Just like Sanqiu didn't see each other, this is to describe a deep feeling in love, which burns like fire.
As Zhang Xiaoxian said in the book Missing: "Love is endless yearning for each other, lingering concern and willing tie."
Love is beautiful, what everyone yearns for, and what everyone wants to look forward to in life.
If you love someone deeply, his/her name will always be in your heart and will never be forgotten by time. If this person is someone you love but can't love, then this kind of love and yearning will be stronger.
Therefore, when men miss women madly, they basically don't simply say "I miss you" to women, but say these three words.
What are you doing?
Some women say that their lover or husband is not romantic and won't even say a word of love to themselves, so he is a serious straight man.
But in fact, men just hide their deep feelings and thoughts about you in their own words, and prefer to express their love for women in another way.
For example, when a man misses you very much, he will take the initiative to ask you "What are you doing", which implies that he wants to start a topic between you, which is equivalent to-I miss you.
In their hearts, I think you are too short to express their love. I need to talk to you more to make you feel their full love and yearning.
Therefore, as a woman, you must understand that when a man asks what you are doing, it means that he is thinking of you and crazy about you. Please don't ignore it, because he is expressing his love for you.
Come with me.
Besides saying what you are doing to express your thoughts, sometimes men just say "come with me". This is a very straightforward way to express his thoughts, and it is also the emotion he expresses because he misses you crazily.
In men's eyes, this is to show their most sincere side to their loved ones, because what they need most is the company of their loved ones when they are vulnerable and helpless.
So at this time, women can better understand a man and verify their true feelings.
When a woman hears a man say that, she must pay attention. He doesn't want to embarrass you, nor to take advantage of you, but to spoil you, miss you madly, and want to see you right away.
It may be naive in the eyes of some women, but so what? Loving someone is sometimes naive.
When a man says "come with me", he wants you to stay with him no matter where you are or what you are doing. Only your company will make him feel safe and calm, and missing him will make him want to see you.
marry
When a man misses you madly, he will blurt out the word "marriage". Marriage is an important event in life, not for fun.
Every man and woman who love each other wants to get married and start a family. Couples who really stick to their married life are carrying the hottest love for each other.
When a man says this when he misses you crazily, he finally realizes that he misses you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
In fact, he is already planning and preparing for your future, so after separation, he will miss you crazily, because without you, he will lose his mind and feel at a loss.
At this time, he will want to form a family of two people by means of marriage, and put an end to separation again in the future.
When a woman falls in love with a man, she will be full of expectations for marriage, and she will get his sincerity in loving herself from his vows and promises.
But loving someone doesn't need sweet words to fill the inner needs. Those men who only talk sweet words don't really love you, but men who seldom talk sweet words. Their love is the most sincere and passionate.