She said, "I have no income. I have to reach out for money. Children need to report when they pay money. If you spend money on your mother's family, you are no different from a beggar who asks for money. " In the end, Jiang Jing suffered a marriage crisis, divorced, did not leave home, and raised the children alone. It looks really uncomfortable. Not working for a long time and living in poverty, this is the real dilemma she faces. Although Jiang Jing's situation is tragic, it also reflects the real situation of many housewives: putting yourself in the trivial matters of life is actually a kind of venture capital.
In marriage, women should never expect to lower their posture to get love. How low you put today, how hard you will fall tomorrow. Vertical center, Shen Huixing continues to stay awake. Although she worked full-time for six years, she never forgot to realize her life value. She'd better send her children to school in advance, stipulate the division of responsibilities between her husband and herself, and take care of the children's diet and daily life. Although the newcomer in the workplace was frustrated repeatedly when looking for a job, she never gave up, studied hard and soon got smooth sailing in the workplace.
Shen Meteor, who has returned to the workplace, has regained her high morale and self-confidence and is full of vitality. I have never slacked off at work, and I have proved how important it is to develop in marriage with my strength. She said: "Why do you say that there must be two people, children and families? Women don't necessarily need to be diligent in housekeeping, but they can also realize the value of life?" In marriage, you must aspire to be an independent tree and devote yourself to growth and development. With the help of entangled lovers, they will absorb nutrition and eventually wither. In marriage, a person is the greatest confidence.
Second: Don't stop loving yourself and develop into a loving woman. Yi Shu once said, "Self-respect, self-love, stability, and then love." In marriage, women should love themselves first, and their feelings can be simpler. A woman who loves herself can clearly know her heart, and will not be easily manipulated by negative emotions, let alone indulge in negative sadness.
The TV series Xiao Min Jia is a woman who doesn't know how to love and lacks enough love. She married her first husband, a child soldier, without realizing that she was a nanny before marriage. Only after I got married did I find that I actually married such a sad and beautiful man. She got divorced soon, whether she likes it or not. Later, Xú Zhēng appeared. She fell in love with Liu Xiaojie at first sight while playing basketball. Therefore, Liu Xiaojie entered the marriage again. However, Xu is a man with a strong desire for emotional control, and he is even imprisoned.
After all this, Liu Xiaojie woke up from a dream and made another terrible mistake. Once again, she chose to end her marriage without hesitation. Liu Xiaojie often stumbles in marriage because he doesn't love himself easily in marriage. In fact, a woman's sense of belonging has never been given by a boy, but only by herself. Aunt Wang is recognized as a hardworking and virtuous person in the community. She has been with her husband and children for half her life. Years ago, she found out the malignant tumor and constantly decided whether it was malignant or good. With this disease, Aunt Wang suddenly felt very lonely.
She expected her husband to accompany her on the phone, but she was turned down. Considering that she has devoted herself wholeheartedly for so many years, even this requirement can't be met, which is particularly chilling. Fortunately, after the operation, it was clear that the tumor was benign, and Aunt Wang's hanging heart was also put down. Since then, Aunt Wang has started a new life, dancing square dance and traveling with friends for fun. Aunt Wang's cleverness lies in that she can get out of the trivial matters of life, love herself and live a good life. In marriage, if a woman expects her efforts to be loved, she can only become empty. Never stop loving yourself, you will be a big winner in life. Understand that loving yourself is a lifelong romance.