One, the value of men and women's emotional differences in the root
The most primitive and basic difference between men and women lies in the physiological structure of the difference, which arises from the natural division of labor in reproduction. Women naturally play the leading role in the production of human beings, bearing the primary responsibility for childbearing and nurturing. This natural division of labor between men and women has been spreading, expanding, extending and developing into the social division of labor, which has resulted in the formation of differences in value relations between the two sexes, and in turn in the formation of emotional differences between the two sexes. In short, the difference in value relations arising from the natural division of labor is the natural value source of emotional differences between the two sexes, and the difference in value relations arising from the social division of labor is the social value source of emotional differences between the two sexes.
In the early stage of human development, the social productivity was very low, the social division of labor was very weak, and the only objective factor determining and influencing the value relations between the two sexes was the natural division of labor. The two sexes each had different responsibilities in reproductive activities, with men being responsible for predation and women for procreation and child-rearing. Because predatory activities require greater labor intensity and more complex and variable labor content, which determines that men usually have higher emotional intensity and less emotional stability; because reproductive and child-rearing activities require less labor intensity and longer labor time, and need to have sufficient patience and care, which determines that women usually have lower emotional intensity but higher emotional stability. However, at that time, reproductive activity tended to occur only during the breeding season, and for most of the rest of the time men and women performed the same labor, so the emotional differences between men and women were very slight and short-lived.
With the development of social productive forces, the increasing abundance of material products, the increasingly active production of population, and the continuous growth of the quantity and quality of the population, women will spend more and more time and energy on childbearing and child-rearing, so that the division of labor and cooperation between men and women in reproductive activities gradually expanded in time and space, so that the emotional differences between men and women gradually permeate through all aspects of life, throughout the whole process of life; with the labor force of the labor force, men and women are engaged in the same labor for most of the rest of the time. With the continuous improvement of the level of labor technology, the division of labor between men and women has become clearer and clearer, and the production mode and life mode of "male dominates the outside, female dominates the inside" has gradually been formed, so that there are more and more obvious differences between men and women in the value relationship, and thus more and more obvious differences in emotion, and such differences have gradually extended to all aspects of social life. The formation and development of private ownership has gradually turned women into men's private property, and women's value relationship has gradually become dependent on men's value relationship, which has led to the derivation of a series of additional emotions such as dependence, inferiority complex, submissiveness, jealousy, vanity, and subordination to the crowd, etc., and has also led to the derivation of a series of additional emotions such as self-confidence, desire for dominance, desire for possession, and rebelliousness in men, independent mind and so on.
The "man outside, woman inside" is still the basic family model of modern society, which fundamentally determines the basic framework of the value of the relationship between men and women, determines the basic framework of the emotions of men and women. "Male domination" means that men will have to accept the role of stronger, more complex and more variable value relations, meaning that they will not only be able to adapt to society, but also be able to transform society, and that they will not only have to skillfully master and effectively utilize natural relations, but also have to skillfully master and effectively utilize all kinds of social relations; "female domination" means that women will have to accept the role of more complex and more variable value relations. Female domination" means that women only need to accept the role of the milder, more permanent, simpler and more stable value relations, which means that they only need to adapt to the society, and skillfully master and effectively utilize the social relations, especially skillfully master and effectively utilize the interest relations with men. This is the value root of the emotional difference between men and women.
Two, men and women in the emotional intensity of the differences
Men's emotions are more intense and short-lived, women's emotions are more gentle and long-lasting. Men's love is in full swing, men's hate is engraved in the bones, men's emotions are sometimes like a wild horse can not be contained; women's love is long-lasting and stable, women's hate is widespread and far-reaching, women's emotions, although sometimes also very intense, but most of them are on the surface and in the form of her crying and laughing does not mean that a strong emotional response.
In the long process of human development, men have played a major role in social production, engaging in hunting, fishing, farming and other high-intensity, high-strength, high-risk labor, and the resulting value relationships usually have a relatively strong tendency to change. Women play a secondary role in social production, mainly engaged in gathering fruits, sewing and weaving, feeding livestock and other low-intensity, high-patience, low-risk labor, which produces value relations usually have a relatively smooth trend of change.
Three, the difference between men and women in emotional nuance
Men's emotions are more rugged, women's emotions are more delicate. Men usually do not pay attention to the subtle interests, only care about the larger interests, men's broad-minded, more tolerant of other people's shortcomings and mistakes, but not from the subtle aspects of caring for others. Women are very concerned about the subtle changes in the relationship of interests, focusing on smaller interests, women's narrow-minded, it is difficult to tolerate the shortcomings and mistakes of others, but it is easy to care for others from the subtle aspects of considerate.
