According to folk customs, two major events in life must be accomplished, that is, marriage and childbirth. But with the development of the times and the change of the three views, people's old thinking is no longer a magic spell, young people's personalization is more and more, like the trend, like modern, like self and so on, completely subverted our old generation of feudal thinking.
Freedom is not the patent of young people, many older people have also begun to be changed by the times, jumping square dance, on the jitterbug short video, and so on is not inferior to the young people chasing the trend. In the past are parents arranged marriage, from birth parents will help media doll marriage, grow up very early to get married and have children, too early to be bound by the family, carrying a heavy burden. These are not what the young people want, and not what the young people want to see, they prefer to have personality and easy to go to life.
It is reported that the annual divorce rate in big cities has reached about forty percent. What does such a high divorce rate indicate? It's a lack of love for family or children, it seems neither. The key point is that people's concepts are changing, many people say that life is a few decades why should we condemn ourselves! This concept fully proves that people's minds are pursuing liberalization, not willing to be emotionally bound. The fact that you can't get married again is so simple.
There is also an invisible phenomenon, that is, many people do not like to register the marriage, secretly have children together, two people can live a long time to insist on living together, can not get along, directly separated on it, do not have to go through any formalities. This is also the side of the proof of people's freedom of marriage is more personalized, no longer affected by the previous traditional view of marriage, so that they are very hard and exhausting.
In short, young people do not want to get married for many reasons, the purpose of only one personalized and free to make them re-know themselves, know the ultimate purpose of life pursuit, not just to pass on the family, more is to live from myself, live out the value, let yourself pain and happiness!