The thing happened in Luoyang, a group of grandparents in order to dance square dance, occupy the entire basketball court, come to play basketball youth and its theory of verbal altercation, then the grandparents swarmed, beat up the ball playing youth, beat up the ball playing youth, beat up the ball playing youth ....
The video, by the square dance moncler and amah composed of square dance troupes, against the youth in their twenties, came up to a set of "combination of skills release", the destruction of the picture is simply too gruesome.
This incident, once again, caused people to "bad or old" discussion, in short, the tendency of public opinion is very obvious: these old people are wrong in the first place.
So, in addition to the basic judgment of right and wrong, mixed with the square dance nuisance of the people's anger, the majority of the "melon masses" came to the same front, have to basketball guys to claim. All kinds of old people about the old man misdemeanor, square dance old man's paragraph was re-raked out, square dance old man once again become the object of ridicule.
There is a synthesized picture circulating widely: ten years ago, the old people and the children to compete for public transportation, ten years later, when the children grew up, the old people came to compete with them for the basketball court. A picture that shows the changes and constancy of the two generations at a glance, and expresses the meaning more clearly than ever.
This kind of thing has been reported a lot, and it's easy for people to think that the old people nowadays are "disrespecting the old" and "relying on the old to sell out the old", but this is just a symptom.
Have we thought more y about this: what is the real reason for this phenomenon?
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The phenomenon of "old people bullying" is often seen on the Internet
Not only the square dance.
The online report is also a certain bus, the old man saw the girl did not let the seat on the cursing, the girl theory a few sentences, the old man will be on their fists and kicks, crazy pulling the girl's hair.
Also, the old man slipped and fell on the road, and the young man passed by, enthusiastically inquiring about the situation. As a result, when the young people to help the old man up, but the old man back hand grabbed, while yelling at passers-by to watch, while claiming that the students will be knocked down.
Public opinion is always eager to report on this kind of "old man bullying", and even the Spring Festival cultural programs and online movies and TV dramas also play out this kind of scenario to satirize the old man's misbehavior.
I don't object to news about this kind of unfairness, and I'm also angry at the irrational behavior of some low-quality elderly people, but I object to this kind of reporting without in-depth research and analysis to solve the problem of this kind of phenomenon.
Because if only the light report, and can not be a good solution to such problems, in the future, like this square dance brawl, the bus does not allow the seat hit, the phenomenon of the road bumper porcelain will still happen one after another.
Our elderly friends are rarely play circle of friends, brush the microblogging, you are on the Internet to present a moment of tongue, although cool young netizens, but can guide the old people, especially those unreasonable old people.
And, a "grave" type of report, but also create a phenomenon: deepen the young and the elderly, the gap between the two generations and confrontation.
Older people originally and young people's way of thinking is very different, these 60, 70 years born in the generation, did not read a lot of books, all his life by the Dang and the organization in the brainwashing, belong to the kind of recognition of the dead; our 90, 00 young generation, most of the well-educated, have their own values of right and wrong, with "self", "individuality", "self-esteem", and "self-confidence". "
These are the two main reasons why we have to be so careful about what we do and how we do it.
These two types of people exist in two mental worlds. Now, with more of these "emotional" reports, the antagonism, or even "hatred", between the two generations has become even more profound.
One result is that the mention of square dancing, there is a kind of "if you're good, that's not enough" idea; in the bus young people are more reluctant to give up their seats to the elderly, "good old man" in the way of face, even if they are physically tired also Sorry to sit, but the "bad old man" will still be unreasonable to seat; on the road, the elderly fell, no one is willing to help, even if the old man was injured also no longer go to care ....
Really to this point, that our society advocated the "respect for the elderly and love children" public morality, who will go to guard it? The traditional virtues of the Chinese family are still how to inherit it?
This is all your "emotional" report caused by the time and energy to dig the grave to report on the elderly all kinds of bad behavior, why do not think about how to solve these problems.
I believe that at any time, "solution" is more meaningful than "whining".
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Where is the problem
Back to the Luoyang Square Dance moncler outlet store, in addition to the moncler outlet store, there is no other party responsible for this matter, not necessarily.
The essence of this incident is the "turf" competition, the reason behind is the unreasonable planning of urban land resources.
Chinese society is undergoing the greatest urbanization in its history, and the price and scale of land use in cities has become expensive and scarce due to the influx of people. A lot of land is being used to build housing, but the supporting facilities are not being effectively followed up.
This has led to a shortage of public **** space, which is why the needs of different groups clash, and is the root cause of square dancing grandparents competing for basketball courts.
If the administrators had planned a piece of land for the older moncler outlet store moncler outlet online people to build an activity center for the elderly, so that these moncler outlet online people could square dance there, would they still be fighting with the young guys for the basketball court?
This phenomenon is not only found in Luoyang, but also in other places. In essence, we don't pay much attention to the elderly.
Few people pay attention to the lives of the elderly, and if there were no reports of square dancing, public transportation, and road traffic, would you still be paying attention to the elderly?
As often broadcast on TV and commercials, children usually do not go to visit their elderly parents, until the old man has an accident, sick, and then rushed back to see him. Even their own flesh and blood are not enough to pay attention to, who else to pay attention to.
That's why there are managers who don't pay enough attention to the elderly, and don't give them a piece of exclusive space. The elderly can only warm themselves, comfort each other, and pass the long and boring time after retirement.
Why not pay attention? For society, the elderly, this particular group, is no longer the creator of social value, but the enjoyment of the fruits of labor, so naturally they will not care too much about them, more in the emotional care.
The contrast between the elderly and the "flowers of society" is stark, as the entire society will always be concerned about the children, and almost all the good resources are focused on them, to train them, because they are the future. The community can do without activity centers for the elderly, but not without kindergartens, care centers, nurseries, etc.
In the end, it's all about the children.
In the end, our society does not pay enough attention to the lives of the elderly. Our society as a whole and the administrators are to blame.
The problem of the elderly is a very heavy social problem. While we are exposing this problem, we should think positively about how to solve it, which is a very meaningful thing for the whole society.
Let the care fall into practice, society can make progress!