When I grow up, the working environment will affect me. I will listen to the boss's leadership and accept all the demands of my colleagues. At the same time, others will tell me what's wrong with you. At this time, you will cry silently and feel particularly wronged. Why do I try not to offend anyone and try to meet everyone's requirements, or are some people dissatisfied?
Yes, there will always be people who are dissatisfied, so why not be yourself and look at the real people around you? They have not lost anything for it! Adjust yourself and try to say "no" to unreasonable reasons! Rejection is an art, no one is born with the obligation to help anyone, and when the people you help take it for granted and don't know how to be grateful, please don't be too compassionate.
Recently, the TV series Ode to Joy, which is very popular, has a small song, a proud young lady temper, and has always been very direct, and the audience has different opinions. Some people will say that in real life, if you talk and do things like this, you will really have no friends, so you might as well cater to everyone. But some people think that this is her true nature, being herself without reservation. But I really appreciate this kind of person who goes his own way and doesn't please. Qu Xiaoyu is really happy to be herself. People who don't like it must have different circles, so why pretend?
The true self may be flawed and imperfect, but the true self is relaxed and liberated, and will no longer live in the eyes of others. What the surrounding world thinks of you is not so important.
You will cherish yourself more, and you will not go to a nutritious party because of a social interaction that you are ashamed to refuse, nor will you be morally kidnapped by some people with different ways and common goals because of your face. You will pay attention to your body and mind, and when you have objections in your heart, calmly judge whether this thing is what you want to do, and what will happen after you do it? If you are hesitant, please put it down, focus on what you like, and make yourself the one who exudes charm.
Being yourself has nothing to do with selfishness, but the two are always confused by some people. The former is relaxed, showing personality characteristics without losing oneself, while the latter makes others uncomfortable and pays a corresponding price for it.
Nothing is more lovely than the truth. Since you can't make RMB and make everyone like it, embrace your imperfect true self happily!