12. I like boys who put their arms around your waist when riding in the car
13. I like boys who are jealous of you
14. Care about you more than myself Boys
15. Boys who don’t care about appearance and like you for who you are
16. Boys who will comfort you when you are sad
17. When you Loneliness, a boy who will stay by your side
18. A boy who can’t tolerate you giving other boys a touch of tenderness
19. He is fierce to others, but very gentle to you
20. A boy who will be by your side to make you happy when you cry
21. A boy who will supervise you to take medicine on time every day when you are sick
22. A boy who doesn’t resent you even if you break his heart
23. A boy who tells you to wear more clothes when the weather is cold
24. For you, a boy who is willing to give up other girls who are better than you
25. A boy who would rather be sad alone than for you to worry about him
26. For you , a boy who can risk everything and even fall out with his parents
27. A boy who even if you hurt him badly, still bless you sincerely
28. For your happiness, The boy who would rather be sad than to endure the pain and tell you to break up
29. The boy who knows that the relationship between you is impossible, but still waits for you stupidly with hope
Please cherish him around you, don't neglect him, ignore him, and treat him well. Such a boy deserves to be cherished by girls. How to be a woman that men admire. What kind of women do men admire?
I read a report and surveyed some men of different ages and asked them what age women they admire most. The majority of the answers were around 35 years old. , and very few young women in their prime were selected, which really made those women at this age chuckle.
Haha, actually I want to remind you, don’t laugh too early. I think what those men admire is not the unkempt yellow-faced women who don’t distinguish between home clothes and going out clothes, but It refers to those pretty ladies with smooth skin and tender flesh, and all kinds of charms. They are neither green nor showing vicissitudes of life. The kind who can get off the table and enter the hall, be vigorous and resolute when necessary, and be as quiet as a sculpture when it is inconvenient.
Such a woman is the first choice in the hearts of men. There is no meaning in the picture of a certain age. I am afraid that a large number of women will be choked, because most women of this age group are self-destructive. Sexual state in life.
In fact, I am confused. I have always thought that men are nostalgic for youth and beauty, because they can find traces of their youth in them, and use the body of a mature man to establish a stalwart image in the hearts of young women. Only women can covet older men and be proud of them.
It seems that my point of view is still stuck in the 1980s, but with the advancement of technology, and as long as women are willing to work hard, (haha, of course, including many synthetic products) sometimes it is really difficult A woman's true age can be judged from her appearance, but her experience, self-cultivation, and standards of speech cannot be hidden like age. Perhaps this is the reason why young women have ended from the stage of history, because she has no other merits except the advantage of age.
Today’s men no longer only care about your age and beauty, but your overall quality is more important. He needs a person of the opposite sex who can withstand the ups and downs with him and has experience, instead of just taking care of you whenever there is a small situation. A baby that jumps and screams forever to take care of you. Such a woman is absolutely perfect in one person. Who wouldn’t like her? Who doesn't appreciate it?
Being a woman naturally means trying to be a woman who is appreciated. Let a boy read the sentence that makes you feel sorry for you. What kind of woman makes a man feel sorry for you?
What kind of women make men feel distressed?
Some women are born to look like Daiyu, quiet, melancholy, and pitiful, which makes men feel distressed and can easily arouse the heroism of male animals. The protective desire to save beauty. This kind of woman is born with a look that makes men feel hurt, and there is nothing they can do about it.
If luck is good and you meet a good man who cares about your beauty, you will be loved and loved all day long, and you will live a happy life.
But even though he looks average and his temperament is not melancholy, there are times when he is loved by others. For example, if you are injured, you have to lick your wounds; for example, you are fighting for your destiny; for example, you are happy on the outside but miserable on the inside, laughing in front of others but crying; for example, you are strong on the outside but fragile on the inside. . . . . This type of woman is usually a good woman who just wants to treat you well and doesn't want to disturb or trouble you. I would rather feel wronged and shed tears than pretend to be strong, brave and happy.
If a man meets such a woman, he should cherish her. Don't assume that she has no emotional and emotional needs just because she doesn't cry or make trouble. In fact, this type of woman needs the most care and attention. Only they know how much worry and sadness they have and bear it silently, not easily telling others, but they never know how many nights they shed tears secretly. Such a kind woman will not hurt a man easily, and will be very kind to him.
When a man meets this kind of woman, he should know how to cherish her. When a man loves a woman, a woman will love a man even more. If two people are in love, they can live a good life.
Establish a habit that no one else can give, only you can give it to him.
Just like in "A Dream of Red Mansions", Jia Baoyu would feel uncomfortable if Lin Daiyu didn't give her two harsh words for a day; such harsh words, if spoken to by another person, would immediately annoy him. This kind of habit is more often a small interest in life that is slowly cultivated. It is like playing chess, playing the piano, and making couplets among ancient talented people and beauties. The feelings slowly accumulate in the passing of each other and become a tacit understanding. He feels relaxed and happy whenever he is with you.
