The topic of marriage scams seems to be the center of attention on the Internet these days. From celebrities to small entrepreneurs, there have been cases of people being cheated out of their money by marriage, or even killing themselves.
Opinion is mostly directed toward these three areas:
Condemnation of scummy men/women for their moral turpitude;
accusation of irresponsibility on the part of dating websites;
sighing with regret that the parties involved are not sufficiently aware of their rights under the law, or their psychological constructions are too fragile.
For women, most of the marriage scams fall into these three categories:?
Cheating money.
Gay looking for a baby mama.
Scummy guy pretending to be a high roller.
Please click to enter a description for the first, it's easy
The second is heard of more and more often these days. Gay is actually a group of men who are very easy to con successfully, as they tend to have many of the virtues that straight men lack, but which strike a chord with teenage girls. For example, gentle and considerate, meticulous, pay attention to clothing and personal hygiene, know the taste of the girls receiving gifts, and so on.
What's even better is that if their families know the inside story, it's likely that the whole family will come out, and the parents will be even more enthusiastic than the boys. Gifts, large dowries, promises of houses, etc. are not in the cards, the only condition is that you will have children.
But they all have a fatal point: they are very cold to intimacy, or even not at all. At this point they tend to find all kinds of reasons to disguise, such as respect for the girl, such as religious beliefs, want to leave it until after the wedding; or simply play dumb and pretend to be innocent, in the case of only held hands, it is actively promoting the marriage, the first to tie the knot.
Meet this kind of pure love Prince Charming girls please wake up. First of all, respect does not mean that there is no desire, straight men can not be completely free of the urge to move their hands, even if it is not every date to drill the grove, they are more looking forward to the world of two people, rather than every date to hate to call friends, to the crowded place to get together;
Additionally, you may want to check out their apps, traces of Internet access, microblogging attention to the object, the computer to save a variety of small movies, and so on. If they are on Gay dating apps or forums, if they follow a lot of Gay V's on Weibo, or if they have Gay V's on their computers, you can basically pass on one of them.
The third kind, the Mary Sue who has princess disease is especially easy to be tricked. If you've never been surrounded by love letters and wooers in your life, the probability of being suddenly loved by a rich man is about the same as being picked by Wang Jianlin as his daughter-in-law. The first thing you need to know is that you're not going to be able to get your hands on any of these things, but you're going to need to be able to get your hands on some of these things, and you're going to need to be able to get your hands on some of these things.
The development of the real story is often like this: the handsome and generous "rich second generation" to marry you, only to politely reveal that the family business owes tens of millions of dollars in foreign debt; the family rich, claimed to have been seriously hurt by the former, just want to find a considerate wife of the quality of the man, a few years after the marriage of the infertile, to find the other side of the problem of reproductive capacity; the just full of the world to show off the proposal of the diamond ring, the world is the most important thing. The world to show off the proposal diamond ring, turn around and found that the fiancé in his hometown early wine not licensed wife and children, but they are just a second house ......
How to break it? A little difficult. Lengthened by the pursuit of the front, do not too quickly be won, which for time is the cost of the scammer, of course, is a big killer. So they often like to pick hate marriage of the girl, the latter see the white horse, has long been happy to go, who cares about the top ride is the prince or the Tang monk;
So the girls or from the periphery to start, more contact with each other's old friends, relatives and cell phones, pay attention to all the contradictions and suspicions (often there are, but many victims chose to not listen to do not see do not believe). Most importantly, or more to enhance their own, efforts to expand the circle of friends, the sooner you recognize your own market in the market, the more it will help you develop a pair of fiery eyes.
And most of the post-wedding chatter: "I was really blind to find you" or "How could I have married you if not for what you did?" If you do feel that you have lost out on this marriage, you may want to submit your photos and information to a dating site, stating "divorced" and "with/without children" to see who is more popular in the marketplace.
From many statistics, the more big cities, the more quality older women. Sometimes a man who has been tempered by his marriage and ex-wife, and has some experience and financial basis, as long as he is not yet bald and pot-bellied, he gets even less favor than the fresh meat. And the same conditions of the lady, even if the divorce before the whole day to be hooked up, after the divorce if you want to find the other half, before those infatuation men may immediately scattered. There is no way, the world is too much looking for a free gun also do not have to be responsible for the scum. The first thing you can do is to marry you as a stepfather, and I guess people will feel that they have been cheated in marriage.