Just because the little prince met the rose garden, he began to feel sorry for Rose's lies. He was so sad that he cried on the grass. At this moment, the fox appeared.
This is the reflection of Antoine's own marriage. He and his wife have so many contradictions that they can't live any longer. Then there will be new people or things in his alone time, which will give him new feelings.
I think the appearance of the fox is the most comfortable feeling outside the marital responsibility, and it is the warmth that comes to my face. In particular, it is like a "refuge" that you encounter outside when your feelings are in crisis.
No lies, no tricks.
The fox is the little prince's guide and asks the little prince to "tame" him without any taboo. He is true, lively and outspoken. Compared with rose's fake cough, the fox is sincere.
The little prince didn't know what domestication was, so he asked the fox many times. The little prince is like this. If you have a question, you must get an answer. Persistence is his own.
The fox explained that "domestication" means "creating relationships".
Fox is really a smart man. He knows the world and knows everything about life and feelings.
There is no relationship between two people. As the fox said, to him, the little prince is just one of thousands of boys, and to the little prince, the fox is just one of thousands of foxes. If there is no relationship between them, there will be no intersection.
Only by establishing relationships can we depend on each other.
In love, there is a "interdependence theory", which holds that if the goals or means of individual behavior are related to those of others, they will interact.
For the fox, it is precisely because he knows so much about love and hate in this world that when he meets a simple little prince, it is undoubtedly a sense of freshness, even emotional freshness, so he is willing to let the little prince tame him and help him grow up.
The maturity of understanding the world and the simple and lovely childishness collide with each other, and love comes into being.
But love needs not only interdependence, but also a sense of ceremony.
The fox said, "You'd better come at the same time every day. For example, if you come at four o'clock in the afternoon, I will feel happy from three o'clock. The closer the time is, the happier I am. At four o'clock, I will be on pins and needles; I will find the price of happiness. However, if you come at any time, I don't know when to prepare my mood ... there should be a certain ceremony. "
I have read the fox's words again and again, and I always feel that they are too reasonable.
Describe the expectation, anxiety, excitement and happiness in love to the fullest. It not only perfectly shows the psychological activities of most girls in love, but also applies to all men and women who are addicted to love, including foxes.
From beginning to end, the fox guided the little prince, let him grow up and let him know the responsibility of love.
The little prince and the fox get along simply and regularly, getting closer every day and not saying much.
As the fox said, "language is the root of misunderstanding."
Perhaps this is also the author's own view of marriage. Those fearless quarrels are the root of contradictions and reveal the biggest problem in marriage in today's society. Chattering is the biggest weapon to destroy love.
When the little prince met the fox, there was no quarrel, contradiction or misunderstanding. They get along comfortably, know more, are light and precious.
This is a very happy emotional experience besides the responsibility of love.