A man needs to sharpen his whetstone, but he will not fall in love with it.
In traditional Chinese ethics, women have always been educated according to the theory of prosperous husbands, and strive to train women to be men's whetstones to sharpen him when he fails; Goad him when he retreats; be a safe haven when he fails and continue to hone and goad him. Will a man pamper such a woman? He might respect such a woman, but who likes whetstones and whips? Except for masochism.
Feelings mean caring about the other person’s feelings and mood.
We are often friendly to our bosses, colleagues, and even strangers, but we tend to lose our temper with the people closest to us because we don’t see them outside, otherwise they will have trouble with outsiders who have nothing to do with them. What's the difference? If he doesn't play this role, there won't be anyone else in the world playing this role. Psychologically speaking, most people only lose their temper towards people they feel safe with. Because within that level of safety, you subconsciously know that the other person will not leave you, and fooling around is a kind of dependence. But is his meaning in your life just a trash can? In addition to being willing to share your bad moods, he also hopes to gain your warmth and love. Therefore, it doesn’t matter if you occasionally dump on him and it’s unpleasant, but if you just dump on him without managing it, problems will easily arise. Hitting and scolding is true, but you must master the unique skills of one slap and three rubs.
Finding the key that opens him is far more effective in winning love than unlimited devotion.
What does it mean for two people to be together? Suitability means that what he wants from you happens to be something you have and you are willing to give it; what you want from him happens to be something he also has and is willing to give it to you. This is called appropriateness. Not even close. The meaning of love requires constant trying, and this is where you can gradually understand what you have, what you are willing to give, and what you absolutely cannot give.
When quarreling, be courteous and fair.
To face quarrels between lovers maturely and wisely, you must first think clearly that the other person loses his temper without scruples because he regards me as a relative; secondly, after unconditionally accepting the other person's bad temper , tell him that I can’t bear to do this, and let him feel sorry for you and miss you. Then, if you are too aggrieved, you can find an opportunity to lose your temper with him, like a savage girlfriend, rather than an act of revenge like 9?11. It's called a fair fight. Only when two people deal with outbursts of bad emotions wisely can they support each other and build a close relationship.
Don’t think that he is your backing, so always put him last in everything.
Maybe you feel that you can’t hang around men all the time because you don’t have a life of your own, so you always rank him behind your best friends, family members, bosses, and colleagues regardless of the importance.
As time goes by, he will also put you last in everything. The clever way is to make him feel that you are on the same side as him, whether you do things for him or not, and let him come up with ideas and opinions. Whether you adopt them or not, you can make him feel that you care about him. .
If you do something wrong, you would rather lie about it in front of men than analyze and reflect on it.
Men don’t like women who are truthful. If you are always great, glorious and right, he will be too tired in front of you. Being with a particularly noble person will make a man feel particularly hard. In addition, when you feel that you have made a mistake, don't think that by having the courage to admit it, or even review and analyze yourself, you are giving a man face, and in this way you are still showing your true nature. In fact, men would rather you play tricks and be subdued. When he is with you, he doesn't want the concept of right or wrong.
Finding a male best friend for advice on the Love Sutra can sometimes be more effective than a female best friend.
The love experiences given by female best friends are often limited to the people and experiences they have interacted with, and may even be biased. Sometimes they not only fail to provide constructive suggestions, but are actually helpful. You might as well find a male best friend, or any trusted male friend, to help you analyze the personalities of different men, and understand many of the deep desires and mentality of men from their own camps. Only when you know yourself and the enemy can you be prepared to fight.
Be a woman who can’t guess the ending, so that men will always be interested in getting to know you.
Women always want to understand men. In fact, in love, it is especially important for men to understand women. The key is that you can't just talk to him about it, but you have to arouse his curiosity and make him interested in getting to know you. Just like the woman who can tell the story of One Thousand and One Nights, men are always curious about women with stories. Women are not defeated by time, but by themselves. The secret of those women who are still radiant through time is that they do not insist on a certain man, but insist on themselves. If they insist on following their own path, no matter whether there is love or not, time will eventually turn them into endless legends.
Beauty's Heart Diao Chan VS. Helen
Diao Chan is a beauty who only loves herself. A beauty who only loves herself is like a general who is eager to make achievements and will not take the lives of others too seriously.
As the saying goes, a woman’s heart is like a needle in the sea, let alone the heart of a beautiful woman? Diao Chan is a beautiful misunderstanding. People have been misunderstanding her for thousands of years, or think that she must have fallen in love with Lu Bu, but she has no choice but to shoulder the heavy responsibility, and she has to complete the mission of a female spy; or think that she has no personality and no Although I am just a singing prostitute in Wang Yun's family, why bother to repay my master in this way? Wang Yun wants to drive a wedge between Grand Master Dong Zhuo and his adopted son Lu Bu. What are you doing with your own body as a girl?
