I am a career-minded woman, in the young have had a few relationships, in fact, before the idea of single all my life, and also think that love, marriage, children is the majority of people will walk the road. However, after seeing the married life of several friends around me, it gave me a new definition and idea of this.
In fact, all my female friends around me have had good achievements in their careers, but because of marriage and children, some of them gave up their careers, and some of them didn't give up, but they couldn't balance their careers and families well.
Whether they give up their careers or balance both, they are not doing very well, the smile on their faces is not as much as before, and some of them even have a lot of negative emotions, and have a tendency to depression.
Several of them got divorced later on, and the divorce was accompanied by a bunch of trivialities and problems, and they were also entangled, and there was no sense to speak of. Several of them even told me that if they were to do it all over again, they would just want to be single for the rest of their lives.
When I made this decision, my parents were also very angry at first, and even had to cut ties with me. And I am also a more opinionated person, I decided things, is anyone can not change, and then I am also a more optimistic and cheerful self-confidence, I have a lot of hobbies and interests, but also have a lot of friends, life is also a taste, plus parents also saw their friends around the children of friends who are married did not have to live in the imagination of the good, and over time also accepted my idea.
While I still talk about it occasionally, I say, "Don't worry, I have my own business, and I have some savings, and I'm afraid that I can't solve the problem of having money in this society now. Since then, they rarely mention it.
Now I have been retired for several years, because often exercise, my body is still very strong, there is no trivial trouble, there is no worry, do not have to take children, do not have to wait for the old man, play in the mountains, enjoy the leisure, I feel I live another two or three decades are no problem
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