1. Home-school cooperation needs communication.
Parents and schools (teachers) have a wrong mentality-that obedient and excellent children do not need home-school communication; Children need home-school communication only if they have problems.
Home-school cooperation needs communication, which can solve this problem well. The purpose is to make children mentally healthy, grow up happily, study well and get along well with classmates.
2. Home-school cooperation requires mutual respect between parents and teachers.
There is a saying in education: trust can cultivate trust, and love can cultivate love. Parents' respect for teachers, schools and education is not only respect for teachers themselves, but also respect for children.
Teachers need the respect and recognition of the whole society, so that teachers can feel that the profession of teachers has a position. In this way, teachers will devote themselves to teaching and educating people, and children will get a good education. Why not parents?
Teachers respect their parents, not others, but their work, their positions and their values. If teachers don't respect parents, how can parents cooperate with your work?
3. Correctly handle the relationship between parents and teachers.
If parents and teachers complain, accuse and confront, the result is that children suffer, and both parents and schools fail. Only cooperation, coordination, communication and help between home and school can make children develop better and better, and parents and teachers are happy.
Schools, teachers and parents should fully realize that they are the closest partners in educating students and seek help from each other when encountering problems.
Some suggestions for parents to educate their children:
These suggestions hope to bring some thoughts and a direction to parents.
Suggestion 1:
No matter what a child becomes, it is the result of education, so the child is the mirror of his parents, and what he sees in the mirror is himself.
Behind an excellent child, there are one or several excellent parents and teachers, and behind a problem children, there are one or several parents and teachers with problems. When we educate problem children, we usually focus on children, but in fact we should focus on teachers and parents.
To make children become excellent, it is necessary to train excellent teachers and parents. Without excellent teachers and parents, it is impossible to cultivate excellent children.
In order to make children better, parents should first change themselves. Of course, all parents and teachers have good intentions and want to educate their children well. Only good intentions and good methods can do good things. Therefore, parents need to learn a good way to educate their children.
Recommendation 2:
In addition to learning, there are many qualities that parents should pay attention to. Children's first priority is to learn, find their own ideals in learning, and pave the way for the future with knowledge. But some things are more important than grades, so parents should not forget them.
After learning, children can also play more educational toys and games, which can also promote learning. For example, let children play educational toys, chess, paper-cutting, quiz games and so on.
The popular Rover ultra-light clay is deeply loved by children. Rich colors and different shapes attract children's curiosity, and different themes are displayed in many ways. DIY by children themselves can not only create ever-changing shapes, gain self-confidence and sense of accomplishment, but also improve learning concentration. After practicing for a day, their concentration is improved and their study is more labor-saving.
In addition to the combination of play, there are the following suggestions that deserve parents' attention:
First, physical and mental health No matter what stage the child is in, physical and mental health is the most important.
Parents should not only care about their children's physical health, but also care about their mental health. They should communicate with their children more, pay attention to their psychological changes, help them deal with negative emotions in time, and actively guide them to develop in a good direction.
At the same time, we should also remember to encourage children to take part in sports. Regular exercise, such as walking, playing ball and dancing, can help children relieve stress and have good physical fitness.
Second, to cultivate good quality, children can get low marks, but they must never be liars or villains. Achievement can't represent everything, but excellent conduct will benefit children for life.
Parents should keep abreast of their children's thoughts, constantly encourage and spur them, and cultivate their children into hardworking and honest people, so that every step is practical and meaningful.
Third, independence is the most powerful soft power in a child's life.
Children should not be flowers hiding in greenhouses. Only after experiencing the test of cold and heat can it grow into a towering tree. Only when parents let go can children grow independent wings and walk in the clouds. When children are at home, parents should cultivate their work habits, let them do some housework within their power, and improve their self-care ability and work skills.
Education is a long-term undertaking, and both schools and parents have a long way to go! Do a good job in home-school cooperation, and start a new meeting to educate children and train them to become better!