The ideal school life is something like the following.
1, do not ask for children in return
Many friends have been living for their children, raising children when they are young, and helping to manage their children's lives when they are old. Getting along with children, with grandchildren, we should pay attention to ways and means, do not care too much, maintain an appropriate distance, the family will be happier and more joyful. What you give to your children, don't expect them to give back as much as you do. When people reach old age, they need to be more independent in their thinking. Remind yourself that you can't rely too much on others. It's a blessing to have someone to take care of you, but if you don't have someone to take care of you, take care of yourself.
2, enjoy it while you can
When your teeth are good, legs are good, the body is still good, while not deaf and mute thinking is still clear, taste the world's delicacies, take a look at the mountains and rivers, walk around a turn, it is not in vain to come to the world of life, do not come to the teeth can not walk to blame themselves, no regrets medicine.
3, spend more effort in the health
The world is yours and mine, but ultimately belongs to those who have a good body and live a long time. It is hard to live a quality of life and a healthy body! The body is the capital of life and self-reliance, but also the greatest support for children.
4, the development of some hobbies
Have a wide range of hobbies, can help us find pleasure in retirement life. For example, learning to play the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, tai chi, square dance, etc., and then to do community volunteers. Not to look at the wall all day long, no spiritual support. We can enjoy ourselves, looking for a garden that can be sent to happiness, planted their own landscape, may be able to get with the first decades of life is not the same as the fun and success.