People get along with people for a long time, there will be a sense of burnout. Even if the love is strong, it will gradually be diluted by the years. However, the worst thing is that both sides of the feeling is not synchronized. A party to your words, or your temperament are well known when, certainly some curiosity will fade, such as if the beginning of the conception was also once as desired, now think of what regret? Therefore, those newborn thoughts will be transferred to others, and can not wait for the other side of the conversion of ideas. The result of this discrepancy will be due to one party's burnout and contributed to the other party's dissatisfaction, and one of the few pats on the back, open-minded people are few and far between.
Perhaps, detachment tells not only the emotions between people, but also people and things, things and things ...... are more or less entangled. There seems to be no reason why doing something consistently should not give a satisfactory return. However, things go against our wishes, we imagine things, the reality will always give you a head-on stick, from the bottom of the heart of the self is not acceptable, where the heart of the pent-up frustration will be more and more, coupled with the cynicism of the side of the original is already a traumatized heart and then sprinkled with a handful of salt. The more you think about a second, it seems to shrink a day's life; less think about a second, gradually also alienated from the matter.
Alienation of a person or a matter from a certain point of view may not be a bad thing, when the grudge is too deep, the fade must be faded, no one can be an emotional thing like "mixing onions with tofu", turbid has the benefit of turbidity, the grievances of time will gradually fade, no one who is right and who is not. The argument that everything is an immature performance, perhaps, the sweetness of the heart still exists.
Perhaps this is a noble emotional detachment. "Add some salt to your shadow / pickled / air-dried, old / under the wine" Xia Ning "Sweet Revenge" very much like this little poem, exquisite and penetrating, even if some of the words without warmth stick together, instantly this world is also full of affection.
The poet's words are more or less some unreal ingredients in it, but because of the existence of these unreal factors and dilute the reality of the cruelty, and thus easy to be accepted, think of the meaning of life sometimes, the only thing that exists is the only trace of romance in the bones. When extracted from the fantasy, it will feel the poet to see things easy to go to extremes. The first thing I want to do is to make sure that I have a good idea of what I want to do, and I want to make sure that I can do it.
It is possible that the word "detachment" is always in my mind because life is too much of a constant, and also because that night I watched Xia Ning's . This little poem: "Salt your shadow / pickle it / dry it, and drink it when it's old".
It has always been felt that the most charismatic can be said to be nature, those ghostly and unrepeatable natural landscapes, let a person marvel. In recent years, July is to go out a trip. Perhaps in a place to stay a long time would like to find a place with mountains, water release, even if the sun is hot, some time sweating, at the top of the blinding sun, by an unwillingness to lonely heart, also seems to have no complaints.
The beauty of the landscape "big place to look at, small place to write" is nothing more than a state of mind, perhaps most of them are still because of who walk with. This fun is certainly more than a few vitality, more than a few imagination. Here, I do not want to ink on the landscape to speak, and let me long can not forget is the charm of those guides words.
Nowadays, the role of the tour guide is not only to explain some of the landscape with tourists so simple, there is also a responsibility is to sell local specialties to tourists. Every tourist understands that buying souvenirs in tourist attractions is not a very cheap thing, if so, in the east to buy beef jerky than in the west to buy expensive. This kind of thing abounds, however, those guides painstakingly words will seem so charming, you will be impressed by some sincere words, even if the heart knows that in the bait, but still obeyed some.
I remember when I went to Yunnan last year, my friend said: so-and-so tour guide is really bad, if you don't buy the items she introduced, she will say that you don't live in style. Some tour guides use emotional words to indirectly make you feel sympathy for the people here. I remember the year before last to go to jiuzhaigou a male tour guide, on the way to speak a lot of wenchuan earthquake, so so and mixed with their own professional specificity, so that the tourists once again revisit the scene that a scene of the wife and child separation of the scene. Perhaps, the human heart have compassion, the results needless to say, this trip on the tour guide is a success.
I think, people are afraid of not brutal, but emotional. The two cases I mentioned have their own characteristics. The former belongs to the type of exposure, the latter belongs to the type of sensationalism, no matter which one they do not belong to the sincere type. The next one I'm going to talk about, perhaps, is the sincerity revealed in simplicity.
On the way to Fairy Creek, there is a forty-year-old female tour guide, wearing a local unique tour guide clothing, with a small megaphone on her waist, speaking a mouthful of Mandarin with a country accent, and her face skin color has a kind of simplicity of the mountain people, which gives people a very kind feeling.
She introduced the goddess of the stream, but also inevitably to promote the mountain leaves tea. The first thing she said was the beauty of Shennu Creek, and then she said that due to the inconvenience of transportation, the monthly income of the people here is low, as well as the living conditions of their own families, and then she said that tourists who buy these leaf teas are in themselves helping to alleviate the poverty of the people. After that, she sold some pendants carved from stalactites for the teacher who drove the boat. The old man did not say a word, has been the guide for this. Go to more places, like this kind of dependence on each other to help the situation I was the first time to see, no matter whether anyone buy the items she marketed, but I felt a mountain people's a kind of sincerity, only because of the charm of this sincerity touched me.
After coming back to Liang Xiaosheng's "depressed Chinese" finished within a few days. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get to the point where my blood is boiling, but at least I'm not still numb. I recommend this book to a friend, my friend said: the book is only the perception of the text, if you look at society, you will feel the reality is more depressed. Yes! As long as you open the computer is covered with some celebrities edge news breaking news, these are worth attracting our national eyeballs? Or is it more tempting to turn over someone else's skirts and pants than to look at your own?
Like to see which star got married, which star divorced, which star acted as a mistress. Some paparazzi are the most fashionable profession of the moment and the most "promising" profession, otherwise it would not be full of large articles are telling it? Some of these characters are seen as "rats in the street".
Some people like to fake, not a day or two of things, and ironic jokes are said abroad. Nowadays, I don't know whether it is a good thing to be famous or a bad thing, but in any case, when people are free, they always want to make something special.
Certain people have always liked to follow the trend, such as buying reduced cabbage, rice, as well as speculation in the stock market, etc. The extent of this trend can not say that the Chinese people depressed, can only say that some people like to lively, lively people like to get together, from the individual into a group, the natural power is big up. Take the big mom dancing in the square, originally a fitness exercise, but some people take to say things, family matters, national affairs originally one, to get abroad to say is some people will feel: family scandal can not be publicized. Xu is, those old people only care about their own hobbies, a moment affecting others will be ignored, even so I think there is no need to make a big fuss to render some, perhaps, nothing to say is the inherent instincts of some people.
I think: when speaking, to wipe the mouth of the saliva, said must be accurate, but also must be in the eyes of some. There are times when it is better to say more than to do more. So the key is to act in the moment!