The ideal is always beautiful, but the reality is disappointing, all the good can only stay in the memory, but the reality is again and again stimulate our hearts.
I don't know when we and our children between an invisible wall, we can only be careful in front of the children, looking at the children's face to do things, in case you do not know which sentence makes the children unhappy, and the children live together, and sometimes the children will let the child to be satisfied, but most of the time or will be disliked, sometimes think about it is really exhausted, it would be better to their own! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
First, I don't want to be a free nanny.
In the past, I always heard people talk about living with their children, there will always be some unexpected things happen, if not handled properly, they will have a gap with the children, and even affect the children's feelings between the two couples.
Auntie Li didn't believe in this at first, thinking that her child was filial enough, and was an only child, and all of her future things are his how she would treat herself badly.
But when Auntie Li and their children live in the small half a year later, only to understand that they are really free babysitting hard work, usually the children are busy so grandchildren with Auntie Li, now the school is through the cell phone to set homework and a lot of requirements, Auntie Li is not very familiar with the smartphone, each time there will be some small mistakes, the children and daughter-in-law quarrel many times, Li Auntie ultimately can not stand it ready to go back to the countryside to live alone, the child and daughter-in-law do not agree, Auntie Li also ignored directly buy a ticket back to their homes, and now with the old sisters together square dancing, walking, drinking tea life at ease and happy.
Second, although their own children, but the money or to leave part of their own pension
Uncle Wang and his wife work in the county, the two retired, although the pension is not much, but life is still getting by, a small life is still good, recently Uncle Wang has a happy event, is the old family house demolition, the two did not want the house directly to all the money, a one-time give hundreds of thousands of dollars.
This is the first time that I've ever seen a man with a good name.
This is the son of the king's uncle knew, every day in front of the king's uncle and his wife softly, said his mortgage pressure, in the king's uncle and his wife to discuss the decision to subsidize the child a little bit every month, but also to help the child to reduce the pressure, so after two years, the king's uncle's partner passed away due to illness, the king's uncle's children are also very thoughtful directly to the king's uncle received the city to live, the beginning of getting along with is still relatively harmonious, slowly the daughter-in-law face more and more, the daughter's daughter's face, and the daughter's daughter's face, and the daughter-in-law's face. The first time I saw this, I was able to see my daughter-in-law's face, which was becoming more and more difficult to see.
Suddenly one day Uncle Wang heard the children and daughter-in-law to discuss their own county house sold to help them settle the mortgage, this time Uncle Wang is really not happy directly back to the county, every month also no longer subsidize the children's mortgage, Uncle Wang's children, although they know they are wrong, or came to a few times to persuade Uncle Wang to buy a house, were rejected by the Uncle Wang, Uncle Wang is now in the county, a comfortable life their own! The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Third, even if you live as an "invisible man" in your child's home, you still can't avoid being disliked.
Zhao is a warm-hearted person, although a little talkative, but the people are good, but recently received by the children to live in the city Zhao sister, although the clothes and food, but the mood is no longer as happy as before, more than a few points of sadness, the children are still good to Zhao sister, that is, sometimes the daughter-in-law is more forceful, although usually let Zhao sister to help look after the children, once not in accordance with the requirements of the do, it will be said a meal, usually
Ms. Zhao also understands that in the children's home, they can not do what they want, but the daughter-in-law's words are more and more difficult to hear, and finally Ms. Zhao is no longer tolerate simply go back to their own small life to go, and now Ms. Zhao jumped to the square dance to meet the old man a few years younger than himself, to take care of their own is also very dedicated, and live than in the children's home comfort, Ms. Zhao's smile once again came back to the present, and she no longer want to go to the children's place to live. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
Write in the last
The old man often say "raising children to prevent old age" but this idea should be forgotten, if we can live by ourselves, can be their own home at home, there is no need to go to the children's home to make the children unhappy, and their own home also do not have to look at the children's face every day to do things, is even more! Relaxed, after all, the age is here, and the children's thinking there is always a generation gap, accidentally because of some trivial matters, triggering some unexpected things, distance produces beauty this sentence is not false, the children want us to come back to see, we do not have to get involved in the children's life, so a good, do what you like, happy to spend the later years.