? Attempts: Have a strong desire to achieve your desired goals, not just plans and hopes.
? Proactive: only proactive, the opportunity to grasp in their own hands.
? Enthusiasm: Lift up your spirits and treat others and your work with a smile!
? Love: willing to give, not looking for short-term return, love your career.
? Learning: charge at any time, keep a constant learning mindset, the courage not to stop learning.
? Confidence: believe in your own strength, constantly strive for success, and constantly imagine success, every moment to maintain confidence!
? Self-discipline: develop your self-control.
? Tenacity: Be strong and persistent, not afraid to fail and never get discouraged!
? Persistence: If there is only one secret to success, it must be these two words. Set a reasonable goal, and then "stick" to it, this is the most positive and effective fight!
2. What is your core goal in life and are you actively working towards it?
3. Imagine that one day you will have a positive image, be good at talking, and have a fresh, humorous tone, and be able to fill the atmosphere around you with laughter wherever you go.
4. When faced with a difficult situation, is your choice to leave things to chance and look for help from others, or to stimulate your own potential and actively look for countermeasures? Have you ever escaped from reality? You should stimulate your own great potential, and be brave enough to face the reality that you can handle every thing you encounter in life.
5. The value of self-examination is that it can provide us with a window of communication between the heart and the eyes, not only can you correctly perceive your own state of mind, but also soberly judge your own actual ability to decide on the next step in the behavior, to do what is necessary to be effective, the words of the right, and to receive twice the result with half the effort.
6. A person who is good at examining himself, like a big or small flexible container, always be able to set appropriate goals for themselves, to maximize their own energy release, will never work hard, their life must be far from mediocrity and stupidity.
7. You must have the passion to "crave success as much as you crave air". Maintaining a state of eagerness and having a heart for success is a good start for us to achieve success. The inner desire is only the beginning, but more important is your realization of the program.
8. Confidence is a state of mind of human beings, which is developed by adjusting the inner world and accepting the method of infinite wisdom; confidence is also a kind of adaptive performance to make the power of infinite wisdom cooperate with our clear goals. Confidence is the driving force that allows a person to put ideas into action! Successful people always control their thoughts and express them confidently!
9. Regardless of whether your advice, plans, or any other method of behavior and living is correct or not, if you can learn to demonstrate confidence as the basic style of behavior, in the long run, the subconscious feelings of failure and low self-esteem can be reversed. The key to success is that the subconscious mind must believe that it can succeed.
10. Everyone is full of charisma, has a strong internal and external aura, has an easy-going demeanor, a strong will, and adheres to the right direction in life, as well as an intelligent and kind heart.
11. Only those who are confident and willing to show confidence have a strong aura that radiates outward. Their self-confidence will affect the surrounding environment, forming a unique radiation field with a strong infectious force, which can easily conquer others!
12. First of all, please learn to smile confidently and be willing to work hard to package yourself for attention. Smile, be confident, be open, be courageous, be persistent, be bold.
13. You should try to understand the meaning of a smile with your heart, to really regulate your inner emotions. You know what? Emotions are the key to our hearts, when you smile or not smile to do something, the result is very different. Smile with your heart, the smile from the heart is the most charming.
14. In the "everyone is attractive" smile experiment, 200 people only Chen Yu did the best results, she was not rejected. When Dr. Phil asked her how she did it, Chen Yu calmly said, "I just said to them, "Excuse me, can you do me a small favor? I need a gift, even if it's humble. So they stopped. Well, ma'am, I may have some small gift here that you will be interested in, and I hope you will always be as beautiful as you are now. "That is the infinite charm of a smile. The person who smiles genuinely is beautiful, and people can feel the charm she brings and be conquered by her.
15. "It is easy to smile often when life flows as briskly as a song; and the man who can still smile when all is not well lives a worthy life." Be (able to) keep smiling every moment.
16. "Those whose stocks become a pile of scrap paper overnight but can still keep smiling, I like them not only because they can see through the nature of stock market investing, but also because of their superbly calm aura!" Optimistic people see an opportunity in every difficulty. A smile shows a person's heart, it is a noble symbol that represents the realm one can reach when facing different situations.
17. Smile, be optimistic, and keep a positive interest in tomorrow no matter what the status quo is (maybe a little unpromising).
18. Whenever you are surrounded by frustration, disappointment and pessimism, take out an apple. Look at it for 10 seconds, name its flavor, and take a big bite out of it! This is a method known to all employees in corporate America, easy to do and extremely effective! The seed of optimism is waiting for you in this 10-second process, it will let you quickly calm the six godless mood, help you find a positive mindset, so that you can not help but show a relaxed smile. "The Magic Apple Rule."
