When we want to live a world of our own, we should take practical actions in addition to fantasy. We should know clearly what we want and how to do it. We should write down what we want to do and plan our lives. If we look at the plan, we will have a long-term plan and complete it in stages according to the goal. Although the goal may be a bit ambitious, we will make small progress every day and will fight for it one day.
I think one of people's biggest failures is that they care too much about others' opinions and are always influenced by others' words, because others praise them and they are very happy, but hearing others talk about themselves behind their backs can make them feel sad for a long time, and they will doubt and deny themselves because others say they are not good. Whether you do it well or not, they will always be talked about. Just be yourself.
When you can't care what others say, you can keep yourself busy and achieve your goals. Others are willing to waste time talking about others. That's their business. Your time is precious. Do what you want. When you become good enough, your level will be different from those people, and you won't care about other people's bad words easily. No matter how well a person does, there will always be people who don't like her. You just need to please yourself. If you care too much about other people's opinions, you will not be too happy. Some people just talk, even if they listen, they don't have to remember for long.