For the matter of urging to get married, you should face the elders directly and say ah, work is busy, take the work to block it. If you've got a lot of people who are looking for a good deal more than you can afford, you'll be able to get a good deal more than you can afford," he said.
1. Tell your relatives about your plans
When you are being urged to get married by your relatives, you can tell them about your current plans in a calm manner. The reason is that the people in your family, whose mindset may be more traditional, will try to push you to get married as long as you haven't consummated your marriage at the right age. In the face of this situation, if you have their own life arrangements, you can say their own ideas ah, let them know that you have your intention. After all, the matter of marriage is the most impossible to rush, the more anxious you are, the more likely to make mistakes. As long as you have a firm attitude and know what you want to do next, then carry it out at your own pace ah.
2. Reveal your current state of life, so that elders can rest assured
The elders urged to get married, it is a kind of concern, but this concern, sometimes invariably will let you produce pressure. If the elders mention this topic, you always avoid talking about it, but it will make them more anxious. The first thing you'll want to do is to get into a cycle where you refuse to talk about it, and they always push you to do it. This time, the most appropriate way is that you can talk to the elders about your relationship status. For example: at present you have contact with the new opposite sex, just because the contact time is short, for the time being, not to the degree of marriage. Or maybe you don't have the intention to get into a relationship at the moment, you can also tell your elders in a gentle tone, that everyone's concern I have received, but at the moment, I have other important things to do, so I don't talk about it. However, if I do, I will tell everyone.
3. The more you are urged to get married, the less you can panic
Since your relatives are kind enough to urge you to get married, you can look at the issue calmly, and talk to your relatives frankly when they ask. After all, when you reach the age, it is hard to avoid the situation of being urged to marry by your elders. The most important thing is to see how you are coping with it, directly and elders chat, so that elders know that you can listen to what they say, only, due to objective reasons, a moment has not encountered it, so that open, there is nothing ah. You can also say in a joking tone, ah, I also want to get married as soon as possible ah, however, this is not my unilateral efforts can be a matter of ah, this is not that the right person has not yet appeared.
So, in the face of the urge to get married, first of all, their own mentality to be stable; and then to take a roundabout strategy and the elders to talk about it, seems to be the elders in the urge to get married, but also concerned about your life matters.