Will he regret breaking up? Will miss me?
Does he think about you just as much?
Yes!
He definitely thinks about you, and the frequency with which he thinks about you correlates with the amount of time and depth you spent together.
If you've been living together for 6 months, or non-locally for more than 1 year, there will be habit withdrawal after the breakup, which means that your presence, preferences, things you've bought, and places you've been together will form his habits, and a sense of discomfort will develop when they suddenly disappear.
But that doesn't mean thinking about you will turn into missing you or even trying to win you back.
Loss aversion theory:
Psychological research has found that people have a tendency to avert loss, and the joy of getting 100 dollars is less than the pain of losing 100 dollars.
If you create very many pleasurable experiences with him during the process of getting along with him, so that he can't help but smile when he thinks of you. Or even you make him improve both externally and internally so that he enjoys himself more.
Then, your disappearance is a great loss, and the other person will have loss aversion and will want to find you back.
How do you know the other person's attitude?
1. Reply speed and content length
If you send a message, the other party replies fast, and the content is 1-2 sentences, it means he still cares about you.
2. Express gratitude to each other and see each other's attitude
Express gratitude to each other in the past relationship, if the other person also replies with the same or even more thank you, it means that losing you is a loss.
3. Don't ask to get back together right away
Breaking up represents more of a pain than a hug for both people, and rushing to get back together creates the fear of a repeat. The first step you need to take is to re-increase your emotional value and talk about topics that interest the other person.