On June 6th, Xiao Yang, a sophomore in north university of china, jumped off a building and ended his young life because the invigilator found out that he cheated in the exam and confiscated the test paper!
since I have been engaged in family education, every time I see such a thing, I feel deeply sad and sigh, but I feel that family education has a long way to go!
I think every parent needs to reflect on the incident of Xiao Yang, a sophomore. Why did he cheat in the exam? At the same time, in Xiaoyang's body, we can see his extremely fragile side. Just because he cheated in the exam, he was confiscated by the teacher and sacrificed his young life.
So, when children grow up, do you think your life is more important than your grades? Then who gave the child such an illusion, which led to the tragedy!
In fact, a child cheats to get a higher score, but why does she get a high score? This is closely related to the education given to him by parents, schools and other surrounding environments.
For example, what parents instill in their children is that they will always get high marks before they can get ahead and have a place in society.
Every time at home, the basic communication is to ask the children if they have written their homework? Have you reviewed today? What's the exam score? The communication information with children is always about learning. It seems that in the eyes of parents, children are equal to a learning machine. Let the children feel that what parents value most is my academic performance. If my grades are not good, I will be useless. Parents don't pay attention to the fact that a living child needs fatherly love and maternal love, and he needs the understanding and care of his parents.
For the school, the entrance examination of the school is just the score of the children, and they can't get care and understanding at all, so the children have become the victims of the whole education system and the backhoe man.
this way of education is by no means good for children! On the road to growth. Parents should be children's salvation and dependence, not the last straw to crush their children.