I don't know when, the circle of friends has become commercialized, the rise of micro-merchants, the promotion of many. It is no longer a pure place to exchange ideas and live among friends, but a commercial area. So why are you still stuck there?
Friend A said: "To update the dynamic well, everyone does so."
I want to say, what is the dynamic that you are updating?
Is it life?
What are you doing with your updates? Is it self-congratulation, is it for peace of mind, want to prove: I'm doing well, you can see, you can prove it?
If so, then you are too boring, too hypocritical. Because, others may not even care about your life, you are just fooling yourself.
It's not that people don't know how to live, they're bored, and they don't have anything to post. But, people understand the appropriate time to stop, occasionally dynamic, that he lived calm and peace of mind, day to day dynamic people, in fact, has been living a very anxious, you hit the trick?
My classmates went to the army, a long time no contact, and occasionally make a phone call. He told me: the army is very strict, do not allow to bring a cell phone, call also limit the number of times and time.
I said: "That's not very boring, after 90 no cell phone, simply can not live ah!"
But his answer surprised me. He said: "At first, it is what you said, day to day anxiety, always feel that something is missing. But after a week or so I got used to it. Now I play basketball, read books, chat with my classmates, and sometimes, write letters to my family. Now I'm finally living a real life."
"Real", this word seems to be very far away from us. Do you live a real life?
Now I want to say, the circle of friends, in the end, what is the use? Do you still live day in and day out in the circle of friends to like?
For micro-merchants, the circle of friends, is to promote the goods, make money with; for people selling houses, the circle of friends, is to accumulate contacts, for sales preparation; for you ordinary you, is the consumer, or passers-by? Or, point and click, find something to do?
Furthermore, your dynamic, in the eyes of others is what?
Is it a life that others envy? It is the existence of proof that you are still alive? Is your self-psychological comfort? Or, is it the evidence of decadence, the reason for numbness?
Admittedly, you have your friends, your classmates, your relatives. They are concerned about you, so they give you comments, give you praise. However, if you are more dynamic day after day, day after day to live in the praise, and who, sincerely read your mood, sincerely understand you.
They, too, have tired, see the flowery dynamics, each different display, like, has been mechanized, look at the picture, like, as a matter of course. At this point, your dynamic, meaningless. Just you seek a so-called peace of mind, deceive yourself.
Friend B said: "Do not go to the circle of friends, there is nothing to do ah? Life is already boring, do not brush dynamic, what else can do?"
If you are this kind of thinking, then, you numb.
Who says that life is only the metropolis of tears, as long as you are not numb, then there are still poems and faraway places.
Grandma is a laggard, living in the new century, but does not know how to use a smart phone. However, she is optimistic, daily, listen to, is the opera; see, is the travel program; jump, is the square dance. Her life is colorful and rich. It's not her who is lagging behind, instead, it's us.
Today, we have no fun in life, only left to live in the circle of friends.
It's time to change, so go on, what else do you have?
Take out the time to like, send dynamic time, browse the time of the circle of friends. You can travel, you can read a book, you can exercise, you can develop a hobby. In fact, you can do a lot of things, it just depends on how you choose.
So, dynamic, only suitable for occasional hair, likes, only suitable for occasional do. Live true to yourself, my friend!