19. There is a famous saying, "A smile is the perfect period to end a speech." In my opinion, a smile is more of a ticket to start us on an amazing journey!
20. What can you do in front of 10 strangers, tell a joke, do a dance to MJ, or confidently make eye contact with everyone and send out the "I want to meet you" signal? ...... Bravely embrace the cruelty of "being chosen", and let yourself show your best in front of a fair rule, forcing out the full potential of your inner self.
21. In the 1960s, Milgram, a social psychologist at Yale University, found after a lot of experiments and research that in modern society, you can recognize any stranger in the world through a maximum of six people! This is the famous six degrees of separation theory. "There's no one you can't hook up with, as long as he inhabits the planet, even if he's a Kennedy or an Admiral Nimitz." Graham said, "They are all strangers, but there exists a channel of communication with each other, you just need to find it!" As we enter the information age, this theory is even more true in real life over and over again. Real strangers do not exist, the so-called strangers, in fact, as long as through a certain way to meet and know each other. Expanding the width of one's interpersonal communication, expanding one's vision and circle is to expand one's network and inject more nutrients into one's life. As long as you have enough courage, take the first step and conquer their eyes and hearts with your unrivaled radiance. If you have a strong aura, perhaps you only need two steps to smile and shake hands with Barack Obama, in the White House words!
22. We are in a world that is moving more and more from the traditional society of acquaintances to the society of strangers, families are becoming smaller, and the arrival of the global information age makes one's social interaction expanding day by day, so that your life and strangers produce thousands of links.
23. The sociologist Ronald Porter proposed in 1992 that "the socialization of people is the most important thing in the world". Sociologist Ronald Porter put forward the theory of "structural hole" (structural hole) in 1992, and he defined the gaps between social networks as structural holes. He said that a smart person with entrepreneurial spirit will take the role of a contact person between two people who do not have direct contact with each other at the two ends of the gap, thus occupying a "structural hole". The more structural holes a person occupies, the more important his position in the crowd and the stronger his ability to mobilize relationships to his advantage.
24. When you take the initiative to go to a stranger, you are facing a process of "being chosen". This is true no matter how proactive the behavior.
25. When you find self-confidence, you realize that you are greater than you thought you were.
26. The "3 Seconds Stranger" game stimulates a person's full potential in the shortest possible time, leaving him with no distractions but the most immediate goal, to get those women or handsome men across the street to look at me more, to give me a look of appreciation and admiration. It's like a window, an aura that is intimidating enough to open that window, whereby you are able to enter the world of a stranger who decides within 3 seconds to go deeper with you!
27. Through the training of willpower, we can make ourselves extraordinary, people who can control their inner aura, enhance their beliefs and ultimately realize their own happiness.
28. Everyone has willpower, which lurks silently within our bodies. Willpower is the supreme leader of you and me, and when it explodes, we are invincible.
29. "Willpower is the commander of the body, and the human body is the slave of willpower. You should know that willpower can be trained and improved, and through effective enhancement, a strong will can become a habit in your life and make your life full of miracles everywhere."
30.Will is the unique art of self-direction without external force.
31. You need to maintain a strong will throughout your life and urge yourself to be cautious and persistent in whatever you do. Maintaining a strong will will continue throughout your life, and there will be no day when you will be allowed to relax, unless you want to give up some of your desires and indulge yourself completely for a certain period of time.
32. Some facts you need to understand:
? Very few people give their full attention to something, and if you can manage to focus your intention on something from start to finish, you'll be the first one to cross the finish line.
? The power of self-confidence is the complete release of inner self-tension.
? No one is responsible for you, except you. Everyone's destiny is in their own hands alone, you and me. Therefore, your mind is hope!
33. Willpower training, regardless of any occasion, it is carried out in your daily actions, every minute and every second to test you, to remind you must pay attention to whether you have the power of perseverance!
34. 10 minutes of aura training each time:
35. Early in the morning: deep breathing can make the aura from weak to strong, set goals for the day and stabilize the direction of the aura.
36. Noon: Calm the mind and firm the will so that the aura continues to strengthen and ensure the quality of the day.
37. Evening: Reflection and organization are very important for us to be well prepared for tomorrow when the aura is changing from strong to weak and the body and mind will go to sleep.
