If the conditions permit, it is better to bring up the children by yourself. Most of the old people will only spoil the child, not control the child. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
The child will always grow up slowly, their own hard work, while taking care of the child, while doing something to earn a little pocket money, but also will not be out of society too much.
Now there are a lot of moms who take their children's daily lives and make videos and post them on the Internet, which can record the children's growth process and earn money.
Female compatriots, no matter when you do not give up their careers, once you give up, you will lose the social value and self-worth of the double recognition. In this case, even if your own husband how rich, you will give up these, gradually lose your patience and respect, when you reach out to him for money with the increase in the number of times, will be very impatient to throw you! Couples after marriage, whether it is the face of the elderly at home, children, etc., should be in line with the basis of mutual respect, together with communication and negotiation, *** with the same commitment to solve! In this way, an equal relationship between husband and wife, the quality of marriage is likely to be solid and harmonious!
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The core of activating the birth of the population: vacate the nursery, allocate enough food for the nursery, and give enough time for the birth of the child. Because, in ancient times, the emperor's family needed to hire a tai shi, and it is even more impossible for a single modern family to raise a good child on its own. So, we have to pool the efforts of the community to **** up our offspring.
Carrying a doll can not do professional work, do a good job of professional work can not accompany the child, with their own children do not have social value and status recognition ...... has become a post-industrial information age hinder population birth subjective factors in the three mountains. For this reason, in the case of the total number of births declining sharply for many years, in 2021 China ended the restrictive "family planning" that had been practiced for many years, and began to implement the policy of encouraging the birth of a population. So how can we fundamentally activate the nation's fertility after the population has become urbanized and concentrated, and the productive workforce has become professionalized?
First, Empty the nursery
Modern human society is built on the basis of privatization of productive labor resources, human society into the era of urbanization, this absolute privatization of the drawbacks in the birth of the population here embodied in the fullest. A large town can't find a single non-operational playground that belongs to children. Schools are closed during non-teaching hours, and custodial services outside of teaching hours are paid for; libraries, youth centers, museums, and sports stadiums are surface buildings in towns and cities, but very few young children are able to go there on their own; and the land used to build residential areas in towns and cities, although in fact belonging to the owners, is managed by the property owners. The land for the construction of urban residential neighborhoods belongs to all owners in fact, but the management right belongs to the property. Therefore, the neighborhood public **** space is actually not a safe place for children to play freely, such as green belts prohibit children from stepping on, small square adults such as the elderly square dance and children compete for land, a little larger open space are commercialized such as painted parking spaces, put a vending machine.
Children who do not have a place to play outside the classroom can only follow their parents on the road, which is a huge waste of growth time, but also a huge waste of the family's labor capacity; the pursuit of the unit to maximize the value of the private recreational venues do not welcome all the children, even if the empty field of the people do not give the children the freedom to play, which leads to a huge amount of social property idle and idle and lack of money for the children to seek to play without a door; the child's interests Jumping is too strong, if the child wants to buy things on the family economy is definitely a great burden, if the child wants to buy things are not afraid of affecting the growth and development of children ...... Therefore, the future of the town only to make enough nursery sites + the children should be exposed to the quality of life & auxiliary resources are given "*** enjoy", each family do not have to worry about the child's daily recreation, by that time, each family from the subjective consciousness should dare to give birth to more than one child.
Two , with enough nursery food
Plant growth of the first nutrients from the embryo, the first nutrients from the egg, the first nutrients from the breast milk of mammals, natural life after the birth of all must be adapted as soon as possible to find their own food. However, after human beings entered the modern civilized society of towns and cities, a huge accidental protection has been imposed on underage children, so that families have to bear the burden of the child from birth to adulthood. According to the difference in the judicial definition of each country, the age of legal adulthood around the world ranges from 15 years old to 21 years old, and our country stipulates that people over 18 years old, with normal physical + intellectual development, should bear all the expenses of nutritional supplements and growth until they become adults of full civil behaviors. Expenditures on teaching aids. Therefore, after the birth of the child to the family from agricultural society of the small labor help turned urban society of the absolute "drag oil bottle".
