Ms. Mary Kay once said: the happiest thing is to use my story to inspire everyone.
Life is a voyage: many people, especially girls, say I can not read the map, give you a map of the world, you like you can read. Every year, I look at the map, plan my life voyage, go abroad 3 to 4 times a year, and also set the route for the family overseas tours, and after 50 years old, I am about to open my second round of global travel. As big as your dream is, as big as your heart is, as well planned as you are, the world is at your feet.
Is your life sailing or drifting? Drift bottle, do not know where to float to, also do not know where to flow. And cruise travel is set in advance of the route, tickets can be bought a year in advance.
Life must be planned out. Do you plan your life? Children's lives are planned by their parents at the beginning, children want to do something or not is his own thing, but to be sure not to send him to do something is a matter of parents. Many people say that we should respect our children's opinions, but do children understand? Obviously not. Life is a beautiful experience, and you will only like it if you experience it. Life has to be experienced and experienced, otherwise you will never know what you like. In the words of Chief Lu Ning, we have to be earthlings to be international, just like Zhang Ziyi claiming to be an international chapter. How about you? Do you want to be Guangzhou Chapter or China Chapter or International Chapter? People always have fear of the unknown world, you experience before you understand that life is an experience, life is not only the flavor of your hometown, taste is not only have spicy flavor, you have to experience.
Why should life be planned? If you do not have a plan for your future, you will become a pawn in someone else's plan to realize his life's ideals for someone else, and remember that those who do not have a plan will eventually be used by those who do. -Jack Welch
If you have no mastery, you will eventually be mastered by others. Instead of letting others control your destiny, you should be your own master, you have to be responsible for your own life, without mastery, others will do it for you.20/80 law, this is the unchanging principle. Rich: 20% of the people do a good job of life planning. Success or not is not the result you see today, but years ago the planning has been decided. The country is now opening up the second child because there is not enough labor in the society anymore, if you don't plan the future for your child, he may not even be able to find a job in the future. The planning of the child has been completed from before birth, the child is four years old interpersonal relationships began to plan. You may say a newspaper and a cup of tea is fine, yes it is, but is it really what you want? If you do not experience, how do you know that this is what you want?
Life must have a dream, in Mary Kay will certainly be realized, as long as the planning, just a matter of time. Life should have small goals, five years first earn a billion it, a billion yen also have 2 million yuan ah. You do not plan you can not realize your dreams, you will only be able to realize your mother's dream, your father's dream, your seven aunts and aunts, their dreams are realized, and you have worked hard for a lifetime to build the house of life is not what you want to live.
In China, 20 years old not married to allow you to envision, 30 years old not married every day to be forced to marry, to 40 years old everything is for the children. The Chinese don't care much about their own dreams, they care about other people's dreams every day. Some people say I'm being forced to die by my mom, don't blame your mom, because the smaller your mom's world is, the more she has been forced to die in her world, so she can only force you. Someone said I was introduced to a date every day for not getting married at 24, a physiologist every day for not getting married at 28, and a psychiatrist and neurologist every day for not getting married at 30. This is the social reality.
People are always the product of the environment, you are in a very foreign city, you are in the better the city, your temperament will be more close to the city, the child in the formative years to go to the more developed city, the better, especially girls. The world's best talent is flocking to the most developed cities, and the more developed the city the more tolerant of girls.
In addition to experience, there is another way to learn about the world, and that is to read. The first thing you need to do is to read a lot of books, and then walk a thousand miles. If you don't read books and only travel thousands of miles, that's the letter carrier, only spinning in place. 40 years old sacrificed for the sake of the children, in order to be better than one generation, 50 years old Chinese women dancing square dance, that is the return of the emotions of the middle-aged and elderly women. And Mary Kay's 50 years old will never go to the square dance competition, but to the Hundred Beauty Contest as a judge. Nowadays, the post-80s and post-90s all treat their parents as unpaid babysitters, which is the status quo of the average 50-year-old.
Three major problems of women around the world:
1 have not seen, have not seen how it is possible to have a dream, want to have a dream to read more books, the book has its own Yan Ruyu, the book has its own golden house. If you want to have a dream, you have to travel more, the bigger the dream, the bigger the heart, the smaller the world, stay at home, home is your world, go out and walk. The world is your home.
Think: How do I become an insightful person in 2018?
2 No money. Poor:I have no money. Rich people:How can I have money. Many people say it is hard to succeed, but in fact it is even harder to fail, and even harder to have an ordinary day, each in its own way.