38. The aura is both a reflection of one's ability and the ability to influence and infect others with the same enthusiastic, positive and optimistic attitude as you. When you have a strong aura, you can not only enhance your interpersonal relationships, control your career, and overcome all kinds of difficulties, but also maintain good health and gain family happiness. If you want to gain the support of your colleagues, the loyalty of your employees, lead your team to a better future, have a healthy life, and realize your life's dreams, then you must allow yourself to first have a strong aura, which is often referred to as charisma. Stranger training, designed to stimulate potential, boost confidence and improve image, can help us do just that.
39. Success lies not in what you know or who you know, but in how popular you are. A popular person is usually trustworthy, proactive, conscientious, decisive and tries to live seriously.
40.Carnegie said, "You make more friends by spending two months discovering the good in others than you do by spending two years letting others discover the good in you."
41.Aura is not learned, but cultivated. Develop your aura! "Work for successful people before I let successful people work for me." The process of cultivating your aura is a process of improving your temperament, your eyes begin to become firm, your feet no longer hesitate, your heart is no longer confused, and your whole person is positive and confident.
42. A person who cannot dominate himself, how can he be the protagonist in the eyes of others? More than 2,000 years ago, the ancient Greeks carved "Know thyself" as an inscription on the temple of Delphi, first of all, "Know thyself".
43. "I know exactly what I'm going to do, every day." Gates said quietly, he was even a little shy, "A man just has to remember to be his own protagonist. The logic is simple, because he first has to know himself and be in control of himself in order to develop his own strategy in life, before he can be the protagonist in the eyes of others. So, I have only one piece of advice, recognize yourself before you work with others." (Phil in a conversation with Gates)
Straight back, chest up, eyes level? Bent over and slightly hunched over
? Standing with arms crossed
? Standing with legs crossed
? Standing with hands in pockets
? Stand against a wall
? Standing with your hands behind your back
These seven poses comprise a collection of almost every standing position the world's 6.5 billion people can think of.
44. Back straight, chest up, eyes flat, if not deliberately camouflaged, that person has a strong self-confidence, giving people the impression of "lofty", "optimistic and happy", willing to communicate with you on any issue. He has a strong aura, and he is the only one who has a strong aura.
45. No matter what the social posture and aura, it is ultimately reflected in the inner cultivation and the unique understanding of life, these need to be trained, but also need to live the ups and downs of refining!
46. The inner cultivation and strong life experience can be projected from the hands and feet, and instantly conquer the people present.
48. You must have a goal of aspiring to a strong aura and a hundredfold effort to do so! Only then can you hope to become a role model in the minds of others. A positive attitude and a rigorous grasp of details are very important in our lives. When you fail to be the main character in the rivalry between two people, you are destined to be relegated to a supporting role in your future together. Whether it's work, life or love, striving to be the one with the strongest aura is a pursuit we **** the same. This is a world of the strong, only the spirit of initiative can help you achieve your goals, no matter what you have to do, waiting for pie in the sky will only end up in vain!
49. If you have enough confidence, make a business plan for yourself! Only our inner selves are the best, and each of us can be the person others most want to see when they wake up in the morning! When you start thinking like this, you are one step closer to the most powerful aura!
50. "What does your heart want from life? Is it to achieve certain goals, or to enjoy an enjoyable process? Whether or not you can climb to the top of the mountain often depends on how strong your desire; but this is not enough, just like a rare sword, only beautiful appearance can not do to sharpen the iron like mud, but also have a tough material, after a long hardening and polishing! This is for your inner quality is a harsh requirement!"
51. Successfully selling out yourself is the premise of your aura to be proved, but also in the interpersonal relations of the foundation of a firm footing, you have to have self-promotion consciousness and courage. You must take the initiative to open the door of your heart, not sit in your room and wait for God to arrive on a cloud. There are 6 billion people on this planet, don't expect God to find the small you shrinking in the room!
52. Smile: the power of the heart. "Please practice smiling in front of the mirror first, it's very important for you, it's a homework you should do every day." Eyebrows and eyes occupy almost the most important place on a person's face. When eyebrows and eyes are present, a person's aura comes out. Smile every day and make your smile more attractive by practicing.
53. The power of inspiration of the mind is infinite, anyone can be infected by you if you are willing to smile.
54. Course training: to the street randomly with strange girls, the condition is in three minutes, with the girl to talk to no less than ten words, and to include three different topics, not just talk about it can be yo.
55. "I think aura is the courage not to doubt myself, so that I believe I can do my best. It's a posture for life."
56. First learn to smile, boldly walk with your head up in crowded places, and confidently survey them, especially the opposite sex. Take the initiative to say hello to friends and classmates, discuss any topic in the world, oh, you will find that life is invincible.
Quoted from Pico Phil's "Aura"