Men and women in love, many have encountered this situation, after being broken up, a thousand ways to beg, to please each other, all to no avail, but the other side is more and more resentful! So, when being broken up, what should be done to have a chance to break the mirror to reunite?
A small way to control the mood of the ex.
The small methods mentioned here refer to the push and pull trick. That is to say, to each other cold and hot, when interested, when not interested, let each other elusive, have curiosity about you. People have the nature of curiosity. This allows you to take the lead and control the other person's emotions!
This method, use should also pay attention to the skills, such as only push not pull, it will make you in a weak position, the other side of the formation of kneeling. Only pull not push, it will really pull the distance between the two people, and can not be in the salvage.
For example, when speaking, you said her hair is too short, like a man. The other party must behavior your words are not
comfortable, this time hurry to add a sentence, but your features are particularly delicate, this kind of hairstyle appears to you more playful. This will make the other side of the anger into a happy, pulling each other emotions. This technique, mostly applicable in a joking manner, can not be used in a way that involves dignity.
Second, use your circle of friends
If after the breakup, you begged and begged and still didn't let the other guy back, it means you've put yourself in an emotionally vulnerable position. He will feel that you can't leave him and get even more fed up with you. If this time, you do not hesitate to turn around, I believe that everyone will have some small loss in their hearts. If you can take care of your own life at this time, so that you are in the most exquisite state, the other party will certainly be curious about you, curious about how you leave the life! You can fully show your state in the circle of friends, be sure to pay attention to the image, such as fitness photos, travel videos, living environment changes, the more exquisite the better, so that the other party feels that you love life! You also need to stimulate his heart, let him know that you are not unhappy for leaving him.
For example, you can send some photos of the party in your circle of friends, and there must be a person of the opposite sex in the photos that he doesn't recognize, which will make him curious about your relationship with this person of the opposite sex. If the other person makes a move and pays attention to you, it means that you have successfully stimulated his psyche.
Remember, after salvaging the other side must let you have some input, let him help you do some things, at first do not be too anxious, slowly and gradually. This way the other party will not easily leave you!
Once a friend took his daughter to drive out to do business, encountered a wedding caravan hugely powerful, the daughter said really cheesy. The friend listened and laughed and said, daughter, in the future you also want to marry like this, must be powerful, this is the most basic input. Don't easily marry yourself to any man, there is no commitment to the relationship, the end will not have the slightest chance to recover.
Whether men or women, when in love, you must let the other party to pay for themselves, so that it will not be easy to separate, even if the separation, want to salvage, or have a lot of leeway.