The value relationships owned by men usually have a strong tendency to change, so men are more sensitive to larger value relationships and their changes, and have higher foresight and accuracy, and are less responsive to smaller value relationships and their changes, and have lower foresight and accuracy; women's value relationships usually have a smooth tendency to change, so women are more sensitive to smaller value relationships and their changes, and have higher foresight and accuracy; women's value relationships are more sensitive to small value relationships and their changes, and have lower foresight and accuracy; women's value relationships are more sensitive to small value relationships and their changes, and have higher foresight and accuracy. Women have value relationships that usually have a smooth tendency to change, so women are more sensitive to smaller value relationships and their changes, and are more predictable and accurate, and less predictable and accurate to larger value relationships and their changes.
Four, men and women in the emotional flexibility of the difference
Men's emotions come and go in a hurry; women come and go leisurely. Men's love is easy to produce and easy to disappear; women's love is not easy to produce, but once produced and not easy to disappear. Like the old and new, see the different, thinly veiled, more men than women; old love is unforgettable, coupled with those who break the silk, more women than men. Because of this, there are always a lot of "women in love" in the world.
Men have the value of most of the relationship with the trend of rapid change, women have the value of most of the relationship with the trend of smooth change, the rate of change of emotion only with the value of the relationship between the speed of change corresponds to, in order to effectively guide and control their own thinking or behavioral activities.
Fifth, the difference between men and women in the emotional hierarchy
Women's emotions are more superficial, they pay more attention to the immediate, local, low-level value, pay attention to the surface, the form of interest, it is difficult to consider their own development prospects from a long-term perspective; men's emotions are more grand and deep, they are more concerned about the long-term, the whole, high-level interests, there are great emotional The goal and the pursuit of value, have a broad mind and a grand cause.
For a long time, women's social status is low, the value of their own relationship is usually immediate, local and low-level, its longevity and hierarchy is completely dependent on and significantly lower than the value of the man's relationship; due to social constraints, the scope of the woman's activities is very limited, the inevitable short-sightedness of their insights, which fundamentally determines that it is difficult for her to have the value of the value of far-sightedness. The pursuit.
Sixth, men and women in the emotional independence of the differences
Women's emotions have a lower relative independence, more by others or the environment, easy to be affected by others' hints, infections and temptations, easy to be subjected to moral norms, ethical concepts, the traditional habits of thought, easy to be guided and educated by the elders, teachers, friends and the social media; women are easy to follow the behavioral trends, trends of thought and emotional trends, and women are easy to follow the behavioral trends, trends of thought and emotional trends, and women are easy to follow the behavioral trends, trends of thought, and emotional trends. Women are easy to follow the trend of behavior, thought and emotion, not dare to stand outside the trend, would rather be drowned by the trend, rather than be alone to bear the social cold; women are very concerned about and care about other people's views and attitudes towards themselves; many of the emotional characteristics of women are acquired, and gradually formed in the influence of the surrounding environment; women's pursuit of men is entirely based on the value standards of the times, and the times give men with different natural and social characteristics a different destiny, and women's pursuit of men is based on the value standards of the times. Characteristics of men with different destinies, women will look at different destinies of men with different eyes, what kind of men, women love what kind of men. On the contrary, men's emotions are less affected by others or the environment, not blindly chasing fashion and trends, with a high degree of relative independence.
Women's value relations are usually based on others' value relations and dependent on others' value relations, which determines that women's emotions are usually based on others' emotions and influenced and constrained by others' emotions.
Seven, men and women in the emotional rationality of the differences
Women are thinking with emotion to the animal, women like to follow the feeling to go, follow the feeling to love a person, hate a person, to do a thing, to judge the good and bad of a thing, to evaluate the advantages and disadvantages of a book, with the emotion of a piece of art work to admire, to worship an idol, faith in a religion, in order to achieve their emotional purpose, willing to In order to realize her emotional purpose, she is willing to pay her time, energy, money and even life, she does not quite believe in objective standards, objective needs, logical thinking, and does not quite listen to any advice from reason. Sometimes reason clearly tells her that there is no benefit in doing so, but she still does it without complaint under the drive of emotion.
