How do you, as a sensible person, weigh in on an elderly person helping out with the baby?

Is the old man obliged to take care of his own children? This issue has caused extensive discussion in the community, as an adult with a positive outlook, I think the old man has no obligation to help themselves with their children, he helped is the love, not to help is this, as a son or daughter, can not serve their parents have had too much indebtedness to them, which also dare to ask their parents to help themselves to bear the burden of child-rearing it. First, the old man is not obliged to help themselves with their children

Their own children, that is their own, their parents do not have this obligation to help us with their children Their responsibility has been completed, that is, we will raise our own adults, for us to go to school. In fact, when you reach the age of 18, legally it is an adult, parents have completed their responsibilities and obligations, just in our country this family-oriented country, many children even to the age of 30 years old, or live in the shelter of their parents.

Two, the old man is old, no ability and energy to take baby

Baby mother know, with baby that is extremely tiring, especially more than 3 years old child, it is the time to move, every day jumping up and down, the old man may not have the physical strength to follow him, and now the transportation is developed, the child is not how much to predict the ability of the danger, the slightest inattention may be the occurrence of tragedy. And so naughty children, if the old man was not good health, a minute may be angry out of the disease.

Three, from the legal point of view, the old man is not the child's guardian, and there is no need to take this responsibility

The child's guardian is his parents, not his grandparents. Law provides that parents have the responsibility and obligation to raise children, but does not provide that grandparents have this responsibility, so the old man is not necessary to bear the responsibility, and, grandparents hard work for a lifetime, it is not easy to wait until the children are grown up, they should be enjoying the blessings of the children, as the children's, but also to consider their own parents, not just focusing on their own career, but also the children of the children's, but also the children of the parents. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new car.

But in reality, the vast majority of families are grandparents to help with the children, they brought up the son and began to help the son with the son, think about it we really owe the parents too much.