1. The running-in period of the first two years after marriage
Two people who have just entered marriage have a lot of living habits to adapt to in the face of cohabitation after marriage. Small to whether to eat spicy food, go to bed early and love cleanliness, and when to buy a house and have children. Everyone will find that marriage is different from what they think. How beautiful the imagination is, how cruel the reality is. At this time, both men and women need Qi Xin to work together, understand each other's feelings and care about each other's joys and sorrows. Crossing this period, the future will be easier.
2. Acceptance period before and after pregnancy
This period is a great test of the tacit understanding between men and women from families. The woman's reaction during pregnancy, postpartum recovery, emotional conditioning. With children at home, not only husband and wife, but also grandparents and grandparents will participate more than before. At this time, family relations will be more complicated.
Two generations have different ideas about bringing up children. In addition, there will be more conflicts between grandparents' camp and grandparents' camp on trivial matters such as who will help take care of a baby. There will also be unpleasant quarrels between husband and wife around various issues of raising babies. In any case, both husband and wife should support the responsibility of raising the baby and take good care of their love crystallization!
3. Get along for five to seven years.
Husband and wife have been together for a long time, and the other party knows everything, and there is no novelty anymore. Everyday life is step by step, and there is no emotion. So it's easy to get lost in the temptation of the outside world, and get tired of the trivial things in life, and then start to wonder if you are looking for the wrong person. In fact, every couple will go through a dull period. What we need is to create fun and communicate more. Don't love to answer and ignore, and don't muddle along. Many marriages have survived thorns, but they have not survived dullness.
4, the empty nest after the child leaves home.
When the child goes out to study or has a job, the husband and wife don't have to run around the child every day, as if they have lost the motivation of life. I feel that I can't do anything and I can't find my own value. Facing my other half, I have accumulated dissatisfaction for most of my life, and I have no desire to talk together at all.
In fact, in this empty nest period, although the children are not around, it also leaves time and space for both husband and wife to be alone. You can go for a walk together, or dance square dance every day, and find more things to do, and your happiness will be much stronger.
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No marriage is flat, and every happy marriage requires both husband and wife to work together, run together and bravely face all obstacles encountered in marriage. In fact, in addition to these four most sad hurdles, there are countless hurdles in marriage, large and small. However, after encountering problems in marriage, couples need to face them together and find ways to solve them together, so that the marriage relationship can last for a long time.
Enjoying the process of your efforts is actually enjoying life!