Men are animals who think with reason, men like to explore the ins and outs of things, like to analyze the inner regularity of the movement and change of things and their objective motivation, like to use objective standards to judge a person's good or bad, to evaluate the advantages and disadvantages of a book, his views and practices on many issues appear to be ruthless but objective and fair, and he is only after full argumentation and objective comparisons, and only then into the his time, energy, money and life, and would not hesitate to stop as soon as reason told him that there was no advantage in doing so. Although he also has emotional impulses, but that is only an individual case, in the vast majority of the time, reason in his will activity occupies an absolutely dominant position.
Practical relations must be built on the basis of factual relations and value relations **** the same role, the will must be built on the basis of cognition and emotion **** the same role, there are two basic ways for a person to raise the level of his will: one is to raise the level of his cognition or reason; the second is to raise the level of his emotions. Women due to social constraints, the scope of its activities is very narrow, the level of intelligence is very limited, only by improving the level of emotion for limited compensation, so women's will is more subject to emotion, less subject to reason. Women tend to be comfortable in matters where the value relationships are complex and the factual relationships are simple, but are at a loss in matters where the value relationships are simple and the factual relationships are complex. On the contrary, many men have a higher level of intelligence and lower emotional level, can easily obtain wealth from nature, but in the process of interpersonal communication often lose wealth; can be flexible and comfortable to master nature, but in the intertwined human relations and interests of disputes in front of often feel confused.
Eight, men and women in the emotional expression of the differences
Women's expression, especially facial expression than men, strolling the streets can be noticed both men usually stagnant face, fixed expression, the woman is the opposite, her expression is often changing, the corner of the mouth folds change especially rich. Tears is an effective expression of women, women's tear ducts are very developed, both unconsciously and naturally express the desire or need, but also consciously and consciously express the desire or need. In addition, a woman's body posture expression, language tone expression, etc. is also far richer than men.
The objective purpose of all expressions is to show their value needs to others in order to gain their help and cooperation. Because a woman's value relationship is more dependent on the value relationship of others, she can only get timely help and cooperation from others by expressing her value needs to others in a timely and accurate manner through rich and complex expressions. A man's value relationship, on the other hand, is more directly based on his own labor power, and he only needs to rely on his own strong labor power to obtain wealth from nature and social activities, without showing his value needs to others too much.
Nine, men and women in the emotional cover-up of the differences
Women are good at expressing and revealing their emotions, but also good at covering up and exaggerating their emotions. Many women are always trying to maintain a "lady" like image, everywhere looks so "serious", there is a strong sense of prevention and self-repression; always try to control their own enthusiasm, although the heart is a fire, the face shows great indifference; do not like to open too many jokes, try to show that they have a good sense of humor, they do not like to play a joke, try to show that they have a good sense of humor. like to make excessive jokes, try to show the temperament of gentle and elegant; women more often than men lie, thinking "yes", but the mouth said "no", thinking "love", but the mouth said "hate". But on the "hate"; heart in the prayers for men, the mouth but with men vomit; women in the coyness of pampering is not very feel awkward; in order to cause a man's special attention, women are often in a variety of ways to show their own.
Women's emotional cover-up is often centrally embodied in the man to show their noble, noble and elegant, to show that they have a high moral quality, cultural quality and social status, so that in the process of interaction with men, to master the initiative in and out, in order to maximize the compensation for their own dependence on the reality of social status, to compensate for the passivity of their own interpersonal communication process. In addition, the interests of people are often inconsistent, or even completely opposite, the woman's emotional cover-up is also to protect themselves from the attack of social opinion, from the jealousy of their peers, to reduce the number of competitors and hostiles, and to make themselves at all times to leave a way back, to leave room for manoeuvre.
X. Differences between men and women in emotional efficacy
Women usually have higher emotional intensity and lower emotional efficacy. When the fate and future of a major breakthrough (and a man of his choice to marry or find a satisfactory job) when the woman will appear to be more happy than the man, however, once the environment has become poor, life has encountered setbacks, the woman will appear to be more difficult and despair; she is sometimes fuss, fuss, often because of some trivial and often cry, looking for death; she sometimes shows extreme resentment, cruelty and Insults; women's strong emotional sensibility on the one hand, showing viciousness, cruelty and other devilish temperament, on the other hand, also shows tenderness and compassion, innocence and other angelic temperament. However, they often only stay in the emotional experience and emotional expression, not good and not easy to transform these emotions into practical action.
Women often need to rely on the strength of her man to realize the pursuit of value, and this process will always encounter this or that resistance, there will always be a certain probability of failure, which will inevitably reduce her emotional efficacy, as a means of compensation, she had to increase the intensity of their emotions to attract the attention of the man's attention to ensure that the change of their emotions corresponds to the change of the value relationship. changes in value relationships correspond.
