People must be ready to say goodbye at any time.
It is best to understand that loneliness is one of friends who will never betray others.
You'd better buy an umbrella before you are timid about love.
No matter how much you are loved, you should never believe in happiness.
No matter how much you love others, never love too much.
Love is like four seasons,
It's just something that makes life colorful without getting bored.
The moment you say love, it will melt and disappear like crushed ice.
Goodbye, one day.
Just like there is no eternal happiness.
There is no eternal misfortune.
One day, we all have to say goodbye.
But one day, we will meet again.
Some people will remember being loved before they die.
Some people will think of having loved.
I will definitely remember loving.
I used to think that love was within my reach, but it took me many times to realize that love was impossible to meet. In this poem, love is not denied, but reminds us not to be too persistent, not to be forced, not to be brave, and love needs a kind of fate.
Love is beautiful, but it is not the only beauty in the journey of life. Even if you haven't experienced love, you still have to live well. Even if you have had love, you should learn to let it go slowly when your lover leaves.
There is an old couple in their 80s living upstairs in my house. They love each other very much. Every night, you can see them walking around the community hand in hand. Their eyes are full of love.
I heard that when my grandmother was young, her family was very rich, and she didn't suffer much, so she was not good at housework. After grandpa and grandma fall in love, they undertake housework, grandma is responsible for beauty, and grandpa is responsible for supporting the family. This kind of collocation once caused the discussion of others. Some people say that grandpa is not like a man and always walks around the kitchen table. Some say grandma is outrageous, and a woman doesn't do housework; Some said that grandma was very happy and found a husband who would hurt people ... In short, she said everything, but no matter what others said, she just smiled and didn't respond. Feelings are what you want. Fortunately, only I know whether I am happy or not, and no one else can interfere.
In this way, the two loved each other all their lives.
However, not long ago, grandpa had a heart attack and left forever.
Grandma hasn't been downstairs since. I heard that she was ill. The disease came like a mountain. Maybe she couldn't accept the fact that her grandfather died for a while and suddenly collapsed. First hypertension complications, then diabetes, back and forth in and out of the hospital many times, two months, the whole person lost weight.
The family was afraid that grandma would be sad to see grandpa's things and wanted to rent another house for grandma, but grandma didn't agree.
Later, grandma said every day that her chest was jammed with panic, headache, stomachache and leg pain, and she couldn't sleep all night. I went to the hospital for examination, and the doctor said it was no problem.
Later, I went to see a psychiatrist. The doctor said it was because grandma was not prepared for grandpa's departure, missed too much and was a little depressed. It was suggested that she divert her attention and gradually reduce her sense of missing.
After listening to the doctor's words, everyone suggested that grandma get in touch with other old people and dance square dance. Grandma shook her head and said, "I won't go." Everyone belongs to my wife. I can't get along with them. "
The family tentatively asked, "Do you want to find a partner?"
Grandma suddenly showed a sad expression and shook her head desperately and said, "I only love your grandfather." He hurt me all my life, and no one else will do this to me. " I'm not interested in anyone except your grandfather. "
At some point, tears flowed down again.
Grandma's love for grandpa is deep in the bone marrow, and it is harder for her to forget than to ascend to heaven. Everyone is at a loss, but everyone knows in their hearts that they must find a reason for grandma to live.
Later, grandma found a way to mourn herself. She began to write memoirs, pinning her thoughts on her grandfather in words. Tears will still flow down every time I write a touching place, but with the passage of time, this yearning for grandpa has become a condiment of life, and her life has gradually taken on a new flavor.
Long time no see, seeing grandma again, I asked her obliquely how to get through it. She said with a smile, "once I dreamed of your grandfather, and he told me to live for him for a few years and not to hurt my health again." If you miss him, write a memoir. Take this book to him when I get there. He is waiting for me there. I want to see him again in the best state! "
I was amused by my grandmother and moved at the same time. How much courage does grandma need to overcome the pain of losing her loved ones! This is the treasure of an old man's life, and every day he is alive should be taken seriously!
In fact, in this world, no one can never be old, and no one can really have a person for a lifetime, but we should all try our best to protect our lovers and cherish the time together; If you lose it, you should also know that this is the normal state.
After reading so many things about life and death, I realized that the biggest test of life is not money, fame and fortune, but being free from life and death. The greatest practice in life is to let go, so as to eliminate the pain and live comfortably.
Let us believe that all the friends and relatives who have passed away will meet again one day!