Part 1
Hello everyone! Before we step into the door of the university, confused is a word far away from us. Ever since we were young, our goals have been clear, to strive to be the best one! Learn what our parents wanted us to learn and do what we had to do for the entrance exams. At that time, we were often bored with this life of no choice, but there is no denying that every day's goal is clear and life is full.
Before I entered the ivory tower of college, I had countless wonderful visions of it. I thought I would finally stop writing the endless test questions every day and finally be able to organize my own time. But when you have more choices, you don't know what to choose. When we get to college, we all think about our future employment more or less. I will ask myself, what can I do with my major? What do you want to do? Or what do you have the ability to do? With these questions we gradually become overwhelmed, and can not find the direction.
Let's get lost in the distance. To the university, many of us have left home and parents. The heart for the first time really realize that later to rely on their own, but found their ability is so lacking. Envy A has a beautiful singing voice, marveled at B's calligraphy and painting, marveled at C's eloquence ...... also wanted to try, but was afraid that he did not do well, for fear that he would be laughed at by others. Hesitation makes us lose forward momentum and fall into a daze.
When we can not find the direction of the time, the most important thing to do is not to stop in place to think about where the way out? On the contrary this time should be the busiest. Do not know the direction to go with their own feelings. If you like calligraphy, you can pick up a brush and practice for an hour or two every day. If you like to give a speech, you can go on the stage and share your insights with everyone. If you want to learn how to dance, you can search the Internet for video screens and learn while watching. Like to do, in the road ahead to find out what is their most wanted, what is the most suitable for their own. Moreover, we do not need to pay too much attention to other people's eyes. I remember Mr. Zhou Guoping in the "life when the excellent" has been so regarded as the comments of others: whenever after dinner anyway, they are going to say, whether it is good or not as good as they are going to talk about. Why do you need to live in other people's eyes. We are in the youthful years of this time not crazy, wait for when?
University is the most simple society, on the stage that even if we are really bad, sitting on the stage of the students and friends will still give us the most sincere encouragement. We all say right?! What's more, how can we be bad. At best, not good enough!
To the university many of us have not had the habit of writing a diary, but we must at least maintain a habit of thinking about their gains and losses. Only through constant self-summarization and analysis, we can understand ourselves more clearly, and always be aware of what we want and what we lack.
Do a plan, remember to do things every day, write a journal, and share your growth with friends, so that the youth will not be lost!
Lastly, I would like to share with you an inspirational lyric, please read it out with me with the most enthusiastic ***.
My way is not your way, my suffering is not your suffering, everyone has, the potential ability to put everything to conquer.
My tears are not your tears, my pain is not your pain, the same sky, different glory, there is the same moving.
No need to feel sorry for yourself in fear, just need to be calm, just need to charge forward, tell yourself: Born to be useful.
As long as you don't ask if you can do everything, you can exchange your whole life with one breath, and you don't have to wait to meet the future.
The secret of success is whether you are willing to do it or not. Sweat the hottest sweat and use the most sincere heart, the first place belongs to everyone!
Part 2
When I first saw the title of the book "Whose Youth is Not Lost", I was attracted by two key words: "youth" and "lost". I thought it would be a book that would make me no longer confused after reading it, but when I read the whole book, I found myself even more frustrated.
Liu Tong said in the book that we are all the same, are in the future, break free from the past, the present make a strong look. There will be woe, there is dash, but more is not afraid. Not afraid of turbulence, not afraid of the turnaround, not afraid of sudden. Who's youth is not confused, in fact, we are the same.
Perhaps it is because he is also in Hunan University, I am more curious about the book, I have not been aware of their own youth where to go, in fact, there is a saying quite good "in the young period, but the heart of the old".
From his preface I found the **** Ming, but also got some comfort, the original is not a person in this way, he wrote in the book: "twenty years old, you are restless, dormitory brothers are chatting, ready to go out all-night computer games, you on the surface of the cheering, the heart has been asking themselves a question: when I was so hard to I was so hard to get into the university, four years later, how do I get out of the university? Under Yuelu Mountain, Orange Island, Lover's Beach, you also mingled in the crowd, looking at each similar face, your heart's biggest worry is: do they already know where to go in the future? Why are you the only one so stupid?" Thinking that I am not the only one who possesses such worries, I suddenly realized that everyone is actually like this, and I am no exception.
Thinking of their previous ideals, their own efforts for the university under the sweat, however, in the university in some of the lost goals, began to deny some of their own efforts, however, from Liu Tong's book I saw this paragraph: you grow up in all the problems encountered, are tailor-made for you. Solved, you become a survivor among your kind of people. Unsolved, you never know who you might have become.