In fact, people who say this don’t understand that beautiful women need recognition, just like a general who needs recognition must pull down countless cities and cut off countless heads. How can a beautiful woman be willing to do so casually? , How about living peacefully? She needs some trouble, and she needs someone to go through fire and water for her. So what if she loses a whole city? So what if we overthrow a country? Am I not worthy?
To put it bluntly, people don’t understand love when they are young and frivolous. Has Diao Chan ever loved a man? She must have been a teenage girl at that time, right? What do you want to do with love? She is confident, arrogant, and eager to express herself. She wants to test whether her card is useful or not, just like a general capturing enemies on the battlefield. Those enemies have no feud with him, but he must capture them, otherwise he will What kind of fame is there? Therefore, Diao Chan volunteered to star in "Beauty Trap". She knew that if the play was successful, she would be famous for thousands of years. This was too tempting for a woman. If you don’t believe me, ask those female stars who are vying to play Japanese military prostitutes. Why?
The flag of beauty is flying high, and she needs a man to water it with his blood and life.
The beauties of ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, are highly consistent on this point. Just like Helen, what kind of beauty did she have that the two kingdoms fought a protracted war for her? She was originally the wife of King Menelaus of Sparta. She later eloped to Troy with Prince Paris of Troy. After that, the two countries fought for her for 10 years. What was she doing during these 10 years? Did she ever feel guilty? I believe she must think she is worthy. Because beauty is a scarce resource, people can die to defend an inch of territory and sacrifice to defend an ocean. Why not for me? In the end, Troy was lost, the men were killed, the women became slaves, Paris's brother Hector was killed in battle, and his infant child was thrown to death from the city of Troy by the Greeks. All this was for Helen. But what happens to Helen? Do you think her ex-husband would kill her if he found her? No, the stupid man told his servants to take her to the best room on the ship, where she could look out over the sea.
Do you believe that when Helen looked at the sea, there was a faint smile on her face. What an expensive smile it was. The earliest beauty in China, Bao Si, also had such a smile. When she fell in love When her man plays tricks on the princes for her. This is what a beautiful woman wants. The reason why she is so hopelessly beautiful is because she is not tempted. Only when she is not moved will a man be willing to die for her, thinking that this can win her heart. How do men know that when a woman loves you, she will not let you die for her; only when she does not care about you , she can sit on the mountain and watch the tiger fight, and feel at ease. You will know what kind of woman a man likes the most
1. A woman with a super sweet smile
It is said that women who love to smile will not have bad luck. This sentence is for It is absolutely the truth when it comes to conquering men. He has a sweet smile that is so contagious that, let alone men, even the people around him will be in a good mood after seeing it. Women should remember not to look sad all day long, and don't always show their resentment or unhappiness on their faces.
2. Women who make people feel protective just by looking at them
Men are always male animals, and they have a strong instinct to protect the weak. Especially those women who look pitiful. Therefore, women sometimes have to learn to be soft and sometimes pretend not to understand to satisfy his machismo. Those smart women who can handle life thoughtfully understand this. You don't need to be strong in everything. When you should be gentle and show weakness, just be a little woman protected by him.
3. A thoughtful, generous and decent woman
She knows what to wear and what to say on any occasion. This is the so-called woman who works well in the kitchen and in the hall. When socializing outside, you can be generous and knowledgeable. Men are all about saving face, so don’t deny him face in public. At the same time, for himself, he has his own unique temperament, which is respected and admired by both him and outsiders. Everyone likes this kind of woman.
4 Women who really know how to live a good life
Women are often in charge of the financial power of the family and must learn to spend their money in real ways. No man likes a woman who spends money lavishly. Of course, I don’t mean to be stingy, but I really know how to spend money, where to spend it, and how to spend it. For example, the Chinese New Year is coming soon, and I want to buy new year goods. Do you know any activities with particularly strong discounts?
Take the New Year Goods Street launched by Yipay, which offers 40 yuan back for purchases over 100 yuan. The products are super comprehensive! Online and offline, you can always find what your family wants. Women should always pay attention to such a cost-effective activity. Spend the least amount of money to buy things that everyone in the family likes, this is a woman who really knows how to live.
5 Independent Women
Men especially appreciate independent women who have their own hobbies and life plans. No matter what you do, you have your own opinions and ideas. An independent woman can always give men a mysterious feeling, making people always want to know more about her. A woman's independence is also for herself. Only when she is independent can she have a better life of her own. Independent women are the most beautiful.
Do women all know what kind of girls men like? In fact, having said so much, the most important thing is to be yourself. The one who truly loves you will like you just the way you are. !Love is so unreasonable sometimes.
I hope those of you who love each other can grow old together.
Love will always be beautiful.