1. Smart women money word, childish women love into the throat, fools for love, wise people do not enter the river of love.
2. Women need to understand the truth, only to be put on the tip of the heart, only to be qualified to be capricious and do whatever you want, if you can not become someone else's princess, then do their own queen!
3. In any relationship, together is gathered, not together is scattered, no big deal. Accommodate more, understand more, take into account more, lose yourself, there is no need.
4. Alienate your people let him alienate, do not ask why, because you hear all the excuses.
5. Far away from your people do not force to stay, because forced to come, too humble.
6. No matter what the relationship, the love is consumed, the fate of the end of the line, the fault is attributed to themselves, and polite exit. The first thing you need to do is to return yourself to yourself, and return the others to the others.
7. Remember to meet again in the future, he loves you, you stay, he does not love you, you turn around and walk away. Because love is instinctive, is not taught.
8. Women need to understand, can not get the love as self-love, can not get the treasure as active abandonment.
9. You have to get used to anyone's cold and hot or drift away, edge to cherish, edge to go, do not force to stay, love yourself!
10. A woman when the most beautiful, when she does not love anyone, do not care about anything, no longer suffer from loss, stop thinking nonsense, full of indifference when the eyes are the most secure.
11. Women really need a pattern than you, ability than you strong, vision than you long, teach you the human condition, take you to grow with the man, rather than things will only blame you.
1, at any time to maintain economic independence.
They have their own money, more security, more protection.
2. Don't look at love as the only pursuit. This short life, if there is no effort to live out the best, the most good and the most true self, did not raise his head to look into the distance of a vast world, and did not lower his head to pursue the awakening of the heart, then, this life, it is considered to be living in vain.
3. Learn to put down unworthy people and things.
The reason why people live very tired, mostly because they can not let go. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the things that you have to do in order to get rid of them, and then you have to get rid of them.
The life sometimes must have, life is not the time to force. The first thing you need to do is to learn how to put down, don't make things difficult for yourself, put your mind on something valuable, forget the past, and cherish the present.
4. Let yourself live a more refined life and become a better version of yourself.
Women have to live a little more exquisite, the years are not forgiving, so how to be beautiful, how beautiful, be sure to love yourself, life will not become rich because of your savings, they do not love themselves do not expect others to love you. Take the time to go outside to see more, don't always stay at home, busy day and night with wood, rice, oil, salt, soy, vinegar and tea. The only way to live for yourself is to live a life that's not worth living, and to be worthy of yourself.
5, learn to treat yourself, love yourself, do not always be compromised. Women must learn to treat themselves well, you do not treat yourself well, no one will be able to give you substantial help, do not let others, and condescend to their own. Sometimes, you have to give in to everything, only to let the other side is more and more inches.
You have to be good enough for yourself to be able to be graceful until old age. For a woman, the best state, but is through their own efforts, everything into the way they want, so as not to let themselves into both can not get out of the situation, but also can not give themselves a good choice of dilemma.
6, learn to control emotions, calmly deal with things. life in the world, not as good as a lot of things. Don't grieve for the unworthy, don't get angry for the unworthy, a lot of things felt unbearable at the time, but there will be a day when the clouds will be clear.
Don't bury all your heart in your heart, you have to learn to say it. When you put the heart of the bitterness and aggression and release, you will find that all the problems will be solved.
7, to be full of hope for life, to face life frankly. No one's life is really easy, seek but can not be the norm of life, love but not only you. Since you can't change things, try to change your mindset.
Fall down, stand up is, as long as there is still the courage to go forward, there is always unexpected warmth, and endless hope. The rest of your life is still long, please don't panic.
8, to learn to enjoy the time alone. No one can be with you all the time, so we have to learn to be alone. If you learn to enjoy the quiet time alone, and go to create their own spiritual garden, you will not be so anxious, you will decisively leave the man who has no use for you, because you can live well alone. You also learn to trust yourself when decisions need to be made. I always believe that God will guide us on the road ahead, listen carefully, work hard and God's guidance will come as expected.
9, to have their own hobbies and life circle. Women should always have their own hobbies and interests, know what they want, what they can do, and live into the best of themselves. The most important thing is to have your own circle of life, in your own happy and sad time are accompanied by someone, this is the biggest wealth.
10, must develop the habit of exercise, adhere to the daily exercise. Life is movement, the pressure of life and work crushed the body of many people. Women want to continue to enjoy a good life, then there must be a healthy body. You can go for a run, climb the mountain, even jumping square dance is also very good. Stick to the exercise, it does not take long, you will be able to find the whole body is full of youthful breath.
