At the age of 55, you can understand many people and things. Although you missed many opportunities and had many regrets when you were young, you can still arrange everything for yourself in the following days.
Although I am no longer so anxious and dry, I can still treat and deal with things I have never experienced, cherish the people and things I can cherish in front of me, and tell myself that missing is missing, and grasping the present is the most important thing.
I returned to my hometown yesterday. Sister Jin, who lives next door to our house, has just returned from a trip to other places. Although I haven't seen her for years, she looks much better now than when she divorced a few years ago.
After chatting with Sister Jin for a while, I realized that Sister Jin had been living alone in her hometown since her divorce. During that time, she was always unhappy, but after a long time, everything relaxed, thinking about going on in the next life, why bother to entangle with the past all the time? A person's life should be leisurely and wonderful. For the convenience of narration, I write in the first person. )
I'm 55 years old and I look much better now. Many friends around me are happy for me, because I am depressed for a failed love and listless all day.
When I was divorced, many friends wanted me to remarry in order to make my old age better, and recommended many male friends of the same age to me, but I thought: since they are all so old, it is better to make my next life happy and comfortable for a new relationship.
Whenever night falls and I can't sleep alone in bed, I feel lonely. After all, children have grown up and got married. I am an old man, and my living habits are different from those of their young people. I am not used to living together. When I first lived alone, there were indeed many unaccustomed places.
But life goes on. Although I am divorced, I have enough savings and pension for the elderly, and I occasionally encounter difficulties in my life, but I am not worried, because I still have many friends who can help me solve them.
Women who live without men, although the pressure of living alone will be great, will understand when they calm down: men can earn money to support their families, and women can make life wonderful through their own efforts.
Actually, I'm not against remarriage. If I meet the right person, I will still consider dating for a while. If two people can understand each other's hearts, it is ok to remarry.
After retirement, although life is leisurely, I don't have to get up early every day to cook and eat, and I don't have to be angry about a bunch of troubles at work. I can do what I want to do and see the scenery I want to see every day.
I have a girlfriend who is divorced like me. She didn't feel sad for a long time after the divorce, because her ex-husband was a businessman and her son lived with her ex-husband. After all, children don't have to worry about having no money to spend or being taken care of.
My best friend found a part-time job after the divorce. She said she was a waitress in a restaurant. Although she is busy every day, she also makes many friends in the restaurant. My best friend has a rest every weekend. During the break, she will go shopping and watch movies with her friends, and her life is wonderful.
When I first got divorced, I found life very dull. I just want to lie in bed in a daze every day. But after a long time, I think this life needs to change. I insist on going to bed early and getting up early every day. Besides exercising every day, I will go to the library to read books for two hours.
In fact, everyone can change themselves. By changing their hobbies, they can get themselves out of the original sad things.
Every night after dinner, I will go to the community downstairs to dance square dance. There are many friends my age who are talking and laughing and talking about what is happening around me. Dancing square dance can not only make new friends, but also exercise.
When I was dancing in the square dance, I met a female friend two years younger than me. She is also at odds with her husband. She paid a lot for her family and helped her husband earn a lot of money, but her husband had another woman outside marriage.
After all, I am also a divorced woman. Living a quiet and lonely life, I also learned to calmly analyze problems and help this female friend enlighten me. Later, this female friend also wanted to open up. Since the relationship between husband and wife has faded and the children have grown up, it is better for husband and wife to choose their own lives instead of making do with it.
A 55-year-old woman who lives alone should not only exercise herself well, but also learn to make more new friends and friends around her, so that when she encounters difficulties in her later life, someone will help her.
In a few years, I plan to live in a nursing home. After all, the child has grown up. If I get sick one day, the children don't have to worry about me. If they have time, they will come to see me in the nursing home. It doesn't matter if they don't have time.
My parents are still alive. They once asked me to move in with them, but I think my parents are old. As their daughter, I know how to be grateful. I will give my parents 1 0,000 yuan for living expenses every month. They are very happy and I am relieved.
I often rent a car by myself, and then take my parents to visit nearby scenic spots, just to tell them that I am living well alone now, so that they don't have to worry about me, and I want to be carefree.
I like my friends coming to my home very much. Every time a friend comes to my home, I will buy a lot of dishes and cook some dishes that I am good at. They are happy to cook in my home and invite me to their respective homes.
Time flies. For the rest of my life, I will always tell myself that although I am 55 years old, I can't always think that I am old. I still have a lot of things to do and many places I haven't been to. I want to make my life happy.
A 55-year-old single woman who lives alone has been hurt emotionally, but her life has to go on and make herself happy. Every day when she walks on the road, she will meet many strangers, see many unseen scenery and meet many things she has never met. Although she is occasionally upset by one thing, she can still cope with it calmly.