? A certain classmate of mine in junior high school was not on par with me in terms of performance. On the day of his math test, he somehow made a fatal mistake and missed a page of the test and lost a lot of money. Math was originally his strongest subject, and such a big mistake naturally affected his mood, and he failed all the tests in the following subjects. He could have changed his fate through his own strength to take a school, but because of the test mistakes and promotion brushed shoulders.
? Now look back at his life, all the way very hard, but did not write a "loser against the domineering president" story. He is just one of the thousands of migrant workers, every day for the livelihood of running around. 2020 the beginning of the spring of the new crown virus, each industry are stopping work to prevent the epidemic, he is facing the "stopping work that stops the mouth" of the predicament. Nearly 50 years old man, not a decent house, no unit to buy him pension insurance, no savings at home. I asked him why he was in such a mess. He said, these years also earned some money, but only enough for the daily expenses of the family size, that is, how much to spend how much to spend, there is no free money to save.
? If he avoided the mistakes in the examination, now also not to encounter the risk of "stopping the work that stops the mouth".
? Some mistakes, once made, change the trajectory of life. This trajectory will eventually go into what, by walking people decide. May be a life of mediocrity, may also be a life of prosperity. But I always think that a person who will even make mistakes in the big test of life, the chance of turning the tide is very small.
? Parents, is a child's life in the important others, so the child to participate in the life of the first big test, parents must be unshirkable to help their children successfully "robbery". So, the child in the examination period, parents actually how to do in order to become the child's God help it?
? 1. Create a harmonious, pleasant, relaxed family atmosphere. Children in the month before the exam, parents should sort out their emotions. Do not quarrel, do not argue over trivial matters, do not indulge in short videos, do not obsess over square dancing, and do not go out to play mahjong. In short, create a warm and comfortable living atmosphere for your family. Children in such a family atmosphere, the inner is very stable and solid, the examination will not panic.
? 2. Do not put pressure on the child. It doesn't matter whether the child is trying hard or not in the preparation stage. Do not emphasize the results when it comes to the last few days. Instead, calmly tell the child: if learning needs to work hard, then the exam needs luck, hard work people have good luck Oh, so, let's give everything to luck, do not think too much. In addition, we should also tell our children that our parents accept any result that our children get in the examination room! If they do well, the parents praise the child, if they don't do well, the parents give the child support. When parents don't put pressure on their children, the children are more emotionally stable and calm. In my last class of YAMO 10, many of the children took the midterm exams, and many of them got their best results in three years. It is because these children live in a stable and happy family. The parents of these children recognized my pre-test advice, and thus cultivated themselves into a qualified spiritual masseuse, caring for their children's minds in a very healthy way.
? 3. For the child to do a good job of logistical support. The war is about "the soldiers and horses have not moved, food and grass first", the high school entrance examination is also a child must experience in the process of growth of a war without saltpeter. So, parents should also prepare enough "food and grass" for their children.
? Parents must be sure to confirm before the child's examination where the child's examination center? How far is it from your home? The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you're doing. Are there any obstacles on the way to the test center? The purpose of clarifying these questions is to avoid tardiness, uncertainty, and unexpected injuries.
? My son's college entrance examination, the examination room is located in the school 7 kilometers away from my home, quite close, and the school also unified package bus transportation, but that must pass through the road is very narrow, easy to congestion. I was afraid that my child would not be able to rest well, or uncontrollable situations would arise. I booked a room for my child in the hotel next to the test center, which is a 5-minute walk away. In order not to have a situation on the way, even if the walk is only 5 minutes, I was personally escorted by my dad.
? The exam center for his midterm was at the school where I was posted and it was only 5 minutes away from my house. He is personally escorted into the school by me, his mom, to his lead teacher for every exam. Before leaving, I would still give him a hug, pat his shoulder and say: the power of a mother's love is infinite, go for it! My son was writing hard in the test room and I was waiting patiently in the office. At the end of the exam, I held my son's hand and went home with him. When I got home, my dad had already put the food on the table. We do not talk about how the test, only that the test is over, everything has been established fact, put down! Exam hard work, hurry up to eat some delicious food, and then a beautiful sleep.
