If you want to have a sense of identity with yourself, you have to understand your own suffering. Nobody loves us, but you have to love yourself. Everyone in the world is suffering. All the babies born in Lian Gang are crying. The old man who spends his old age safely has his pains, and everyone has their pains. Living in this society, among a bunch of peers, we should learn to recognize our own hardships. My hardships are only understood by ourselves. When no one else understands us and hugs us, we should learn to hug ourselves. Only by knowing your own hardships can you have this sense of identity and love yourself well.
Understand that complaining is useless, but the last straw that drags you down. Whose fault is it that you have come this far? You have chosen your own path, so we must understand that it is useless to complain, and we can only deny our previous wrong choices and let the wound continue to be salted and continue to suffer. Understand that complaining is the last straw to drag you down, so complaining is a punishment for yourself. Be a person who doesn't complain and face life positively. I am also an ordinary person. I like to complain, because life has given me many hardships. I don't feel any happiness, so I like to complain. As a result, the more complaining, the more painful it is, and it is simply a dead end. Finally, one day I realized that complaining is useless, and it is all negative emotions.
Knowing everything, you can bravely come out and actively think of ways. How can we solve the immediate dilemma and make our life less difficult? So I will actively work hard to open up my own life. I think as long as we work hard, our life will change and we will get out of poverty.