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Nana since marrying into this family, her husband is very good to her, everywhere for her sake, even sitting in the month is her husband all day waiting, the night is more by his one-handed care of the child, during that time, the situation of their family is still very good, although the father-in-law is bad-tempered, but earn more money, her husband does not have to go out to work for the time being.
But the sky is the limit, the year before last, the father-in-law to the mountains to deal with saplings when the car overturned, the driver was injured, the father-in-law died on the spot, because they called the car, but also compensated the driver a large sum of money to be considered to put an end to the matter. The next day began to be bad, but the good thing is that the husband inherited the genes of his father will make money, and soon went to the field to make money, and can have nearly ten thousand yuan of income per month, and their lives began to be good.
When my father-in-law was alive, I had a bad relationship with my mother-in-law, mainly because he had a bad temper, and he would beat my mother-in-law, and she suffered from a lifetime of frustration, and now my father-in-law is dead, and she didn't show any joy, but she didn't show any sadness either. After 2 years, my mother-in-law began to become very cheerful, because she was less than 50 years old, plus not much to worry about before, so people show young, a little dress, but also really like a young woman in her 30s.
Since my son left home to work abroad, my mother-in-law's relationship with my daughter-in-law is not bad, and my grandson's kindergarten is also on time, but there is one thing that makes it difficult for my daughter-in-law to say, and that is that my mother-in-law often brings her boyfriend to the house to spend the night, because my mother-in-law comes back from the square dance late, and she usually accompanies my son to play for a while, and then she will go to bed early, so I don't really care about my mother-in-law's return to the house when she comes back at night.
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But one night when she got up, she heard her mother-in-law's room talking, and it sounded like a man's voice, and she was alerted to it, so the next morning she kept an eye out and secretly paid attention to her mother-in-law's room, and sure enough, there was an old man coming out of her room early in the morning, and her mother-in-law followed him out and opened the door for him.
This look does not matter, really found the mother-in-law's secret, but this kind of thing, let her a daughter-in-law how to say it, after all, the mother-in-law is the elders, coupled with find not to find a companion is her freedom, but in recent times the old man came more often, and not much to avoid suspicion of their mother and son were also polite, I can see that the old man is like a retired cadres.
This Nana is very upset, say to her husband, so far away he heard the strange blocking, do not say it to their own and can not say to others, their own disturbing, especially a home suddenly appeared an old man, which makes her feel very awkward. But there is no way. So on Sunday, she took the child back to her mother's home, her mother's home in the countryside, the parents are honest people, tell them this kind of thing they can't open their mouths.
Can only keep it all in the heart, but she did not expect is when she came back to find that her mother-in-law and the old man as much as slept in her wedding bed, a strong smell of the elderly, which makes her very angry, but there is a fire but no place to send. She hurriedly changed all the bedding and washed it again, but the kind of dislike in her heart made her like a stalk in her throat, and she wanted to even carry out the bedding and throw it away, but she thought that it was their wedding bedding, and she couldn't throw it away, so she could only put it away and put it away.
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This makes her very depressed, but more depressed things are still behind, because he asked about the old man side by side, feel the situation, really can not be married to the mother-in-law to marry the old man, so that can be less of a pile of heartache, an old man is often late at night in and out of their own homes, which makes her feel very uncomfortable.
Results of the inquiry, guess what? The old man is a retired cadres, and still retired on the deputy section level, but also when a few days of small leaders, but he has a wife and children, but his wife because of a car accident early in the year, paralyzed in bed, has been dying, but their children have the ability to hire nannies to take care of their mothers, in addition to her wife can not take care of their own mobility, the body is not bad, but their marriage has been in name only.
Such two people although in the marriage survival period, but the woman also never ask about the man's business, but there is a she is very taboo, is to ask the man can not bring a woman to go home, so for so many years, the old man is also basically abide by this rule, never bring a woman to their own home to spend the night. That was why she always went to stay at Nana's mother-in-law's place.
Figuring out all this makes Nana even more at a loss for words. What's going on here? If the old man doesn't get divorced, it's hard to believe that they'll just stay together for no apparent reason. Even if people poke at her mother-in-law's spine and she doesn't care, she'll still have to live here for the rest of their lives, and how can they live with people pointing fingers at them?
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Nana was really out of ideas and thought that if she didn't tell her husband about it, it would be a big deal in the future, so how could she face it? But when she told her husband this, her husband first was not believe, and then believe is believed, but also said that there is no way, the old man's own when the son's can not be said, this is not yet what happened, it is really by him to do the son to stop, it is not likely that the mother will be looking for the death of the living, which is to be spread out, they fell a reputation of unfiliality.
Nana did not expect her husband to be this attitude, which makes her even more sad, but since her husband is this attitude, she is a daughter-in-law and what can be said? Only dry sulking. Angry to angry, but she a woman is very important to the family style, at least have to be responsible for their son, can not let their son to the school so that other students say how her grandmother how, how this must hurt the child's self-esteem. The reasoning is not right, but there is no way. You can only be anxious.
The voice: In fact, when it comes to this kind of thing, do the children's actually quite difficult to manage it is not good, no matter it can not go on like this, in my opinion the best way is to solve this kind of thing through the old man's children effect may be easier than their own appearance, because not from the old man there to get through the link, her mother-in-law is immersed in the happiness, how can let go of it?
Now this kind of thing about the love life of the elderly, a lot of young people are not too understand, in fact, they should also have their own love life, but this involves a series of problems such as old age, property, dealing with more complicated, so most of the children in this regard does not support the elderly to enjoy the love, the love life of the elderly imagined as a kind of old man immodest performance.
This understanding is actually wrong, love regardless of age, the elderly in fact more need of love, only that the old man's family situation is more complicated, the marriage in name only, but not divorce is still protected by law, if the old man's children through the old man's mobilization of the old man to divorce as soon as possible to marry her mother-in-law, which is of course the best, if you can't do it, it is best to be by the old man and the mother-in-law to end, so that, the difficult for the children will not be! The first thing you need to do is to get the children to do what they want.