Do you know what the three main hobbies of middle-aged and elderly people in China are? Buying health care products, square dancing and matchmaking for their sons and daughters. If they don't do the last one, they're not in the mood for the first two.
July 12 at noon, a "do not consider the girl without Beijing account" microblogging hot search to "thunderbolt" on the microblogging hot search list in the third place, a short period of time to read more than 350,000 people.
The article, "Chinese blind date price list: my son is only 33, do not consider the girl without a Beijing hukou," describes in detail the situation in some of Beijing's parks, where grandpas and grandmothers matchmaking for their sons and daughters.
Nowadays, in major parks in Beijing, the most bustling corner is the "matchmaking corner", where countless parents holding their children's information, with their eyes gleaming, their hands quick and their tongues wagging, without even a photo, are negotiating the conditions in the open - "No Beijing hukou, no Beijing hukou, no Beijing hukou? "No Beijing Hukou? No way!" "No house? Bye-bye!" "If you're a local, a mild disability is fine, but you can't be a sheep!" And so the Chinese blind date contempt chain was created.
The blind date scores and ranks all the external indicators, as if taking everyone back to their middle school days in front of a grade ranking, where the first and the hundredth place seemed far apart until they shook hands at a reunion years later.
The obvious fact is that even if the "door is right" and the eight characters and Chinese zodiac signs are perfect, and the two parties enter into marriage, if there is no foundation of love, it is hard to guarantee that the future life will not have twists and turns. Reportedly, individual matchmakers playing "take advantage of the cheap after the divorce" calculations, I am afraid that is not purely a stigma.
Dating may be a way to get love, but those who have it will never go on a blind date. Fortunately, the vast majority of people active in the dating corner are parents in their twilight years, who have been through the world and are not afraid of external comments.
For any young person of the right age, splitting your complete self into multiple indicators and breaking down the scores into categories is never a hormone-boosting experience. Even if you are a returnee doctor or a beautiful woman, it is not a pity that you have not scored a point on the life test of love.
From the reality of marriage, this Chinese-style dating price list is actually very much in line with the Chinese view of marriage that has been perpetuated for thousands of years - that of the family as well as the household. Even today, many people with traditional thinking still adhere to the concept of marriage
"Life is precious, the price of love is higher", although the material conditions are necessary for everyone's life, but in vain material is difficult to ensure the happiness of life, after all, there are many aspects of life, and I hope that the parents can be rational! The first thing you need to do is to look at your child's marriage.