3 There is no correct self-knowledge. You really don't know, the original you can be so great so good, everyone underestimates yourself. In terms of IQ, the average person's brain development is about 2-3%, and geniuses are less than 10%. There is a spiritual story, said Tom to heaven, saw a lot of written his name gift box, he asked the angel can open, the angel said of course you can but advise you not to open. tom could not resist his curiosity, insisted on opening, after opening the tears, the original God gave him so many gifts is his gift talent, his gift, but he did not use to a lifetime of inactivity.
Reflections:
2018 I'm going to give myself some added insight?
2018 What are the plans in financial management?
How can I improve my self-awareness to have bigger dreams in 2018?
The three stages of career:
Many people say Mary Kay is not doing well now. But you have to realize that the so-called good to do are going downhill, giggling and going down, it is not easy to go up, but downhill can be a day.
A stage:Personal growth ability to improve. Many people say that they want to marry a rich man, in fact, marry a rich man is also to have the ability. Married to the rich only two kinds of people, a stunning color such as 50 years out of a Lin Qingxia. Two industry top such as Olympic champion Guo Jingjing.
Second stage: earn a lot of money. The money will only go with those who have the ability to have a dream.
20 years old: you look for money to find opportunities, rather than do nothing.
30 years old: money looking for you, there are many opportunities so you have to run around.
40 years old: money looking for money, every year Mary Kay earn 2 million, fixed assets value-added 2 million, from the rich to the rich. 40 years old must learn to financial investment, so that money makes money.
No growth, where is success? Not successful, where is the achievement?
Three stages:personal value and social value.
A chief equivalent of the enterprise has more than 10,000 employees, more than 300 branches across the country, annual turnover of 150 million, do you think personal value can bring social value? We are excellent proud taxpayers.
Think:
Which stage are you in now?
How are you planning your career?
What are your competencies for 2018?
How much money do you want to make in 2018?
How do you increase your personal value in 2018?
Whether you matter or not is whether you have value.
What should a woman do with her life?
Under 14, you need good parents and good health.
If you're a parent, do you want your kids to have good parents? Why didn't you have a happy childhood? It's not because your parents don't love you, it's because you don't have good parents, your parents don't have the ability, a good mother will make a good family, a good family. Do I want my children to have good health? When you do your New Year's planning how are you going to plan your health? If you have planned then people are completely different from people in their 60s and 80s.
At 14-40, you need to look outstanding.
Remember your looks are not pretty, they are outstanding.
40-60, you need a charming personality.
Girls are very cute, but once married, they are especially nagging, because they treat themselves too poorly, have no dreams, and women who can't realize their dreams are whiners, and like to complain about others. Thankfully, at Mary Kay we use positive language to create ourselves. If you don't have a charming personality, it's because your energy is put on self-hatred.
After 60, you need cash even more.
The best thing that blesses a single woman is cash.
Mary Kay women, every year you have your beauty plan, your health plan. You do a good job of career path planning, is to do a good job of life planning. 2018-change, change thinking is equal to change fate. Many people do not want to live a mediocre life, hope to live a life of time freedom financial freedom, but often struck daydreaming, you are not me, how do you know my dream will not be realized? So work hard to never give up the pursuit of dreams.
We are all dreamers, are not willing to waste their youth, even if we have passed the prime age of foreign enterprises 35 years old, we will not become a foreign enterprise was fired 35 years old. We started our own business in Mary Kay, and entrepreneurs have to work eight days a week, with their backs to the trees. Women not only need to be good, but they need to feel safe to be good. Backed by a big company with training, mentoring, and security, that's what we need. Ask yourself did you work so hard to become what you are now? Are you working so hard to become the life you have now and the marriage you have now?
What women want:
1 To become elegant and confident, are you a woman or just a person?
2 Beautiful and decent career, reflected in the state and manner of decent work.
3Beautiful woman + beautiful work, God made women, must be to let women live like women.
The best thing about people living is that you become the person you want to be and live your ideal life. Don't listen to those around you be true to your dreams, your dreams and benchmarks are all around you. It's quick to run, it takes a long time to make decisions. There is beauty in life, how do you know God didn't promise it if you don't unwrap that beautiful box? The best gift of Mary Kay is that you glorify them that you want to glorify. Your life will change dramatically when you become a Chief, your face is the best passport and Mary Kay is the most beautiful way to live.