I am admonished every moment to be more optimistic, to engage more with this society, to deal with people more. But in fact, many roads in life are to be walked alone, there are many choices, many opportunities, how to choose, will have what kind of life.
But the way to make yourself as happy as possible is to keep yourself in a state of commitment, and to try to adapt to whatever environment you are in.
Previously, I liked the beautiful words, and slowly realized that these beautiful and the reality is too far away, a lot of their own childhood said the words still recall in the ear, only to feel that it is a little childish and ridiculous.
From his words I read the helplessness of growth, but there is also a youth in the moving, some people say that this book is full of all the pretentious, pretentious text, pretentious title, pretentious cover, but it is this kind of pretentious caused by the young people's **** Ming. We are in youth, in this turbulent society, but also must have the pressure that this age stage has, the so-called confusion, do not know what the future will be, and do not know when and where they will be in the next decade.
In fact, many times we are giving up something to really have something, has been emphasizing innovation and entrepreneurship, but no courage to put forward their own point of view, what is innovation, and how to start a business, I have asked some of my friends, have you ever thought about what you can do after finishing college, if you can't find a job, that's not even more confusing? I even think the more choices, sometimes the more time wasted, wandering, hesitation, indecision is not as good as only one road to the pain.
Book quote: When it's dark all around you, you can do your best to give yourself a light. That light may not be so bright, and it may not even be able to illuminate your path within three steps in the future, but as long as you support it and try to light it up, at least you can let the people around you see you all the time in the darkness. For the road you have chosen, believe and respect your choice. Persisted, there will always be results.
I am most afraid that I will not be able to go on halfway, and even more afraid that I will be wrong at the beginning, and then farther and farther away in my own life, and the ideal life is more and more far away from myself. I remember chatting with a high school friend, and one of the most touching words is: people live, not why, as long as the happy life of each day will be enough. At that time, I was confused, I seem to have a long time no real happy time, every day in despair, to see all the changes, some caught off guard. However, some things, is their own choice, there is nothing to regret.
Part 3
"Whose youth is not confused" This book is the struggle of young Liu Tong ten years during the creation of a miracle from the staff to the vice president, from the light of the media enterprise planning origin of his ten years of retrograde life, to the metropolis in the restlessness or confused confused young people full of positive energy.
A person, ten years of time; a city, rapid changes, if you can not do to make you think y, then try to make you smile, 1.5 million words of the record of the North, spanning ten years of self-talk.
Looking at other people's real records, really envious, it is strange, I don't like to read masterpieces, don't like to read novels, but I am fascinated by other people's records of growth, because I can feel their sincerity and charisma, and I am y attracted by them.
The book describes the family, friendship and work, which used a large part of the description of friendship, think it is, a college graduate left home to go out to the teenagers, contact should be the most friends and colleagues, it also shows that the book is really his ten years of real portraits, their own and their own conversation, the book describes many friends are now out of contact, think of the beginning, if the text record, the feelings and the feelings of the people, the book is the most important thing. If there is no record of these words, this relationship in the memory may be blank, how can life be colorful! Think about yourself is not it, high school play good friends, since the university on the break contact, not to mention the work after. Just like the book wrote: all teenagers about the promise of unknown destiny before the comfort of the moment, you will one day understand: some people, some things, a moment to miss, is a lifetime.
While looking at their stories, there are many things I do not have a great sense of touch, perhaps only when they have personally experienced, that kind of **** chirping feeling will gradually increase, and even for some of the views they told me I still hold a skeptical attitude, but this can not weaken my love for them.
Everyone has their own philosophy of life, I wondered whether to be successful, we are not some *** with the same to have the unchanging truth of the ages? For example, a positive mindset, courage and self-confidence, and perseverance. What are some of the things that everyone has to live by in their formative years? All changes do not change, all things as long as we do our own best to do it, regardless of the results, as long as we have worked hard, we have no regrets. Life we have a lot of confusion, there are many bad, but this does not prevent us from continuing to move forward, every kind of obstacle is a kind of training for us, we dare to face, we can grow.
These days read the book thought a lot, more and more realize how unique they are, how unique. Before always in denial, always feel that everything they do is wrong, doubt their own every behavior and idea, in the final analysis is a complete lack of self-confidence, but looking at their growth, I know that I do I think so are OK, just has been to find a reasonable explanation, but I believe that every behavior behind a reasonable component, even if you make a mistake and so on, other people don't I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm sure there's a reasonable component behind every behavior, even if you make a mistake, and others don't agree with it. Recalling the past, slowly lighten up all the past, other people's ridicule, other people's lack of understanding, all relieved. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it.
The biggest thing I learned from this book is that one's success is not achieved overnight, but through one's own unremitting efforts. So don't just be the one who looks up, struggle for youth, hurry up and take action!