1. Fully respect the wishes of your family.
Respect the wishes of your loved ones, for example, your husband is a filial son, want to take better care of his parents, so that they can enjoy a little quality of life.
Respect the wishes of the in-laws, sometimes in-laws do not want to live with you, the elderly also have their own ideas and life, such as retirement, you can have more time to do what you like to do. Even if it's just square dancing and talking to old friends. Not all in-laws are willing to live with their children.
2, fully respect the objective reality of the conditions.
If you are under a lot of financial pressure or don't have your own house, living with your in-laws can save you a lot of money - rent, utilities and so on.
If your in-laws are in poor health conditions and need to be taken care of, living with you can keep a better eye on the old man's health.
3. Trust your husband
If you have to live with your in-laws for objective reasons, such as wanting to fulfill your filial piety, trust your husband that he can treat your parents the same way he treats his own parents.
4, the elderly can help with the child
While the child is best brought up on their own, but there are elderly people to assist, can reduce a lot of pressure. For example, picking up the baby back from school. I believe that no matter what your occupation, unless you have no occupation, school is dismissed at 4:30, which is a rather embarrassing time for people in any occupation.
5, there is an old man in the family, such as a treasure
The old man has worked hard all his life, and many old people pour their lives into their children may only be enough to buy a set of houses and so on, you live in skyscrapers, and they may still live in the humble tiled house. You have the ability to try to live closer to your parents. This is the best tradition of the Chinese people.
Parents in, not far away. This is not an empty word, more should be implemented in practice.