Of course, you want to have a free nanny to carry on your family line, take care of your children and parents, keep your home in order, and preferably have the skills to make money. If it weren't for continuing the family line, I believe many men would choose not to get married, support themselves with their own wages, and be relaxed and comfortable. They don't have to raise children, and they don't have to listen to their wives' nagging. They can play games and smoke whenever they want. Just smoke and pick up girls when you want, how relaxing and comfortable it is. But reality doesn't allow it. It is said that there are three types of unfilial piety. The greatest is not having an heir. It is my fault that I have not been able to pass on the family bloodline. If I die, I will not have the face to see my ancestors. So they have to get married and have a wife, and they have to have children no matter what. No matter they are poor or rich, they have to get married and have children. Even if they don't have the burden in this regard, their parents will definitely ask them to have children.
It has always been said that reproductive rights belong to women, but in many cases women do not have the right to decide whether to have children or not. If you get married and don’t have children, they will say you are unfilial to your ancestors and cannot even carry out the basic inheritance of the family line. If you don’t get married, many people will attack you for being a woman. Look at someone as great as Yang Liping. No dancer can escape this worldly perspective, let alone us ordinary people? It can be seen that this society really has a lot of prejudice against women. Not only do women have to carry on the family line, but they also have to take care of the housework. In addition, they have to make money to support the family. How tiring. 01. In order to carry on the family line
Human reproduction is passed down from generation to generation. In ancient times, it was believed that the inheritance of offspring was extremely important. Kings would also have various concubines in order to extend their offspring, especially There is a saying about three wives and four concubines. This is still the case today. Although monogamy has become monogamous, women still have to have children in order to pass on the bloodline. If you can't do it, then you are being unfilial in all kinds of ways. You can disrespect your elders and you can not be kind to your juniors, but you just can't not have children. Therefore, even if some men are very resistant to marriage in their hearts, they will find someone to marry and have children in order to cope with the elders in the family; some homosexuals will also find someone they do not love to get married together in order to cope with their parents. And it is necessary to have a son. Even if you have given birth to five daughters before, you must continue to give birth to a son until you can give birth to a son. 02. In order to have a family, you have someone to take care of you
The rule that couples have always followed is that the man takes care of the outside and the woman takes care of the house. This means that the man only needs to work outside to make money and do everything at home. Just leave it to women. The meaning of starting a family and starting a business is that if you want to have a successful career, you must first take care of your marriage. After getting married, women will be busy with housework. They have to take care of all the daily life of their husbands and take care of the children after they have children. Educate children, and from time to time you have to honor the elderly at home. What men only need to do is to be busy with their work, only need to make money, and ignore the rest. If the children have problems in their studies, they blame their mothers for not educating them well. If the house is messy, they blame their mothers for not cleaning them well. In short, just go to your mothers for all problems.
Many people say that getting married is not just for these reasons. There must be some reasons why you decide to get together because of love. There is nothing wrong with this reason, but the current situation of most families is like this. As long as a man marries a wife, he doesn't have to worry about anything. On the contrary, women age faster and faster after getting married.