Diapers for 1 year, milk powder for 3 years, more than 12 years of schooling, kindergarten for 3 years, paid by the whole family + 9 years of compulsory education in addition to the tuition fees paid by the family, food supplies + accompanied by at least 18 years of China's provisions for the age of 18 years old, physical + intellectual development of normal people for the full civil behavior of the adult, worried about the child's health and growth + career prospects + the status of the family for a number of years. ...... Therefore, it is said that if you do not have enough millions or have the ability to earn millions of children on the way to grow up or be cautious of childbearing is good, when the birth of a child has become the fastest family "to negative" investment in order to think of young couples do not take the initiative to birth control are difficult.
The people are the people, and the people are the people. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on the price of the product, and then you'll be able to get a good deal on the price of the product, and then you'll be able to get a good deal on the price of the product. Minors are the productive labor force of the society of the future, and today they have to rely on the nutritional supplements provided by their families to make ends meet. However, how can the average working family provide enough food for raising many children when part of the income from grassroots workers' labor is taken up by enterprises and institutions, and part of the income from the purchase of consumer goods is squeezed out of the family's daily necessities? Therefore, the human must learn from the bamboo forest through the rhizome *** enjoy all the growth of nutrients, for all families to give birth to each child with enough "rations".
Third, giving enough time for birth
Once upon a time 996/007/uncontrolled overtime was regarded as a struggle classic, and now in the birth of the population year by year decline, such struggle 2021 by the whole society across the criticism of the hand. However, as of now, the employment environment has not been substantially changed, and the vast majority of grassroots workers will probably still be marginalized by the workplace after the wedding.
Education is one of the most complex and comprehensive behavioral arts in the history of human society. It is like painting, in which parents and teachers color their children over and over again, expecting them to present the picture they envisioned. However, children are independent individuals with full capacity for action and will, and they can discard or add many shades of color according to their own preferences; education is the most difficult painting in the history of human society, because every parent and teacher can only rely on their own experience to guide and assist the child's learning and growth, and can only rely on the known civilizations of human society to guide and assist the child's adaptation to life in the unknown; education is the most easily painted painting in the history of human society; and education is the most complex and comprehensive art in the history of human society. Education is the easiest painting in the history of human society, because as long as the environment is adapted, children will always be able to color themselves according to their own preferences, and will always be able to use their existing wisdom and experience to "solve" the problems they encounter in life. Therefore, there is no absolute professional standard for education, no absolute standard of work to be found, no absolute standard output.
Accompaniment is the best growth education for children, it is different from the Netflix punch card, point to the line, accompanied by the children to learn and grow need to be full of endurance and long time as a guarantee. Although, the school education for parents to take over the child's growth counseling work for a long time. However, after school, weekends, legal holidays, winter/summer vacations ...... Parents are the only ones who are responsible for their children's learning and development for the majority of the time. Therefore, to give parents enough time to teach their children to learn and grow, so that couples of childbearing age more time to return to family life is a variety of basis of the "golden version", such as social adult recreation to implement business hours, enterprises and institutions to relax the relative working hours of childbearing-age workers, improve the community level integrated childhood recreation & increase parent-child interaction recreation frequency. Interactive recreation frequency ......
The land is wide enough to nourish more plant life, and the food plants are plentiful enough to nourish more animals. Although, the vast majority of modern townspeople no longer have the means to pursue a larger living space. However, the three fundamentals of basic public **** activity space, food supply, and reproductive time that affect population fertility have remained unchanged since ancient times. Therefore, after the liberalization of fertility policy, the core of China's activation of fertility is: vacate the nursery, allocate enough nursery food, and give enough time for birth.
No, my child is the old man to help bring up, a lot of bad habits, too spoiled [face]
It is best to graduate students and through the psychology of bringing children. The first time I saw a woman with a grandchild, da da da da, full of dialect, daughter-in-law angry: da what!9
That will not not want to leave the society, the woman should be economically independent
Honestly! The child does not stay around to bring is a mistake
Such a good condition, it is best to let the elderly enjoy their old age.