The world of emotions is relatively complicated. The relationship that was reciprocated one second may break up the next moment.
However, feelings are an indispensable existence in our lives, especially the feelings between men and women. It is difficult to explain clearly, and there are too many joys and sorrows.
Story
My friend Xiaolei (pseudonym) has been in love with her boyfriend for three years. They have a deep relationship. Among all their relatives and friends, they are also sure that they will enter the siege of marriage. .
As everyone knows, fate sometimes likes to joke with people.
Even they themselves thought that marriage was a matter of course, but the man unexpectedly fell in love with another girl and wanted to break up with Xiaolei no matter what. She really didn’t want to lose her for three years easily. feelings, but the man said that he just didn’t love her anymore and there was no chance at all.
In desperation, she left the city where she worked and her boyfriend with pain. In the six months before returning to her hometown, she was in a state of confusion every day, unable to get motivated to do anything, and her life was miserable.
Occasionally she would send a message to a man, and he would sometimes reply and sometimes ignore her. The more this happened, the more she couldn't let go. Her parents told her to stop contacting her ex-boyfriend and let her try to let it go. Then, someone introduced her to a job.
She listened to her parents, endured no contact with her ex-boyfriend, devoted herself to work, and lived a fulfilling life every day.
Under the introduction of her colleagues, she started a new relationship. Her boyfriend was very considerate to her, not in love, but not annoying.
The two have been together for nearly a year. She has forgotten some things with her ex-boyfriend, slowly adapted to her current relationship, and has plans to get married.
A sister next to her also experienced her story. Seeing her crying every day, she used her own experience to enlighten her sister, saying: "Experiencing a failed relationship is so painful that I use three methods to help her. Plant a way to live and regain happiness: no contact, get busy and fall in love.
If you want to forget someone, just don’t contact them. If you want to forget a pain, you have to get busy. If you want to forget a relationship, you have to fall in love.
1. No contact
After a woman experiences a failed relationship, if she wants to let go of the man completely, it is best to stop contacting and entangled with him. Since the fate between you and him no longer exists, instead of struggling hard and hurting yourself, it would be better to cut it off completely, which is as easy as it comes.
The reason why the other person can fall in love with someone else and break up with you is that he is not worthy of you continuing to feel sorry for him, let alone have any unrealistic illusions about him. At this time, you should be decisive Block the other party so that you don't waste yourself.
Stop entangled with your last relationship and stop contacting your ex. Whether he is doing well or not has nothing to do with you, let alone who he is with. Over time, time can help you forget everything and let go. Love for a scumbag.
After a relationship fails, it is difficult to let go of that person. A very important reason is that after the breakup, the two people are still disconnected.
Although you broke up, you still have the other person’s contact information, and you will unconsciously want to know about his current situation every day, and even ask your friends to find out about his latest situation.
If you break up with a person, but still silently care about or pay attention to the other person's activities, are reluctant to completely cut off contact with him, and occasionally take the initiative to contact him, then the woman will ultimately hurt herself. Only when there is no contact and the pain left in one's heart can it be healed.
2. Get busy
Being in love makes people busy, while falling out of love makes people leisurely.
After a breakup, a woman who is immersed in sadness will find that she has plenty of time. She has so much time every day to miss the person who hurt her.
When you have a lot of free time, you might as well go out and find a job. Not only can you earn income, but you can also make new friends.
When a person is sad, only by keeping himself busy will he gradually forget his inner thoughts.
I am already busy enough with life and work, so I naturally have no time to think about other things.
There is no spare time to recall the past. When you do not have the time and energy to miss the people and things in the past, the next step is to completely forget them.
After a woman breaks up, she can't let go of the people and things in her previous relationship. Then, keep yourself busy and don't dwell on past love and hatred. Live in the present and you won't feel pain.
However, women can also make their own business independent while they have time, so that they will not be dependent on any man, let alone dwell on a failed relationship.
Only when you live confidently and confidently can you become better and better, let go of those who are not worthy, and thus find your true happiness.
3. Falling in love
The best way to heal a relationship is to start a new relationship. This is very effective for both women and men.
Especially after a woman is abandoned by a man, she is most vulnerable to injury. At this time, you must not stay where you are. There is no need to wait for the man who hurt you to change his mind. You should continue to move on with your life.
If you meet a new love or a suitable man during this process, don’t resist. This is the best time to heal your emotional wounds.
Since you broke up, it means that the previous relationship and the person are not suitable for you. You must have a clear understanding of each relationship. Once you realize this, you will want to start a new life when you meet new feelings.
A woman can be responsible for herself only if she can learn a lesson from a failed relationship and then start a new relationship and life again.
Only when people keep moving forward will they meet people traveling the same way. Once you meet someone who really makes your heart beat, remember not to hesitate or hesitate. You might as well be proactive, brave, enthusiastic, and accept new feelings.
If you want to let go of someone completely, the best way is to stop contacting the other person, don't keep the other person's contact information, and don't have any illusions about that person. A man who can easily fall in love with someone else is not worth relying on.
Even if your ex suddenly wakes up one day and wants to get back together with you, a woman must remember not to agree, especially to a man who has betrayed you, and she cannot forgive you.
Once a relationship is injured and broken, it is difficult to return to the original perfect appearance. Even if the broken mirror can be reunited, it will leave all kinds of ugly cracks.
After the relationship ends, the two people will no longer interact. Be decisive and don't waste too much time on a hopeless relationship.
Instead of wasting time on unworthy things, it is better to spend more time on managing yourself. Only by constantly improving their abilities will women become better and better, and even attract the attention of the opposite sex, and finally find their true happiness.
Women must first learn to love themselves well before they can receive more love.
When a woman has a new love and gets the happiness she really wants, she will naturally let go of the unworthy man. Sometimes women can't let go of someone, often because they haven't found their true happiness and haven't met the right person yet.