With health, you are qualified to have everything, no health, the right to choose are not.
11, and walk and cherish, grateful to meet, grateful for everything.
Charge the moment, cherish every person who loves you, especially the parents. If you can't go home often, give them a call from time to time to talk about the family, they will also be very happy.
In short, don't let yourself have regrets.
My immature thoughts.
1. Self-reliance. Adults can financially support themselves and do not rely on others.
2. No one is obliged to be good to you, except your parents. So be grateful to those who are good to you and return the favor when appropriate. This is especially adapted to the spouse.
3. For men's promises, just listen. Don't take it seriously, and don't take out the previous promises to question the man when he can't do it, it won't help.
4. Particularly good, particularly bad women men are not much. Most people are about the same. Some of them are getting better and better, some are getting worse and worse, and there may be differences in communication and interaction between the two sides **** love.
5. Marriage requires management. As a woman, encounter good, do not make, do not be superior. To be good at communication, to be good to the spouse's parents. The small things do not care, the big things to think of ways.
When it comes to the not-so-good, find a way to solve it. If you can't, you'll have to put it to death.
6. Husband and wife relationship first.
7. For most women, work is important.
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A woman does not have to be too knowledgable, and too much knowledgable is not a good life.
Life is always on behalf of others, always condescending people, often live a depressing, no self, and is not valued. The main character of the TV series "Longing" Liu Huifang gentle and considerate, filial piety and generosity, kind-hearted, the result is everywhere by the difficult, living into a cylinder. And then look at not abide by women's rights, unscrupulous Wu Zetian, living into a million people worship the female emperor.
Second, do not believe in the so-called love.
Love this thing may exist, but it is the treasures of the earth, the average person can not get, so you must pay attention, do not be confused by the sweet words of the moment, looking for a life partner, we have to look for people who can give you a visible value. Jun not see, life crying for love, and finally were love hurt, those who were ridiculed material girl, even if hurt, there is a layer of material coat for her to cover the wind and rain.
Third, the woman this mouth is very important, must learn to speak.
Sweet-talking women do not suffer. To the in-laws more called two mom and dad, to ensure that the other side of the smile, to the husband all right to sound dear, estimated that the end of the month your waistband will be more silver. In the unit is also so, to the old comrades, to the leadership more respect, maybe when there will be an unexpected harvest. People a suggestion, a point of view, may enable you to take many detours. Don't talk about others in the short term, say more about the merits of others, you will have a more pleasant working environment.
Fourth, women should have the ability to feed themselves, to have their own survival skills.
Three hundred and sixty lines, there is always a line for you. Do not consider whether the high and mighty, the right is the best. Others may be well read, engage in scientific research; you read poorly, only suitable for farming, feeding pigs. Then plant the land out of flowers, feed the pig with a unique style, as can earn more than ten thousand a month, as can realize the freedom of wealth. Even if you won't earn a lot, you must make sure that feeding yourself and your children is not a problem.
Fifth, women should also learn to borrow, looking for dependence.
For example, some women do full-time wife after marriage, he used her husband's ability to support the family, education, children, and overall enhance the comprehensive strength of the family. But the premise of this borrowing power is that you can be a home, to be able to spiritually, ideologically control the man, will borrow the power of the woman is the most successful woman. For example, Cixi, not with the help of Reigns she can not be queen, but the premise is that Reigns is happy to listen to her, appreciate her ability to do things.
Six, the woman must be smart, talk and do things in proportion.
A smart girl will not be fooled, and will not be bullied at will. Here said smart, by no means refers to the kind of reading, will read the girl is often too simple, too no heart, the most easy to believe that the textbooks in the axioms. The real smart is to understand the underlying rules of society, know how to deal with people, can get along with the gentleman, but also can maneuver with the small man; can cater to the crowd psychology, but also dare to refuse and turn the other cheek.
Seven, the woman should be clean, maintain excellent character.
Many girls are eager to achieve quick success, in order to achieve early, often at the expense of their own reputation, and have the power of the opposite sex too close, and even develop into an improper male and female relationships, want to take this shortcut to realize the ideal of life. This kind of people seem to be successful, smooth realization of personal aspirations, but this kind of people's marital relationship is a chicken feather, to the middle and old age, often become a widow, a desolate.
