The first of our neighbors, two people just want two children! The man is a decorator and designer with a decent income! The woman full-time with two children, and then estimated a little tight, the woman in front of the elementary school to do a hosting class, cooking is good, people are also enthusiastic, but also thought the more special to come! Now the old man, including her husband to this trusteeship class as the main [teeth]
The second high school classmates in foreign countries, two daughters, her husband's high salary, the family discussed the female classmates after the full-time care of the family! The family takes care of the children at home, learns to paint on their own (at a very high level), participates in community activities, and plans family outings twice a year! The whole family is in harmony!
The third, also a high school female classmate, high school students, living in Beijing, her husband's super-high salary, female classmates full-time at home to take care of their daughters! I'm not sure if I've ever been in a position to do that, but I'm not sure if I've ever been in a position to do that. Currently the husband does not come home for years, basically sure that there is someone outside! Girls WeChat circle like is to sunshine their luxurious life ......
Anyway, these three around me are still considered to be living a more exciting life! There are also full-time moms, busy all day, the husband does not pay attention to, the child look down on, this you have to wake up!
The greatest happiness of a family is to raise good children!
I respect those who give up their jobs to accompany their children to high school graduation of full-time moms!
My idea used to be to stay with my kids until middle school, but something shocking happened around me recently that changed my original idea.
A group of junior high school and junior high school children, in how many students and parents are envious of the key middle school, think they can go to the key middle school is how buddhist let their parents proud of it, in the key middle school school, there is a famous teacher pointing teaching, all of which can be seen in the excellent so that the parents are twelve minutes of peace of mind, right, and the school is a school day, and the child is so big, everything seems to be letting the people very much. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
But it is this group of "good students" men and women are like a triad like bullying classmates, to classmates to collect protection money, take nude photos, package ... ... ...Shocked, unexpected, they are grown up, right, it is really big enough not to need parents to follow it, but in fact?
So, I think that a full-time mom, at an age when your child needs to be able to study in peace, not only protects your child, but avoids some unexpected stumbles for your child.
My neighbor is so, the child from kindergarten on the resignation of a full-time mother, to the child is now in high school has been running in the child's world, the child is currently a senior, the mother of the wholeheartedly devoted to the child's life, I feel that she is living a special contentedness, her husband is a lawyer, and I can feel that they have a particularly good family atmosphere, the child is cheerful, good learning, her husband can earn money, and she lived in the comfortable, I look at it kinda!
It's a good thing that you don't have to worry about money. I think you should be happy and satisfied with your own life, not to evaluate their lives, and the family can tolerate and satisfy her own happiness. If your answer is no, they will blah blah blah say a whole lot, what women should work, otherwise the children look down on you, you see my daughter or my daughter-in-law are working, so you have a status in the family, every time I will be embarrassed smile, and then walked away. I was also asked the same question in my child's special class, and the interest teacher was careful to ask, "Do you work or do you work full-time with your baby? I answered, "No, I don't have a job, I work full-time with her, and then I had to explain that the elderly can't help, and the child gets out of school early. The teacher then hurriedly said, "Good, good, good, you have merit! I seem to have heard a hint of sympathy it ...... This is my personal experience, their own full-time mother when, feel very weak heart it.
has been very envious of the Japanese housewife, housewife in Japan is a profession, Japanese men go out to work, women labor at home, it is just a social division of labor, of course, women's security will not be very low, because the law provides that men's salaries are hit to the wife's bank account. That's why when children are asked about their aspirations, there are many little girls whose dream is to be a housewife, and no one would laugh at her, rather they think her aspirations are noble.
If full-time motherhood is a profession in Japan, then in the United States, it is not only a common life occupation, but also a sunshine occupation that is highly respected and envied. Because the United States advocates the core concept of "family first", a woman can make the family well organized, warm and loving, is a very big thing. The most important thing is that the full-time mother is the need for children's education, family education is particularly important.
Then why do we all know the importance of family education, but in China, full-time mothers are not generally recognized by the public, not to mention respect and envy. I think the main reason is the awakening of women's rights and interests, and the pressure on us is also increasing. Society expects us not only to look beautiful, but also to earn money to support the family, and more importantly, to take care of the children's education. It's really a lot of work!
What to think of the mom who gives up her job to accompany her child all the time, I think I understand and support. Because I'm going through it, I know what it's like to go back to work and not be able to let go of your child, to stay home and not be recognized. I hope that society can show more understanding and respect to people like us. At the same time, we should not give up our professional skills, continue to recharge their own batteries, so that in can attack, retreat can defend, before saying a successful full-time mother.
If I were to look at it from the perspective of a high school teacher, a parent can accompany a student, but there is no need to accompany a student full-time.
In our school, for example, students arrive at school before 6:00 a.m., accompanying the mother's job is to get up early to cook for the child, because basically rented around the school, do not have to send the child to school, of course, all the way to send with the child to talk to you can also. School ends at 11:45 p.m., so you can get back to school before 13:00 p.m. to do your math homework and take a lunch break, or of course, you can choose to stay home and get to your class at 14:00 p.m. to prepare for class. The job of the accompanying mom is to prepare the meal when the child arrives home. Classes end at 18:00 p.m., and at 18:30 p.m. they prepare for evening study until 21:50 p.m. Students basically choose to eat in the cafeteria, and the chaperone mom basically prepares the evening meal and picks up her child from home.
The most important thing for these accompanying mothers is to do the children's brunch and evening snacks, there is no need to do it full-time, can have their own jobs, to ease the financial burden is secondary, the most important thing is to have their own jobs, so that they are not out of touch with the community, and do not have to put all the attention on the child, giving the child more pressure.
The mother who works hard and takes her life seriously will bring a very positive role model to her child and make him strive to be better.
In fact, for a full-time mom, the key to the problem is not to give up her job or to be with her kids all the time, but to have a life of her own, with or without her own pursuits and goals.
A few days ago, students gathered at a dinner party, once the school girl Xiaomin sighed: "Since I have a baby, I feel like I am getting more and more like a 60-year-old square dance mom." I rolled my eyes: "You have exquisite makeup, beautiful body, live out of the early 20's girl, which has a little bit of the shadow of the aunt?" Xiao Min smiled and told me the story of her past few years.
2 years after graduation, she entered the marriage hall, soon, the child also came, she had to resign from the company's executive position, full-time with children.
From then on, the daily life is around the baby, thirsty, hungry, pissed, pulled ...... her whole person fell in the child's feces and urine. She no longer pay attention to makeup, no longer care about appearance, wearing loose clothes every day, cloaked in hair to take care of the child, manipulate never finished housework.