? When the child goes to bed, parents should check the temperature of the air conditioner in his house. The air conditioning temperature is best set at 26 to 27 degrees Celsius, and the wind must not blow directly on the child. When the child goes to bed, parents must set the alarm clock and wake up the child on time. Don't be so big-hearted as to think that you don't care if you set the alarm clock, in case your child doesn't hear it. I didn't sleep in the middle of the day when my kids were studying for their midterm or high school entrance exams. I was afraid that I would fall asleep and my child would be late. What is the best time to arrive at the examination center? Generally speaking, it is better to arrive at the examination center 30 minutes earlier. Parents should calculate the time needed to get to the test center from the resting place, and if you are traveling a long distance by car, you must take into account the uncertainties on the road, so you should allow an extra 10 minutes just in case.
? 4. Help your child to do a good job of checking. Every year in the high school entrance examination will appear pass is missing, ID card forgotten at home, refills out of ink and so on. Will such a situation cancel the child's qualification for the examination? Of course not! But it will affect the child's mood, which in turn affects the performance of the examination. In order to circumvent these unnecessary troubles, parents must help their children to do a good job of checking. Some people may raise the bar, so big children, but also parents to help them check the examination stationery, they are waste?
? Such a big child, of course, will check their own exam stationery, but if parents can participate, is it not a reflection of parental concern for the child? We often say that we love our children, what's the use of just saying it with our mouths? Expressing love with action is more likely to make children feel loved. Every Monday morning at the flag-raising ceremony, there are always some children (mainly boys) who wear dresses with either rolled-up collars or misplaced buttons. Many teachers would remind them with their mouths: Hey, the collar is rolled up, straighten it out! You're such a grown-up, you're not being polite. I kept my mouth shut, walked over to the child, reached out to help him straighten his collar, buttoned up his buttons, patted him on the shoulder, smiled gently at him, and turned to leave. Some of my colleagues always ask me why those rebellious boys are not rebellious in front of you. You can tell by looking at the details of how I button up my children's collars. Do the children know how to cut their collars? Can they button their buttons? Of course they do! But what does my pampering gesture show? It's love! Who can resist love?
? So what are the test instruments? I have made a list for you parents and friends to help your children check:
? 1. A transparent stationery bag.
? 2. 2 2B pencils (sharpened and spare), or 2 machine-readable card pens.
? 3.3 to 5 0.5mm black ink signing pens, 4 spare refills.
? 4. 1 eraser.
? 5. 1 mat board.
? 6. A compass.
? 7. set of rulers, protractor, right angle triangle, obtuse angle triangle, straightedge.
? Special reminder: ID card and pass must be brought! Remember!
? In addition to these things can also bring these things to the entrance:
? 1. A bottle of plain water, the bottle must be transparent. If it is mineral water, you must remove the sticker from the bottle.
? 2. A pack of wet wipes.
? 3. A bottle of windex or cool oil.
? 4. Two or three pieces of chocolate, you can eat a piece before entering the examination room, do not eat during the examination.
? So, what things can not be brought into the test? Parents and friends can remember:
? 1. Cell phones can never be brought into the test, such as seized in the course of the examination, to cheating.
? 2. electronic watch do not bring into the examination room, each test room has a wall clock, before the examination of each test center will be adjusted to the wall clock, very accurate. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have the right time to take the test.
? 3. Don't bring your test materials and draft paper into the test room, if you are found during the test, you will be penalized for cheating.
I tell this information to all the parents and friends, just want parents can timely and accurately participate in the child's battle, so that they can fully feel: this battle, not I am alone in the fight! I have a strong reinforcement army! In this way, the child's heart gives birth to determination, and determination gives birth to wisdom!
? Finally, I would also like to remind parents and friends: children during the examination what to wear? I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'm not sure what I'm talking about. My opinion is: usually wear what, the test on what to wear; usually eat what, the test on what to eat! Do not engage in what is unique, so that the child is at a loss.
? Dear parents and friends, is everything ready? Ready! Then leave everything to luck! Good luck! ?
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