XI. Differences in Emotional Preferences between Men and Women
Differences in emotional preferences between men and women are fundamentally dependent on differences in value relationships between men and women.
(A) like
Women like men with simple language, simple language often contains more wisdom, and give people room to imagine, so that people feel the charm of mystery; women like men who are decisive, decisive is a strong embodiment of the will to live; women like men with ambition, ambition urges people to get ahead and give people hope; women like men who dare to take risks, adventure can show mystery and courage; women like men who dare to take risks. Adventure can show the mystery and courage; women like calm men, calm can convey the man's self-control and self-confidence; women like men with a sense of humor, humor shows the wisdom of the superhuman and optimistic attitude towards life; women like dashing men, dashing full of enthusiasm, vitality, vitality and self-confidence; women like generous men, generosity means spiritual or material wealth, means selfless dedication, means confidence in their own abilities; women like generous men, generous means spiritual or material wealth, means selfless dedication, means selfless dedication, means selfless dedication, means self confidence in their own abilities. Means confidence in their own abilities; women like men who keep their promises, keep their promises means that they dare to take responsibility, giving people a reliable hope; women like mature men, maturity can reflect the man's insight into the world, adapt to the world and the ability to transform the world. In a word, women like powerful men.
Men like beautiful women, beautiful to give people the enjoyment of beauty, beautiful contains the inner health and strong fertility; men like gentle and considerate woman, gentle and considerate is a man fierce struggle after the harbor, is the competition after the failure of the appeasement; men like happy women, happy to make people feel the joy of life; men like women who are responsible for the work of women who are responsible for the work of the family to withstand the storms, always Withstand the wind and rain, always accompanied by the man's sinking and floating, so that men have no worries; men like naive and pure love of women, naive and pure love means that emotional attachment and commitment to the simplicity or uniqueness; men like to understand the woman, understanding the woman, understanding the buffer can be a lot of contradictions and friction; men like to shed tears of women, tears means that the will of the man's obedience to the man's strength of the affirmation of the man; men like to Men like shy women, shyness comes from the internalization of moral feelings, can reflect the moral quality of women; men like romantic women, romance makes a person's life full of vitality and vigor. In a word, men like women who can give strong support and positive cooperation.
Women are interested in costumes and make-up. As long as a dress meets the psychological needs of women, it will soon be popular; women spend money on weekdays, available in the dress is not stingy; dress as long as the full display of their own charms, wear it even if it is difficult for her to complain, and then the cold days, and then the wind, even if it is freezing to the limbs numbness, purple lips, she also wants to wear a skirt; every day before going out, always strictly check their costumes whether or not to offend the audience, the first night, the first night, the first night, the first night, the first night, the first night. Before going out every day, she always strictly checks whether her dress offends the audience, and carefully plans her dress for tomorrow on the first night; if she doesn't have the right dress, she won't be able to eat or sleep; she spends her time on dress and make-up every day, and I don't know how many times as many as a man's; in order to show her own advantages, she wears super-short, super-thin and super-dewy dresses; in order to cover up her own defects, she wears wigs, fake breasts and shoulders, and makes false eyelashes and false double eyelids. The beauty of the human body and its revealed temperament is the most important content of a woman's value, and a woman shows it through her dress and masquerade in order to attract men and win their attention and love.
Women love their families. The ultimate destination of love is marriage, the family is a concrete symbol of marriage, once a woman has a family will dedicate all their love to it, she is easy to experience from the beautiful and harmonious family atmosphere of satisfaction and comfort, but also easy to be frustrated because of the family's doom; she sees the family as her world, the stage of her life, she is at home because of the need to satisfy the man, the child, the old man to feel contented; she is at home to run the household, give birth to children, to realize the family's needs, to fulfill the family's needs. She realizes her own value and finds her place and home in it. The reason why women love the family is that the family is the center of value connection between men and women, and it is the repository of men's money, status and fame. Women obtain men's benefits through the family and realize their own value through the family, and once they lose the family, they will lose all the sources of value and the direction of value.
(2) Hobbies
Women love to be jealous. Jealous than her young and beautiful women, jealous than her gorgeous women, jealous than her rich and noble women, jealous than her family happy women. Of all the jealousy, the woman's strongest and most profound jealousy is not to get the love of men. Driven by jealousy, women sometimes denigrate and malign others and speak ill of them, especially behind their backs. When two women's interests are based on the same man's interest relations, there are bound to be contradictions and conflicts, it is easy to produce jealousy of the emotions, the objective purpose of which is to weaken the other side of the interest relations with the man, so as to maintain and develop their own interests from the man.
