Walked through most of the years, seen too much sadness parting, childhood elders are always teaching us no matter what we do, do people have to have the most basic bottom line, that is, for the goodness of people.
Not to provoke others for no reason, and do not do evil, and people and get along with people, more able to peace and prosperity, get other people's help.
Most of us abide by this belief until our old age, and will continue to do so until the moment we leave this world. However, in old age, for many things in this life, should slowly learn to see through.
Kindness in some specific circumstances, but also lost the essence of kindness, and gradually hindered other people. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money from the government.
People to old age, a family also slowly develop and grow up, before we are still a child, but with the slow passage of time, green silk into white hair, wrinkles also climbed on the cheeks.
Previously, we may not know the world, but in the world of crawling and fighting for a long time, but also gradually skilled use of a set of rules to adapt to the world. But just as the sun is bright, there will be a time when it sinks.
We are already old, many things no longer need us to participate in, the descendants of the matter, have their own ideas and intentions, we should not be like a stubborn controllers, holding the power refused to let go.
Even if you have a good heart, you can't let go of your heart, and you are afraid that your descendants will make mistakes and go astray. But a lot of things will have to be experienced by oneself, and a lot of mistakes, although the consequences are very serious, but learn from our mistakes, we should not be too authoritarian.
Because at this point in time, our original starting point is in a piece of good intentions, is the hope that future generations of children and grandchildren can be safe and smooth. But at this point in time, kindness without the permission of others is already considered meddling. You can only touch yourself if you are good for them, but they not only don't appreciate it, but resent you instead.
Again, although you are a family, but fundamentally, each person is a separate individual, should not feel free to interfere in their right and wrong grudges. This is their cultivation, you are an outsider, even if you want to help them with a kind heart, then don't meddle.
And if you shouldn't interfere too much in your own family's affairs, then there is even less reason for you to meddle in the right and wrong of outsiders.
Nowadays, a large part of the trouble that young people go home for New Year's Eve is from the meddling of some of their great aunts and uncles. Obviously not very familiar, but they tend to ask for privacy, to introduce a young man without a boyfriend, talking that is a warm and attentive, so that people feel very uncomfortable.
The key is that the young people can't do anything about them, because after all, they still know each other, and their parents are also united front with them, so that their children don't dare to go home casually.
This is typical of self-interested and meddling. You may just want the young man to have a good home, but others must look at you with as much displeasure as you want.
You think you're being kind to meddle in matters that don't matter much to you at all. But in the eyes of the people you're being treated, you just have nothing better to do than to go to them? To cause trouble?
There's nothing wrong with being kind, it's like something that's perfect, if it's used in the wrong place, it's useless and becomes garbage.
People's kindness if used in the wrong place, it is very easy to let people misunderstanding, think you are intent on picking things, more trouble, your good will also become nosy.
Now, we have entered the old age, into the twilight of life, it is time to stop and rest.
Other people's business, karma, own karma. The ending is good or bad, we should not interfere with interference, we should do is to organize the past, whether it is joy or regret, should be well sorted out, to experience the sweet and sour of this life.
Again, after working most of your life, in your old age, it is more important to treat yourself well, take a walk every day with your old sisters, or even make a date to dance together, and live more of an entertaining life in your old age.
Don't worry about other people's business all day long, you do your best, but this thing should not be in your hands at the very beginning, your heart is good, but the direction has been more and more far away, it's easy to smash the whole thing, but also easy to attract the person's boredom.
People to old age, do not go to busy work, even if they hope that other people live happy happy, so that other people less to leave some regrets.
But know that this is always someone else's life, we again kind, again care about others, do not go to meddle. Living the rest of your life is both your top priority and your respect for this life.