the most handsome moment for boys. In the play, there is a scene in which franke is holding a baby seat and holding Wen Jiajia in his right hand and saying I got something better. His image is instantly tall in my eyes! When I was working in the United States, I met an American boy who told me with great confidence that he wanted to buy sanitary napkins. I stared at him blankly at that time, and he naturally said to me, yes, for my girlfriend. I really appreciated him at that time. The image is extremely tall.
Then I will talk about whether I can accept the topic that my future husband's career is not as successful as mine. Maybe everyone around me thinks that I am a person with a heavy ambition. In fact, I want to say that I am not enterprising, and I don't particularly like to make a suit and tie in the workplace to reprimand the strong woman in Fang Qiu. It's meaningless to show it to others. The reason why I work so hard is that I have the ability to do what I really want to do ----NGO. Because I have enough material capital to live the life I want and pay for my trip. That is, for my dream, so I am not particularly concerned about the success in the eyes of the secular. I just can't accept people who don't work hard! Especially men who are not motivated and don't work hard! Hard work and self-motivation do not mean quick success. Many so-called "hard-working" boys around are obsessed with reading many books on success, such as "Open-minded theory-no more difficult business from now on", larded school, how to reprimand Fang Qiu in finance, the golden key to success, and so on. I hate this kind of successful books very much. The boys who are "hardworking" in the eyes of my roommates are just watching "teaching you how to buy a car for two years and buy a house for three years" all day. Speaking of which, you should understand my understanding of hard work and self-motivation. So I don't care who earns more money and whose reputation is louder and brighter. I care whether this person is working hard and has a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, so I like brilliant people. Just use one of Fan Fan's lyrics: "As long as I can snuggle up, I really don't care. The so-called "snuggling" means that when my career and dreams encounter difficulties, he gives me inner strength and helps me to make suggestions to overcome the difficulties. When I am about to give up, he encourages me to stick to it and achieve my goals. His shoulders are my harbor. Just like in the movie, Franke gave a thumbs-up many times and said "Come on". In fact, how happy it is for two people to sit on the windowsill and blow the summer wind together and quietly share the joy of the day. I cut the fruit and he mixed the salad, which is the greatest happiness. Isn't this the best portrayal of a happy family life? Two people can understand each other, have the same belief in life and two people pursue one thing. I love this kind of love very much. So I like to learn to mix wine, taste red wine, ponder aromatherapy, watch videos on youtube that teach people to plan and use home space, and so on. I just think these are the wisdom of living a happy life. Being a housewife is something I resist, but I like the exquisiteness of life. Becoming a person who can make people happy will make them feel happier, and it is very important to please themselves and the people they love. I won't say that I don't care about money at all. Money is right. I won't treat money like dirt. I like money. Why not? It gives me a better quality of life and is the guarantee of not starving to death. It is my goal that two people can live a high-quality life, but I never thought of owning tens of thousands of bags and scarves from Prada and Hermes. With that money, I can go around the world dozens of times! Now let's talk about the last one: Franke's "weakness". Franke is indeed a man without temper, but once in the play, he had a big fight with Wen Jia Jia for his daughter. I want to say that he is the kind of person who is not angry and arrogant. In other things, he can accommodate and be easy-going. But when it comes to the critical moment, I never lose my chain. I am especially responsible, independent and good at making decisions. For example, when he was in new york, he went to the police station to solve the misunderstanding and took his daughter home. When he was at the police station, he managed his emotions very well, and he didn't have any anger at all. He calmly told Wen Jiajia how to solve the problem, and his reaction decisions were very fast and the methods were very accurate. Finally, what kind of temper was out of the police station before I got very angry for my daughter, because my beloved daughter is the daughter of his life! How can a man like this be weak? I want to say that his emotional intelligence is very high! When Wen Jiajia fainted, the phone call with Dr. Tang was neat and clean, and there was no nonsense. She talked to the doctor in the hospital and saved both mother and daughter's lives. I didn't panic at all. Although Dr. Tang used to call him DB, he laughed and didn't refute anything. Something really happened. He was particularly capable of pointing out all the problems of Dr. Tang. When Dr. Tang scolded him for not having a doctor's license, he retorted angrily, "I saw more patients today than you did in a week. If you don't want to have an accident, come to the hospital quickly!" Then shake Jia Jia's hand hard to keep her awake and hold her hand all the time. In general, his broad mind doesn't care what others say at all. When life is at stake, he is unambiguous. How can this be called weakness?