Men like to fight. Men in the fight to express, test, cultivate and exercise their own strength and wisdom, and access to money, status and fame, to win men's friendship and women's hearts; men's society only recognizes the strength and wisdom, do not believe in tears, despise the cowardice and stupidity, "the winner is the king, the loser is the enemy," is the truth of the world of men. In order to maintain and develop their own interests, men can only rely on their own strength and wisdom to struggle and fight bravely, can not depend on anyone, and can not hope for anyone.
Men love the old and the new. Men often feel that other people's wives are better than their own, lamenting that there is no wildflower fragrance, often "eat the bowl, looking at the pot"; men from love to marriage is often "from slave to general" process of change, often love to the grave of the process of change! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need, and then you have to pay for the services you need, and then you have to pay for the services you need.
Women love to be dependent. When she encounters difficulties, always eager for men's care and help; when she encounters danger, always ask for men's protection and care; when she tells her troubles, always hope that men quietly listen and patiently appeasement; when she needs care and love, always hope that the man selflessly provide; when she left the man, always hope that the man's nostalgia; when she made some achievements, always hope that the man's compliments and flattery; when she When there are shortcomings, always ask men to be broad-minded, broad-minded; when she vents childish emotions, always hope that men will be default. The woman's emotional and behavioral dependence is entirely rooted in her value relationship dependence.
Women are vain. It is human nature to aspire to money, status, and fame, but when one's own strength does not create these honors, this aspiration will be transformed into vanity. The glory that a woman adores is usually the glory that is now esteemed, popular, and fashionable; if she is dissatisfied with her own situation, she will direct her dissatisfaction to the man to whom she is attached; if she is slighted by the glorifier, she will exponentially despise the man to whom she is attached; in pursuit of this glory, she sometimes condescends to honor her own marriage, and sacrifices her own love; once a woman has gained this glory, she will be eager to Show it; if a woman married to a man with no education, no status, will feel infinite shame, in front of others never dare to mention; many of the woman's passion from the vanity, if the woman lost vanity, will lose the goal of life and become empty and lonely; women often like the flattery of others, and sometimes know that the other side is flattered will also feel sweet; in the woman of all the vanity, only by a man chasing the most. Only by men is the most dazzling vanity. Woman due to history and social oppression, can not rely on their own strength to fight for glory, only to rely on her dependence on the man, so she chose on the one hand to have the glory of the man, choose the times of the respected, favored man, on the other hand, always driving her dependence on the man to obtain the money, status and fame.
Women love to fantasize. Fantasy is a woman's self-editing, self-acting, self-appreciation of the stage, where she can escape the impact of reality, experience a lifetime dare not experience the danger of creating a lifetime can not be created heroes, feel the reality of not getting the happiness, to show the unspeakable desire to open others can not see through the heart of the secret. Fantasy for women is like an emotional simulation exercise and virtual training, in the case of serious social oppression and constraints, women through fantasy to envision a better future, explore the reality of some of the dilemmas of the solution to eliminate the reality of the heart of the imbalance produced by the inspiration of their own artistic imagination, to see their own real aspirations and the pursuit of perfecting their own image of love, the image of their own hate to break down, to vent their pain and joy, and to give vent to their pain and joy, and to open up the secrets of the heart of others can not see through. To give vent to one's pain and joy, to fill one's emptiness and loneliness, for self-appreciation and self-indulgence.
Women love fortune-telling. Women than men extraordinarily believe in omens and fate, any one of the strange dreams, abnormal weather, abnormal physiological phenomena, eyelid fluttering, uncommon animals may be treated as some kind of fate omen, any form of fortune-telling methods such as lottery, fortune-telling, palmistry, swinging Parker, dreaming, etc. She is devoutly believe that every word of the fortune-telling Mr. She has taken as a sacred decree in her heart, every "Guidance" she strictly follow. Women often bet on love and marriage, she especially believe in luck and fortune. Usually only those who can not grasp their own destiny, only extraordinarily believe in omens and fortune-telling, because of the value of women's relationship dependent on the value of men's relationships, women's fate is usually in the hands of men and not in their own hands, women's destiny than men's destiny more than a few points of uncertainty, when she is dependent on the destiny of the man's uncertainty or unreliable, the woman relied on the fortunetelling to pray for their own happiness.