Women must understand:
A livelihood depends on oneself. Can not put all their hopes in others, only their own skills, ability to earn money, any time you can be financially independent, in order not to be dependent on others, confident life.
The second woman must understand that at all times to self-esteem and self-respect and self-love, do not be presumptuous, do not languish, do not flatter others, do not look down on themselves, do not humble themselves, not the pit, innocent people. Love and care for yourself, in order to get the love you want.
Three women must understand that the beauty of the appearance, first of all, the beauty of the soul, the inner beauty. There must be a certain level of culture, more reading and learning. Spare time to spend on learning, to enhance their knowledge in all aspects, skills, rather than use in smearing powder, the belly has poetry from the gas. Learning will make you long beauty, make-up is only temporary beauty.
Four women must understand that to fall in love, looking for objects. Looking for things love, the three views are the same, interest in the same, door to door, is the basis of a good life. Instead of climbing high knot noble, or to high price of bride price to sell themselves, so, will only be looked down upon.
Five women must understand that home is the harbor of happiness, once you have a home, you must cherish. Couples respect and love each other, filial piety and respect for both elderly, cultivate and educate children, and run a good family. Do have their own business, have a cozy family, is a happy woman.
Women most understand the truth is "confused", because as long as pretend not to know do not know and do not understand, can give their own turn to leave a lot of space.
"Cowardly fear" is another hand of women, some women in front of men show weakness, even an ant can make her lose color, fussing, leaning on the man to play nice and favored.
In fact, women do not need to know how much reason, reason in the heart of the woman did not feel, the woman's intuition than you say a train of reasoning, reasoning, her Excellency than anyone who understands, but in the drumming of selfishness under the confusion of becoming a profit to make the wise, so many women do as a woman's original nature to abandon one side, and become incomprehensible.
1, quality men are in big cities, but there is too much competition.
2. Don't be too emotional, a pragmatic marriage is happier.
3, the man would rather lack than abundance, married to the wrong person than the single more painful.
4, the patriarchal family of origin, as early as possible away.
5, do not think of completely dependent on others, economic independence is very important.
6. Don't put your hopes on your other half and marriage.
7, the essence of marriage is also a relationship of interest, value exchange nature.
8, the economic foundation must be the marriage priority.
9, young, beautiful, is always the biggest value of women in the eyes of men.
10, emotional experience is too rich woman, often this life is not happy.
11, do not waste time with men without results, women's youth is the most valuable.
12, the woman should study, so that they jump up the level of high-level high-quality men.
13, it is best not to marry too poor people, it is possible that people and money are empty.
14, to understand their own value and advantages, all relationships are the essence of the interests.
15, men are colorful, women love money, do not test human nature.
1, first make a living, and then make love, a woman to make a living is far more important than to make love, to make a living will certainly be rewarded, at least with income, to make love is not necessarily rewarding, and often also pit themselves.
2, no matter at what time, to put themselves in the first place in life, because no one will put you in the first place. Treating yourself as the most important person is not selfishness, it is wisdom.
3, marriage is not a shortcut to change fate, in the marriage, if the woman does not grow, everything depends on the man, and then the good feelings will be tainted, because no one in the marriage will always tolerate everything you, people's patience is limited. To have a good marriage, first of all, you have to let yourself grow all the time and become better and better.
4, look down on all all the relationships, you only look down on the so-called all kinds of relationships will not be so-called tripped up, and will not be hurt, to protect their own armor, really do not put too much of these on the heart.
5, accustomed to all the friends of the drift away, do not contact do not go to chagrin, and do not want to think is not good enough to do, offending others, is not others already do not want to contact with their own. Friends really is a period of time, understand, everything is relieved.
6, a woman's greatest sense of security is that they can make money, they can save money, spend what money do not reach out to anyone. When there is no dependence, money is still the biggest dependence.
7, do not believe that men's sweet words, alliance oath, toxic.
8, a person suddenly on your special good time, be careful, the next iron sure nothing good.
9, in the workplace, do not engage in ambiguity with men, the loss must be a woman, they are purposeful, and women are easy to put true feelings.
1. Learn to refuse, bravely say no.
2. Put down the unworthy people and things.
3. Have boundaries with married people.
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6. Doing well for yourself is more important than anything else.
