How to say when you are urged to get married on New Year's Day
1, the reverse, disrupt the other side of the line
When you are asked about the marriage situation first care about the other side of the line, "Auntie, when is the first cousin going to get married ah?" "When will second cousin have a child ah?" "Uncle a few years salary promotion, right, how much has the salary increased?" "How is your square dance? Have you learned the steps of Little Apple?" The other side either poked the pain no chatting interest, or immersed in their own personal life forget your existence.
2, bitter meat trick
At the time of marriage to do grief, such as the sister-in-law like the last relationship of the unfortunate experience, it is best to add "I no longer believe in love," "My heart is still very painful ah, how to do?" "I'm not ready to start the next relationship," and other lines, the elders see you touching the scene of pity, will stop the topic, and then mention it again after a while.
3, the beauty of the trick, pampered without limits (not applicable to boys)
blinking watery eyes looking at each other's face: "hate it, I'm still small!" "Do you dislike me? You want to marry me off so soon! I still want to stay with mom and dad for a few more years!"
4. Be prepared for the enemy
Responding confidently, "I'm thinking about it, so don't worry." In order not to be nagged by parents nagging words, it is best to put on a look of confidence in the chest, so that people feel that you have found a good back road, everything is going well. But in order to prevent your parents from asking you, you need to make some other preparations, such as faking a non-existent boyfriend's image and information, and making everything up.
New Year's Eve is urged to marriage how to
1, do not have a home not to return
Many people face the parents of the urge to marriage, will choose to have a home not to return to the phone perfunctorily, to save listening to their parents nagging. However, this is not the fundamental solution, and parents are out of good intentions, this practice may have some effect, but hurt is your parents' heart.
2, change the topic
Parents often take the opportunity to call or chat with you about marriage and finding a partner. You can choose to change the topic and divert their attention easily. Seeing that you've changed the subject, they'll be able to restrain themselves as well.
3. Tell them your own thoughts
If you are busy with your career, or you don't really want to find a boyfriend/girlfriend now, or you have other factors, I think you can tell them your own thoughts directly, and I believe they will understand you.
4. Make a plan for yourself and give them assurance
You can think about your plan according to your actual situation, and then tell them when you plan to find a man/girlfriend. If your plan is reasonable and they won't force you to do it, then you can easily get rid of their urgency.
5, try
If you are also interested in finding a man/girlfriend, you can also take this opportunity, by your parents to provide you with the object of the blind date, may also be able to find in the blind date in the eyes of their own people? If the matchmaking object is not suitable, it is also considered to know a friend!
6, in order to retreat into
You can also choose to accept the parents of the blind date arrangement, to see the blind date object. If a few you can't see, it just gives you a reason to tell your parents that the blind date is not suitable for you, you can find your own object.