(3) Interest
Women are usually not interested in philosophy. Philosophy is the highest wisdom of mankind, it is not close to the affinity of all things, not bound by secular concepts, not subject to the sway of the real interests, it is objective, impartial attitude to all things, but women are thinking with emotion, see all things are colored with subjective colors, and the basic principles of philosophy in opposition; philosophy is a fearless study, which dares to face up to and say that the part of the people dare not face up to and say that Philosophy is a fearless study, it dares to face up to and say that part of the truth that people dare not face up to and say, while women dare not face up to their own situation, dare not face up to their own dependence on men, can only carry out self-deception and deception, and do not want to let others poke through their own lies and false masks; women do not want to transform the world through philosophical guidance, but only want to adapt to the world through the guidance of the emotions, philosophy is conducive to thinking, but is not conducive to dealing with the world, while women need to deal with the world. The woman's emotions make her smooth, versatile, vague and elastic so as to be flexible in the world; the woman does not want to replace her emotions with reason, does not want philosophical thinking to undermine the logic of her emotions and impede the use of her emotions. Men are the masters of the world, and must face the world they are facing, looking for where life comes from and where it is going, bearing more external threats and oppressions to life, so men need philosophy more than women.
Women are interested in religion. Religion speaks to the real needs of the human mind. A woman's theoretical understanding of religion is superficial, but her emotional feeling for religion is profound, and she connects with religion through emotion rather than through reason. Religion provides a reasonable basis and place for women's fantasies. Religious fantasies can fully satisfy all kinds of women's emotional needs and can save women from the bitter sea of reality. Fear of mysterious things is the driving force behind people's approach to religion, and the object of women's fear is in fact mainly men and men's society, mainly men's tallness, courage, solemnity, and the mysteriousness that comes out of their sensitivities. Women's worship of God, Allah or the Bodhisattva is in fact the worship of men and men's society.
Twelve, the development trend of emotional differences between men and women
Should be dialectically understood from the following aspects of the differences between men and women in the emotional:
One is that this difference is objective, not subjective judgment. It is not subject to the subjective will of people, whether you recognize it or not can not be changed. This is not an intentional degradation of women's emotions and malicious attacks, but an objective description of women's emotional weaknesses. It is precisely because of the inferiority of women's social status that women ask for equality between men and women in terms of social status; and it is precisely because of the existence of weaknesses of women's emotional characteristics that women are asked to be self-improvement, self-supporting, self-respecting, and self-loving.
Two, this difference is historically formed, not naturally determined and eternal. It is a product of a certain stage of development of the social productive forces, which initially arose from the natural division of labor in reproduction and developed along with the division of labor and occupation. When the productive forces of society are fully developed, this difference will in turn be gradually reduced to the point where it will eventually disappear. We should not only see this development trend, but also conform to it, and make our own efforts to improve women's social status and perfect women's emotions, so as to accelerate the process of eliminating the differences between men's and women's emotions.
Thirdly, this difference is general and average rather than specific and individual. It is a description of the average level of society rather than the individual level. Many women were and still are self-improving, self-reliant, self-respecting, and self-loving, and they are not dependent on any man either in terms of objective interests or subjective emotions, but this should not be used to negate the dependence of women on men's interest and emotional relations in general and average perspectives.
With the further development of social productive forces, the labor advantage of men in social production will gradually disappear: on the one hand, the proportion of physical labor in the overall social labor will become smaller and smaller, and the advantage of men in physical strength will gradually lose its significance; on the other hand, the gradual disintegration of the closed political, economic, and cultural system, the woman from the family to the community, and the scope of its activities more and more extensive, the content of its activities more and more rich, the woman's interests and emotional relations. On the other hand, with the gradual disintegration of the closed political, economic and cultural system, women are moving from the family to the society, and the scope of their activities is getting wider and wider, and their activities are getting richer and richer. The relative growth of labor power has raised women's economic and political status, and women's value relations have gradually broken away from the dependence on men's value relations, and women's emotions have also gradually broken away from the dependence on men. With the decrease in the number of children and the socialization of domestic work, women's burden in childbearing, parenting and education will be relatively smaller, and the differences in physiological structure and physiological function will also be gradually reduced. Women's value relations will become more and more consistent with men's, which will inevitably lead to more and more consistency between men and women in terms of emotional intensity, stability and effectiveness.
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①Qiu Dehui, Unified Value Theory, China Science and Technology Press, 1998.
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