I don't want to live with my in-laws, am I doing the right thing?

The juniors do not want to live with the elderly, is unfilial, there is a different age group lifestyle, work and rest time should be mutual understanding, mutual support of a lifestyle, as long as the feelings are deep, not enough to live together is also fully accepted, accompanied by may not have to live together, life in the bits and pieces in order to reflect the juniors to the old man's care and filial piety, locks can not be together, this is a living norm. In fact, the later generation should also need their own independent space, and may not be willing to live together with the younger generation.

One, the younger generation is not willing to live with the elderly, is not unfilial, is two different age, lifestyle, habits, work and rest time and life are not the same, do not live together, each with their own independent space, but rather is a respect for the elderly.

Two, in reality, the elderly are not willing to live with the younger generation, this is also because they need to have their own independent space, they need to have their own way of life, so that both sides are more relaxed and happy.

Three, filial piety parents, there are many ways and means, do not live together, does not mean that filial piety, in fact, as long as the younger generation can sympathize with their parents, do not nibble on the old man, there are Sundays and holidays, to visit their parents, to accompany their parents, to sympathize with their parents, this is filial piety, do not let the old man to worry, do not let the old man angry, which is also filial piety of a way.

Four, Bei is not willing to live with the elderly, is not unfilial, this is more reflective of filial piety and respect for parents, the elderly retired, the elderly their own way of life, such as square dancing, playing chess, playing cards, go out traveling, so there are fated to have their own full space, so it is also a kind of filial piety to the elderly.

Fifth, the younger generation is not willing to live with the elderly, is not ungrateful, this is more reflective of the younger generation can live independently, the younger generation after the marriage, to have their own independent ability to live the ability to live the way of life, wood, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea is a way of living their lives later, so do not live with the old man, this is a kind of exercise for them, an experience of their life.

In short, Bei, unwilling to live with the elderly is not ungrateful, which on the contrary, more reflective, mutual respect because of different lifestyles and work and rest time, so live together is more likely to produce conflicts distance produces beauty, so in this case, there is independent space, as long as the parents have this filial piety, filial piety and respect for the elderly with the action, this is enough.