It is best to be at a distance, why is office romance so prevalent? Distance is close, leading to feelings close. Sitting together every day, it is difficult not to produce feelings. Of course this feeling is not necessarily love, however, love sometimes, with other feelings, is not so easy to define; it is very easy to happen to transform each other, so if you are not careful, you will be tricked.
Distance can not establish a sense of intimacy, how to do? Through a variety of contact information, let the other party know that "you are paying attention to him (her)". The scum may contact four or five girls at the same time, we just contact one.
There is a lot of contact, and it's a good thing that you're not used to it, because it's a good thing that you're not used to it, because it's a good thing that you're not used to it.
Secondly, consider the issue from the other's point of view
What the other wants, you give what. In this way, you can gradually let the other side of you produce attachment, produce trust, produce feelings, produce love. If the material is not easy to do, then we have to do at the level of consciousness. The other side of the lack of security, on the promise of companionship; the other side of the lack of trust, on the encouragement.
Normal people, are gradually build relationships. Jagged men are different, at the beginning will be able to give can not give, are given first. When you get used to it and pull out your heart, he runs away.
So if you want to get love, the offense has to be fierce. Of course, here to pay attention to, is to give each other each other want, rather than you want to give. Otherwise, it may be counterproductive.
Third, adhere to, shameless, adhere to shameless
To pursue love, we must adhere to, we must be shameless, we must adhere to shameless.
Thinking of the beginning, this honored pursuit of love, is in the current daughter-in-law asked himself not to go back to her, insist on going to find. In the end, in the poorest of times, chased the daughter-in-law.
Persistence is one of the most important personality qualities, a quality we must use to make anything happen. In the pursuit of love, naturally, it is no exception. As you pursue the other person, the other person is also scrutinizing you. Your shortcomings, your strengths, the other person will consider, but in the end, will form an impression according to the center quality standard. Good impression, then half success; bad impression, then half failure. But then, persistence itself is a good center quality standard. ok. get it?
Don't be shameless, also for persistence. Do you still want to persist when the other person strikes you. It takes shamelessness to continue to persist after the other person strikes you. You have to reverse your impression in the other person's mind by persisting. If you give up easily, then you lose the chance to reverse it.
Fourth, try to improve yourself
While pursuing the other person, you have to try to improve yourself in all aspects. We pursue love and hope to gain beauty and happiness in love. But you can't slam all your energy into this.
There is also a famous saying that if we can't reach an object, why don't we try to walk into some of it?
Improving yourself will improve your attractiveness. It will improve your success rate in everything you go to do.
All in all, there are a lot of ways to improve your success rate in chasing love. The few that are here are certainly not all of them. But if you can integrate them, you will definitely benefit a lot.