Dot is the lifeblood of parents. Many parents only value scores. They don't care if their children are happy at school, but only about their grades. Children are happy when their grades are high, and complain when their grades are low. In daily life, they also have different attitudes towards their children because of their scores.
This girl has been doing very well and her score is so high, which is inseparable from her parents' education. This has both advantages and disadvantages. Although the child is more conscious of learning, she is also more concerned about her grades, because her parents' behavior makes her feel that what her parents want is high marks, not the healthy growth of her daughter.
So when her grades drop sharply, she will become negative and depressed. When she got home, she probably thought of her parents' reprimand, and her pressure was too great. She jumped from the building with a broken heart.
Didn't jump off a building at school. The girl's achievement took place at school. The teacher's pat on the shoulder is not necessarily corporal punishment, but may even comfort and encourage her, and pat on the shoulder is to cheer her up. After all, this is a good student with excellent academic performance. The teacher is partial to the students, how to fight, how to scold, how to reprimand?
Moreover, as we all know, if a person has an emotional breakdown, he will not wait until his emotions calm down before choosing to jump off a building. So she can attend classes normally at school, which proves that the teacher is not the main reason for her impulsive suicide.
What can't go home is the psychological barrier. According to media reports, the girl's father has been working in other places for a long time. Although her mother is very concerned about her, she has high requirements for her study. She is often alone at home and very lonely. Moreover, she once had the idea of suicide, as all her classmates know. And the class teacher also cooperated with her parents to coach her. Therefore, parents should actually pay attention to their children's suicide, but they can't just put their hats on teachers and schools and vent their inner pain by making trouble.
In fact, the psychological construction of students is really poor now. Although the material living conditions have been greatly improved, the psychological construction has not kept up. Many students are prone to collapse in the face of setbacks, and even when they go to college, they will jump off a building and commit suicide because they are found cheating in exams. Not only do we need to discuss who is more responsible, but we also need to think about how to make children's hearts stronger and actively solve problems when facing them, instead of trying to solve them at the moment.