What to say when you meet for the first time
What to say when you meet for the first time, a lot of friends have this trouble. In reality, most people in the early stages of the relationship will inevitably be a little shy emotions, the first meeting do not know what to say, resulting in an awkward atmosphere. So how to say the first sentence of the first meeting, go with me to see it.
How to say the first sentence of the first meeting 1
A good first sentence is very important:
The first sentence of the first meeting to say what the first impression. If the first sentence is not a good start, not only will destroy their own image in the minds of others, but also affect the continued development of emotions. The principle of saying good first words: cordial, enthusiastic.
Secondly, Elimination of strangeness of the first greeting, there are three common methods:
1, greeting.
To the elders, you can say "Hello to your old man!"; to people of similar age, you can also say "Hello to you". To those of similar age, you can also say "Good morning, old * (last name)!"
2. Holiday greetings.
This will be a monotonous "Hello", into a specific time greetings, seem friendly; during the holidays you can say "holiday good" "New Year's good! "
Happy Mid-Autumn Festival.
3. Admiration.
For the first time to meet people, you can also say "I've heard a lot about you", "I'm glad to see you" and so on.
4, touching the scene.
The first greeting to the common neighbors, you can greet "Good evening! This is a good time to take a walk", "today's weather is really good, the scenery here is very good". This is a common way to start a conversation in our daily lives.
6, greeting pleasantries are not necessarily substantive.
But it is essential to shorten the interpersonal distance in interpersonal communication, to avoid the embarrassment of the first conversation.
Third, the first conversation, the other need to pay attention to the conversation skills
1, to find *** with the topic of interest:
In addition to the pleasantries of the greetings have been said, but also in the two talk to find *** with the topic of interest. For example: square dancing, interest classes, travel, hot ` TV programs and so on.
2, pay attention to read each other's psychology:
Mastered each other's psychology, in order to talk to each other skillfully.
A, the communication process less say these words "I, myself, my", and more say "we, everyone";
B, and the other party in the process of communication, more talk about the other side of the advantages, to guide the other side to talk about, they try to say as little as possible.
3, to find the entry point of the conversation:
In fact, other people like to talk about more or more of their own or their own related things, to find this key point, I believe that anyone like you to talk.
4, the conversation is simple and clear, with the true feelings of others:
Other people like to be sincere, kind, real talk with emotion, rather than empty boring "lecture", the more simple, sincere emotions, the more people appreciate and sought after.
5, the importance of the use of valedictory language:
Even a good conversation, need to end. The end of the farewell if you do not use a good closing statement, or no closing statement, that conversation is not complete, will make people feel abrupt, and leave people with a bad feeling. Both sides of the ending words, such as: "go slowly", "please stay", "please return"; "have time to come back" "Do not send" "Goodbye".
The first time you meet, let a person at first sight talking skills, you learn? Feel good to share to more people, so that everyone can *** with the learning and growth.
The first way: the way to climb to recognize each other
With the first time to meet people to find the relationship that exists with each other, starting from the relationship to talk about, the Battle of Red Cliffs, Lu Su wind Zhu Geliang's first words are: "I, Zi Yu friends also." Zi Yu is Zhuge Liang's brother, but also Lu Su's best friend, a short sentence to draw close the relationship between Lu Su and Zhuge Liang. In fact, many people meet for the first time is an acquaintance to introduce acquaintances, can find this or that relationship.
For example: "You are a graduate of XX University, I am also a graduate of XX University, we are still alumni!" "I heard that you are from Jiangmen, Guangdong, and I come to own Meizhou, Guangdong, and it is really gratifying to meet in Harbin today?"
But to pay attention to the point, climbing relations can not climb too far, or will recognize others resentment, such as the common movie bridge: "You are my great aunt's cousin's son's girlfriend's brother." So do not know what is the relationship, there is a feeling of ass-kissing, generally climbing recognition do not reach the third level, such as: "You are my great aunt's cousin" both can determine the existence of what is the relationship.
The second way: the way of respect and admiration
The way to express respect and admiration for those who meet for the first time, open the box, so that others can find a comfortable feeling, for example: "I have read your work many times, and I have benefited a lot. I've read your work many times, and I've benefited greatly from it! ""Mr. Fang, I heard that you are an expert in landscape painting, please teach me more! "
With this way to pay attention to grasp the balance, just right, do not nonsense touting, not close to the facts, so that others are at a loss, such as: "Mr. Fang, you are the first expert in landscape painting in China, let you look at this landscape painting brushwork how?
When dealing with strangers, there is a certain amount of defensiveness, which is a barrier to first-time interaction. Good-looking people can use their appearance to attract attention, so that people are willing to take the initiative to talk with them, but most of the people with mediocre appearance qualifications, they have to think about how to say good first sentence to arouse the interest of the other side, so that both sides in the finish of the first sentence are still willing to continue to chat.