say that, and then say I like the details of the plot. About the deep affection between father and daughter, in the interview with doctors in franke, new york, her daughters accompanied him to the interview one by one. Their conversation, dialogue and eyes made me feel that Julie and her father's fathers and daughters made them fight for their dream life together like a pair of comrades-in-arms, and father and daughter were their respective shoulders. This is a revolutionary feeling. Dad takes care of his daughter's daily life, and her daughter gives him strength and encouragement! Every time franke and julie hug each other, I feel warm! There are two lines, which I especially like. Wen Jiajia fainted at the wedding, and Franke picked her up and rushed to the hospital. I loved a series of plots, feeling full of love and special man! “26 years old, first pregnancy, ten days over due, so have to rock the pre-eclampsia! you are doctor? Yes! His understanding of a pregnant woman is not because of duty, but because of love. A person's understanding and care for a person is so meticulous that what reason is there not to be moved? ! "What kind of bird certificate are you taking? You are so handsome as a doctor!" The look of "Good. I come on", the shallow smile and self-confidence on my face, and the hands clasping Jia Jia touched me especially. In the back, "You are 44 years old. Can you tell us why you want to return the practice such a la terage? ""to get my life back. "suddenly opened me up. Plus Jia Jia's self-report: "And I am trying to make my shoulders strong. Maybe it will be bitter and tiring, but I earn every penny and spend it practically. I think only on that day can I say to the person I love, hey, I'm ready for love to fall from the sky, and you? "What a beautiful passage, girls really should have this mentality. This is also the growth of Wen Jiajia after so many experiences. These two people are becoming better selves for each other. In fact, Wen Jiajia at the beginning of the film is also a rich man with "China characteristics" thinking. I can feel that she has many similarities with many wealthy tourists from China who come to Macau, but what happened after Christmas made her start to think and examine herself and her life. Only slowly began to understand the truth and grow up. Therefore, whether a person can be happy is often not whether he meets the right person, but whether he can get rid of his wrong self. Only a better self deserves a happier love and life. If Wen Jiajia hadn't grown up, she wouldn't have been able to get together with franke. A man in his forties who loves his daughter as much as his life can't fall in love with someone casually. And a little girl who is so difficult will not accept an aunt casually. She deserves all this happiness.
After Jia Jia went back to China, she made a phone call with Lao Zhong. The old clock said, which capable man do you see is staying at home with his wife and children all day? This sentence, my mother, my grandmother, I menstruation when they chat, have repeated countless times. At first, I didn't take it to heart. Later, I found that most of the families I saw in China are divided into three types. 1) Men don't have time to accompany their wives and children and go out to do something. And women's vision is derailed from the real society, and they have no * * * same topic. 2) Both men and women are strongmen, who are lucky to be together and unfortunately divorced. But none of them are at home, and the children are very loveless. 3) Men stay at home, women are awesome, and then women scold men every day to lift their heads. Sooo ... sad ... So this sentence makes me feel that healthy love or what I think is healthy love, my favorite marriage is to become a harbor for each other. There is a scene, in the kitchen, Wen Jiajia is cooking soup, and franke is sitting at the western dining table with a pen and paper to prepare for the board exam. The steaming kitchen is full of warmth and love. Nothing better than this. Wen Jiajia also said that I have to make my shoulders strong to be qualified to say to the person I love, I am ready for love to fall from the sky. Therefore, love should not conflict with the future career. It should be for two people to support and encourage each other to become a better self for love and family. This kind of balanced and warm love will be happy. And only when a person grows up relatively sound, it will be easier to get happiness if he goes through love again. Love and the future are in perfect harmony. Marriage and love are particularly beautiful! Wen Jiajia's child was born and lived with frank. How warm and happy franke was when she covered julie with a blanket for her sleeping mother and daughter! They painted franke with a big face, and then there was a deleted plot on the internet, which made me warm! The franke who takes care of Jiajia can give me a strong sense of security and warmth.
When Beijing met Seattle, I met too many dreams about life and love. Helped me think more clearly. I also saw myself and my former love more clearly. Give me great warmth when I am sad. When I didn't watch movies and reviews at first, I just broke up with ex. I'm still sad. Isn't he the one who can run a few blocks to buy soy milk? After watching the movie, franke's warmth, mind, care and charm are incomparable, either riding a white horse or a prince, or buying soy milk is franke, haha, just kidding.
I said a lot, a lot of truth. I really wish I could do all this. I am still constantly enriching myself and practicing. Life is a practice. I heard it in my sophomore year, and now I finally understand it. From my freshman year to now, I have encountered many difficulties, setbacks, bullying, happiness, happiness, success, and the process of hard work and so on. All this is constantly casting a different new me. Those hardships and happiness are the processes that must be experienced in practice, and then those who realize and realize, accumulate over time, become better themselves.