7. Have a hobby that makes you happy.
8. The best thing in life is an abundance of quiet.
9. Stay kind and be kind to those around you.
10. Don't be vain. Vanity is a poison.
11. Choose a person, is to choose a life.
12. Before you love someone, you must be self-sufficient.
13. Without love, you have to live a sexy and full life.
14. Independence is a woman's most attractive card.
15. Yesterday is gone and can not be chased, today both come and cherish line.
16. If there are poems and books hidden in the heart, the years never defeat the beauty.
17. Only with absolute self-discipline will there be relative freedom.
18. There is no shortcut to do things, take your time, it will be faster.
19. The temperature of a family is always controlled by the woman.
20. Life in the world, the mouth should be guarded, the heart should be repaired, people should be good.
21. The best gift for the future is to be generous to the present.
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23. Marriage is not something you can settle for. The first thing you need to do is to get married to a man who is not a man.
24. Don't care about other people's opinions, go and choose your own life.
25. Only when you have learned to love yourself, you can afford to love others.
26. There are some things that can not be said, especially the unfortunate things.
27. What suits you is the best, so follow your heart.
28. Manage your image well, because the outside is the presentation of the inside.
29. Be good to your parents and don't always think of waiting a little longer.
30. Learn to adapt, in order to be less stuck, more vitality, walk through.
31. Marriage is a major event in life, but definitely not the biggest thing in life.
32. Before you become a daughter, a mother, a wife, you are first yourself.
33. In this society of "judging people by their appearance", we should be more talented.
34. If someone else makes you unhappy, you don't have to pretend to be generous to forgive.
35. To be able to manage your own body, you can also manage your own life.
36. Adults in the world, tears can not help themselves, do not take the tears as a weapon.
37. When it comes to the big things to be quiet, when it comes to the difficult things to change, when it comes to the rotten things to leave, when it comes to the smooth things to converge.
38. Love yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance, loyalty to yourself is the first priority in life.
39. Encounters between people are not all destiny, timely disconnect is not wasted this life.
40. In case of more weak, more pampered, is the freshness of love, marriage adhesive.
41. The best state of affection is to have you I am very happy, without you I also have other happiness.
42. Learn to shut up, silence does not mean admit defeat, not everyone is worthy of your explanation.
43. Whether a person is able to be happy all the time depends on whether she has the ability to self-produce happiness.
44. Outside of love, retaining a passion for the rest is the only way to keep life hot at all times.
45. No matter before or after marriage to maintain the interest of life, the tasteless life into a colorful spring.
46. Don't develop a relationship because of loneliness, have the ability to let yourself be alone.
47. A woman can be "cold" a little. The first thing that you need to do is to get away from the people that you want to get away from, reject the people that you want to reject, and stick to the people that you want to stick to.
48. Always keep the ability to love people, always have a passion for love, life, to live a wonderful life.
49. Do not have to let the relationship in life to occupy such an important position, many people do not have a relationship, but also the same life.
50. The so-called marital bliss is to find a willingness to talk crap with you, and willing to listen to you talk crap friends.
51. A woman's beauty does not depend on whether you are beautiful in the eyes of others, but depends on whether you are beautiful in the hearts of others.
52. People who really love you will look for you when they are sad and upset, but they are more likely to share with you when they are happy and happy.
53. Learn to forget, unhappy, painful, have lost, forget, reduce the burden of the heart, in order to walk more relaxed.
54. Women should have a job of their own, do not easily give up their career. To have the ability to earn money, you will have more security.
55. No matter how physically and mentally exhausted, we must maintain a sense of romance, formalism is not so great, but it is much better than lazy going through the motions.
56. Smart women know how to run their own lives, a pay and sacrifice can only make themselves more and more passive. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have the right amount of money to spend.
57. Harmful education methods for children: reasoning, tantrums, deliberately moving. Reasoning about everything is the next best thing, losing your temper is the next best thing, and forgiveness and being an example is the best thing.
58. The book is not rouge, but will make the woman's heart face permanent. The book is not a stick, but will make the woman powerful. The book is not a feather, but will make women fly. The book is not omnipotent, but will make the woman a thousand different.
59. Happy women never live in other people's mouths, they know that the best way to live is to be responsible for their own. Choose your own choice, undertake their own to undertake, go forward, do not care too much about other people's eyes and views, you live a happy life, life will be happy.
60. A good marriage is not to lose oneself, unilateral payment, but to maintain independence, but also to give each other the opportunity to pay. Love a person, can be engraved, but must not pay all, to stay three love themselves. If you really low to the dust, then waiting for must not be full of flowers of joy, but a chicken feather sad.