Some people say: people in middle age, finally live to the envy of the hour, but there is no longer the ease and joy of childhood. This may be the most middle-aged people's internal portrayal of it!
It's not easy to be middle-aged, and it's not easy to be a middle-aged woman. Raising children, taking care of household chores, going to work to earn money ...... which can not be shaken, every day like a gyroscope rotating in one thing after another, often feel that the time is not enough to dominate. Hair randomly pull a leather band to tie, randomly rinse a face, clothes will always be that a few pieces, once like the book has a bookworm ...... around the life can be life without their own. Everything is not easy to give us will be on their own and the reason for life: life has been more than half, many things have been set, efforts and struggle more belong to the young people, learning and exquisite is not much significance.
However, the middle age is only a watershed in life, maybe the first half has passed, but the second half has not yet arrived. If the past has been unable to change, but the second half is still in your hands, all the more reason to make it wonderful and exquisite. The second half of a middle-aged woman should be a long-brewed wine, we have to work hard to make it fragrant, sweet entry. To be a hard-working middle-aged woman, it's not worth the second half of your life.
More self-discipline than before
People in middle age, aging and sagging skin, more and more thick belly and bucket waist, and the gradual decline of brain cells, many, many things seem to be in metamorphosis. In the face of this indisputable fact, the only way to fight the signs of age is to swim against the current.
Stronger and more independent than before
As we reach middle age, the pressure of life, work pressure is not at all less, but also began to face some people and things of the variables and slowly lost. We are past the age of being protected, past the age of crying when things go wrong. We have been through the trials and tribulations, weakness and dependence is not the characteristics of middle-aged women, in the face of pressure and variables, we can only be stronger and more independent than before in order to carry the burden given by the years .
Xiaomei suffered a marriage change when she was 40 years old, and one of her sons returned to her. She was confused, skeptical, and helpless at the time of her divorce. After a month's rest, she finally realized that it's useless to rely on anyone but yourself, and that it's better to leave than to fight every day to get a peace of mind. A month later, she found a nursery job in a kindergarten, both with the children and work, the days are quiet and happy.
The strong and independent middle-aged woman is the most beautiful, not to climb, not to rely on, just like a proud snow plum, even the merciless years will be in front of them bowed.
Continue to work as before
Many women began to return to the family completely in middle age, do not work, do not go to work, accustomed to daily square dancing, walk the dog, really boring time to pull on three or five people to play mahjong, pulling the family, to buy food for the nickel a dollar difference in the price of the entire shopping center. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products in the world, and you'll be able to do it all in one place.
This is a low-quality middle-aged life, middle-aged women's life should not only square dance, mahjong and vegetable basket. Instead of being so empty, why not work hard? Work allows middle-aged women to make up for the years, can make women have a bottom line economy. At any time, do not give up their ability to work, even if the pay is not so high.
More tolerant than before
Caryl said this sentence: "The reason why great men are great is that they know how to tolerate and sympathize with ordinary people. "Tolerance is a quality and a virtue. For middle-aged women, tolerance is a party to resolve all the difficulties of life's medicine, is reconciled with their own emotional intelligence.
59-year-old Elizabeth once because of their son George was a group of bad boys killed and has always been hate, so many years after she has been living in hate, every day by this hate torment, feel that their lives are completely meaningless. Later, with the help of psychologist Robin, she not only let go of her hatred, but also adopted a forgiving attitude towards two reformed delinquents. Later, on her deathbed, Elizabeth said to Robin, "I have no more regrets, because I have never been so happy."
To forgive others is to forgive yourself . Life is short, why not make your mind a little easier? The only thing that will add to the misery is to be concerned about the people and things that you can't change.
While we are in our middle age, we must cherish the good times. As Wastrel said, "Don't look at the past with sentimentality, because the past will not come back, the smartest way is to deal with your present - the present is in your hands, you have to meet the future as a dream with the dignity of a great man. "
Finally, to end with a quote from Gao Xiaosong: When people reach middle age, the only enemy left is themselves! The only way for a middle-aged woman to overcome all the difficulties is to defeat herself, to resist the flowing years!